I started out using BP. Lots of bad experiences. Cash and dash, 10 minutes for an hour, phone scams (which I did not fall for), and being with girls who I felt sorry for rather than excitement towards.
So I'm wondering what the BP experience is like for providers. I think most girls posting there aren't requiring references even if they state they do. One TER reviewed girl asked me to tell her a bit about myself. I told her I was Caucasian and 43, anything else? That was all she wanted to hear. I know of several girls who have been accosted by other escorts. One ended up with rib fractures because she was posting from the wrong hotel. And then there's the clients. I think most of them are probably just looking for a good time but it's always the few that screw things up. So girls, what's the BP experience like?the word " harrowing " comes to mind...
the "finding" can take some work. Many don't have emails and their voicemails are full or not set up. So reaching them is difficult. But once you become a client things get easier.
Never see a BP gal without reviews.
Thanks for the replys. I'm specifically looking for providers points of view who post on BP.
Like, how often do you get 'bad' clients. Drunk, angry, creepy, stinky, etc.
I see a lot of adds stating "no pimps" so I'm curious how often that happens.
LE encounters, competitive competition, etc. anything you want to share.
Why not?.. i'm not saying it's a good idea, and there could be some risk involved... but why say never?
I advertise on this site as well as BP, AC weekly & PW. On BP you do get a lot of assholes that contact the Provider, but that's because they think they can pull a fast one on the provider
It was a complete waste for me. Half of the responses I got were barely readable (lots of "wuz ur r8 bby" and shit). The other half consisted of requests for outcalls to sketchy places, 30/15min dates, or people asking stupid shit like "how much for anal?" Not a single viable client presented themselves as a result of those ads.
That said, I have several friends who advertise on BP and swear by it, but those ladies are saints. I just don't have the patience to wade through the ridiculousness. If the responses I got were at all indicative of the typical clientele on BP, then just...good god.
Tobi, not for nothing but now I see why you are such a Hoity,Toity Hooker.
If GaG or inicky called me something like that, I'd laugh it off as silly banter, but we are not cool like that.
"clique" much?
telling others that they are not worthy of your "coolness" is not cool!!
Grow up, please.
Apparently. Please go buy some game.
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Maybe stop inserting yourself into everything said by or about me? It's getting a little weird.
telling others that they are not worthy of your "coolness" is not cool!!
Grow up, please.
of lies and baseless claims about me and others.
go ahead... continue to hang yourself.
You're an idiot. I miss the forest.
telling others that they are not worthy of your "coolness" is not cool!!
Grow up, please.
But I prefer Hoity Toity Tobi Twat. And I mean that in the best way possible.
Dupy, however, was uncharacteristically coarse. Me? I'm always coarse. LMAO!
Dear Ms. Telford:
I just wanted to apologize to you since you are such a valued and esteemed member of the Adult Companionship Community. I will rephrase that you are a hoity, toity hottie of the highest eschelon and shall be referred to in that manner. Considering Yom Kippur is right around the corner, this would be my atonement to you and others in the adult companionship community.
with poor spelling. Also, are you suggesting she's Jewish or that you are? I mean, the High Holy Days are coming up and some folks need to blow the shofar. Uncovered.
But it's cool. Shalom (even though I'm not Jewish).
I just wanted to apologize to you since you are such a valued and esteemed member of the Adult Companionship Community. I will rephrase that you are a hoity, toity hottie of the highest eschelon and shall be referred to in that manner. Considering Yom Kippur is right around the corner, this would be my atonement to you and others in the adult companionship community.
It has more of a populist ring to it. 
Too funny! It is on my bucket list...lol.
Since I'm fairly new to the hobby scene (a little over a month now) and working on building my reputation and getting reviews, I have relied on BP quite a bit for meeting new gents. So far I have had nothing but good, and great, experiences. However, I am diligent about screening. And not the "tell me a little about yourself" screening, but actual references (which I check) and/or information I can verify.
I also go with my gut. If something doesn't feel right, or the tone or the correspondence is anything other than positive and courteous, I will not see them. And I don't post my phone #, just my website. So all contact is made through email. Any message that is explicit or disrespectful just gets deleted. I think that weeds out most of the bad apples pretty quickly.
I think it helps too that I have a civie career and do not rely on this to pay my bills, so I am never desperate to take an appointment that I'm uneasy about because I need the money
Honestly with the experiences I've had through BP I wouldn't be surprised if the clients were generally just as bad. Nothing wrong with having standards.