If you had better things to do , you would be doing them instead of complaining. As far as Websites screaming me me me! What else should the advertisement scream. You, you, you? Enlighten us, so we can advertise better to suit you.
So I heard this term/definition a from co-worker and I thought hmmm that could apply to many Providers.
Did somequick research and came up with the following:
Signs of Toxic People-
* Everything is about them. That right there sums of 99% of all Providers. Just look at the websites and they scream "ME ME ME".
* Are you afraid to disagree with the "toxic" person? The answer is yes when it comes to Providers. Consider when a Provider says something you disagree with in whole or part. You have 30 minutes left in the session. Do you say "No, you are wrong" or do you avoid the subject because you want the next 30 minutes to be good for you?
* You aren't yourself. Face it a Provider has a list of demands YOU must meet to PAY HER. Do you ever send her a list of demands for her to get YOUR money?
I could go on and on. But I am not going to because I have other things to do. (read my latest issue of Popular Science then head to the gym).
R
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I'm doing this from my phone so I apologize in advance for any typos I may miss.
Our websites are supposed to be about us. How often do you see an advert that isn't about the product or service provider in any industry? If you get off backpage and onto actual provider websites, many of them mention the type of people they like to provide for. I have a size/age preference, and I speak to the personality as well.
You are picking the wrong girls if you are unable to disagree, or maybe you are being a jerk about how you go about it. If it's anything like this post, it's likely you speak with a tone that you are right any anyone who doesn't agree is an idiot. That's bound to ruin the mood and it's hard to be genuine around a person who doesn't respect you as an individual. Also, the general rule of conversation should apply: no religion or politics. And for the record, we bite our tongues a fair share too. It's what normal people do when they just don't see a point in debating a certain topic.
Lastly, the mere fact you are paying for a service does in no way man she has no say in how she is treated or where her personal limits are. You are both coming to the table with something the other wants. This requires some negotiating. Some people require more negotiating than others, and that is a sign of self respect. I was told by many that my requirements on my site set me above others immediately simply because I'm selective in how I offer my services.
If you want someone who will shut up, listen to your opinions without voicing their own, who will do exactly as you say, I suggest a blow up doll. Otherwise, please remind yourself that we are people too and we are no more indebted to you than you are too us. We are trading goods (money) for services. Either party can choose for themself how they want to perform that trade.
Either you ate picking the wrong ladies, or you are coming on too strong with unrealistic expectations.
Best wishes,
-AbbyRos
He is an accepted troll by many.
I like your post but Ridgetucky is a jack ass
You might get infected from hoe toxins and end up having ninja turtles when you and da wife have kids. Best not to spend any more than a few hoe hours with dem radioactive hoes.
Based on your misogynistic drivel, I'd say the answer is clearly a resounding "Yes!" Oh, well, at least you are more entertaining than trolls like Espius.
Are you just trying to be cute by playing around with a concept or term new to you. Or, do you not truly not understand the difference between a professional relationship and a civie one? As a professional in a different field, I would problem qualify as being a "toxic" person based on your points. Funny though, no one in my professional or personal relationships have given me any feedback supporting that. In other words, you points about providers could just as well be said of doctors, dentists, lawyers, musicians, authors, artists and the list goes on. It's been really difficult, for me, to not comment, in a derogatory manner, on your intelligence.
He said he will always cherish this...and it doubles as a warning pylon when he parks his car.
Even toxic folks need to be appreciated!
for making fun of the cosmetically challenged.
Besides, JCA really liked getting that cone hat.
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In hindsight, I gave up the booze, wouldn't want to make any more bad decisions...
That's one story I doubt you will see on an episode of Intervention.
I'll spare the board my psycho babble diagnosis on such behavior. (although that would be entertaining)
The question I have is do your patrons know what kind of weirdos are preparing their meals
Few places in this country were ever more toxic than Love Canal.
that slow but inexorable descent into a world without logic, without reason. Sad, so sad.
sharing your thoughts. Maybe you have foot in mouth disease?
1.* It screams me me me because - uhh - the guy needs to know about her to pick her.
2.* Tact would help her keep track of time and gently end the session. But we all know guys know what time it is, so we don't really have to say anything,
3.* Less jaded, more quality. Requirements are boundaries, likes, and dislikes. Meant to help you by telling you what we want.
Sex is more than the physical and a circus. What those requirements do is tell you how to make her happy when you see her. If she set no rules, she is just a tool, and not a sensuous lover.
If you had better things to do , you would be doing them instead of complaining. As far as Websites screaming me me me! What else should the advertisement scream. You, you, you? Enlighten us, so we can advertise better to suit you.
We grow from a different root. We will tease and lure you in with our sexual nature and suck you in like a Venus Flytrap. Trap you inside of us until you are fully digested, then prey on the next soul.
I am only kidding, but could not resist the temptation of the subject...LOL
My two favorites-so-far just keep drawing me back. Sometimes I tell myself I shouldn't be spending the money, but I can't help it. Other times I think about seeing other providers, but the two are such sure (and great) things.
Toxic? Yeah, but good toxic.
densities and not a characteristic of the set "provider" in general.....
there also seem to be some on this board I would note :p
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I don't see this list as characteristic of providers, at least not the ones I've met. Some of the guys on the board at times, but even there it's only at times for most of them.
Toxic is pretty subjective, however, and, IMO, means different things in each interaction. But, yes, some people get off on hurting and hating. Think it stems from an uncertain control of life.
Good find.
That may be a problem - unless you're asking them questions lol.