That did happen several times.
One time, I walk in the room, girl I knew had her john bought gifts in the closet, I put my winter coat in there and see chocolate and champagne and I busted her stones about it. She doesnt even drink! Lol. Just another dopey john trying to impress. She says "take them, they're yours!" Lol I left her room with some eats, a nice bottle of that fancy French booze and a smile/laugh that lasted a week! Lol I really shouldn't make fun of these johns. I benefit from their gifting...and the girls regifting
I'm sure this is more often the case. The door opens and you think to yourself, "Damn I'm not getting paid enough for this". 80%?
On the flip side the door opens and you think, "Shit, I'd do this for free!" 5%?
And the last scenario...not so bad but it might be OK but then you have a blast and think " I love this". 15%
Please interject your numbers ladies.......
I'm not going to interject my numbers because a lot of the time, it's more of a neutral first reaction. (Not joy nor disgust)
But there are plenty, PLENTY of awesome and even, HOT men who hobby. Jeez!
Just put the percentage of neutral first reactions in with the others.
Sheez...you girls and your hooker math are tough to take sometimes.
5% I'm not getting paid enuf
5% Id do him for free!
90% Ahh! He ain't so bad. Then he turns out to be freakin awesome.
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You sound like one of the gals that I really enjoy hanging with 
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There are more hotties than you'd think.
I wouldn't do it for free, though. Wah wahhhhh.
Just hit me with the percentages sister. Are you a Minny girl or more of a sexygurl?
If I'm going based on the TER scale, I've never had a 1 or a 2. I've seen roughly a handful of 3's. Every now and then (like maybe twice a year) there will be a 4 or 5. 6s and 7s are most common, and I get an 8 every couple of months or so. I've had about a handful of 9s and one 10 (holy shitsnacks I fucking shivered when I opened the door to that one). Lots of celebrity look-a-likes too.
I got a massage et al and I can honestly say I was hotter than the masseuse. She offered me cut rate next time, and she DID give a decent massage--somewhere between a rubdown and a sports massage. Maybe even between sports and therapeutic. Sensual but not Tantric. Not deep tissue either. But good. Otherwise, 6/6. I won't review her though, because she deserves all the business she can get on the strength of giving a truly relaxing, energizing massage. Or maybe I just did review her.
If I have to rent a $350 hotel for a $400 appointment plus parking, gas, and supplies, I'm not getting paid enough, so I don't do it.
Also, if the guy is tossing me around like a rag doll, I'm exhausted and not on my game if I have someone the same day or the next day.
I think about these things when I think about how much I'm being paid...
- Level of wear and tear on my body. (Gas may cost $.15 per mile, but the maintenance, depreciation, and wear and tear of the car cost $.55 per mile. If I have to off-road, I need to equate clean up, getting my shocks adjusted, possibly fix a flat tire, or I can't use the car while it's in the shop.)
- Does it affect my productivity?
- Is it emotionally draining, or injuring my confidence, possibly causing me to not like my job, etc.
- Is the guy worth seeing at all based on how he makes me feel about myself?
- Will I have to open up the whole day and not see other clients due to exhaustion?
- Am I the right 'make & model' for the type of ride he wants to take me on?
It's like budgeting liability vs profit. Sure, he schedules two hours - but if I have to recoup for two days afterwards, how much would I make in those two days if I didn't have to recuperate? In all reality, I'm losing money, though he paid me $700 or so...
I consider myself a luxury car because of how I'm made. I'm definitely not a Range Rover... Probably more a Lexus. If someone takes me off roading, I'll probably decline the next time so I can skip the trip to the repair shop.
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My numbers are going to be different...
When the door opens rarely have I had that "not getting paid enough" that only happens once we are at it and the guy is just bad then I realize why I get paid so much and that is try and ignore how bad it is. That would be about 50%.
Never have I ever thought I would do it for free 0%
A good decent client meaning he was clean, did not push for shit I won't do and didn't treat me like a blow up doll, well that would be the other 50%.
To clarify when I say bad I mean bad kissers, bad touchers not good at oral. slobber etc. NOT bad men as a person.
then again, if I was having sex with as many partners not of my choosing as you ladies do, I'm sure I'd feel the same way...
The best compliment I got when I was hobbying was an involuntary, unconscious reaction by a provider when I saw her a second time. Too much time had passed between visits for her to remember me by name. But when she opened the door to me and saw me she displayed a genuine smile of recognition. She certainly wouldn't have remembered what we did the first time but she associated my face with a good time. That was nice.
Actually, there was only one guy where I was like, "Oh, God, really?!?! Ugh!" But, he turned out to be really good at DATY and was a real generous lover. So, that kinda made up for the looks.
Everyone else has been normal looking or even handsome.