I have seen the posts over the years on both sides condemning those who actively participate in BBFS. Hell...I even believed that as well at one point.
But it's clear to me that most here (on both sides) have BBFS with someone out there.
I was surprised the very first time a gal offered that up with me (in P4P). But it was early on in this game and I had NO interest whatsoever. However as time has passed and my understanding of the gals here...well I can say that I would have no real issues exploring BBFS now. I think that my biggest concern would be being a new Daddy LOL
I take it that you and Skipper played reach-a-round rather than make a play for Ginger/MaryAnn.
Maybe Lovie was post-menopausal however?
What is the "real" issue....most people on this planet have BBFS. Why in the hell would you (or any others here) believe that it isn't a regular event here?
Getting someone pregnant would be higher up on that list....but then if I know a gal has taken her own precautions...that concern would drop to nil.
Funny thing is that over the years I have known a few folks who did get an STD...as well as some gals who had abortions...but that is out of thousands of folks that I've chatted with.
I would have a bigger concern of getting a nasty cold/flu than any STD's here.
And even those who have contracted an STD...fairly easy to fix that problem.
As always...to each their own. But I do feel that many who "slam" on these boards about those who partake in BBFS are fairly ignorant of the risks overall. Those who insist on condoms are free to do so...while those who prefer to not...are also free to do so. But it means that both players understand the risks and rules.
Posted By: CurlyW - Nats Fan
is not getting AIDS, HIV or STD, but being a daddy? So I guess you could get vasectomy and can take care of that fear very easily?
And for the record, not everyone is having BBFS here. I am certainly not..
I will when/ if I get married and decide to have kid(s). And that will be with my legally married wife.
And I have known you a little too long through the boards to take this post of yours seriously..
Those of us who insist on protection do so because we understand the risks, and have thought through the very real consequences.
There are plenty of opportunities to fuck around without a condom, and those come with their own risks. Why one would try to compound the potential situation that could arise from doing that here is beyond me.
The funny thing is that over the years some of the poster(s) who condemn BBFS are the same folks that offer/receive BBFS. Of course all those nice folks could just be lying behind the scenes...but then why? Perhaps they're not!
As far as herpes...the numbers are public. In this little microcosm of society I expect that they would be representative as well.
Posted By: Sooo...YouWanna
Those of us who insist on protection do so because we understand the risks, and have thought through the very real consequences.
There are plenty of opportunities to fuck around without a condom, and those come with their own risks. Why one would try to compound the potential situation that could arise from doing that here is beyond me.
Everyone like to present an appearance of standing on the moral high ground in order to show their superiority. In reality, a lot of those who condemn BBFS in the hobby are actually participating in it.
A provider I have seen offers it. She mentioned how so many of her clients can't cum with a condom on. She doesn't want to disappoint anyone, that's for sure. So what better way to keep her clients coming back than to offer BBFS for an extra tip! I have partaken in it a few times with her. So far I have not caught anything. I will not tell you it is though...
Posted By: Dr Who revived
I have seen the posts over the years on both sides condemning those who actively participate in BBFS. Hell...I even believed that as well at one point.
But it's clear to me that most here (on both sides) have BBFS with someone out there.
I was surprised the very first time a gal offered that up with me (in P4P). But it was early on in this game and I had NO interest whatsoever. However as time has passed and my understanding of the gals here...well I can say that I would have no real issues exploring BBFS now. I think that my biggest concern would be being a new Daddy LOL
I'm definitely not against it. I have a girl I see for BBFSCIP. Feels Awesome unloading inside her. Been seeing her for well over a year with ZERO PROBLEMS. Sure it's Risky. But I haven't had a single problem in over a year. Those that are against wish they could partake BBFS. But for whatever reason cannot. So for those against that's fine. But don't Lecture those that like BBFS.
Why don't you tell us in plain English where you stand?
Obviously there's no point in speculating about how others view the matter of engaging in BBFS unless you contrast it with your own view and/or your own practice
If everyone else is covering up isn't why I chose to go BBFSCIP with the girl I'm seeing. It was a choice. After seeing her covered for about 3 months I asked her if it was OK to go uncovered. She agreed. Fast forward to today, I still see her uncovered. In fact I saw her yesterday and spent 5 hours with her. ZERO PROBLEMS for her and me. I'm willing to accept the Risks to go uncovered.
I have seen the posts over the years on both sides condemning those who actively participate in BBFS. Hell...I even believed that as well at one point.
But it's clear to me that most here (on both sides) have BBFS with someone out there.
I was surprised the very first time a gal offered that up with me (in P4P). But it was early on in this game and I had NO interest whatsoever. However as time has passed and my understanding of the gals here...well I can say that I would have no real issues exploring BBFS now. I think that my biggest concern would be being a new Daddy LOL
I have seen the posts over the years on both sides condemning those who actively participate in BBFS. Hell...I even believed that as well at one point.
But it's clear to me that most here (on both sides) have BBFS with someone out there.
I was surprised the very first time a gal offered that up with me (in P4P). But it was early on in this game and I had NO interest whatsoever. However as time has passed and my understanding of the gals here...well I can say that I would have no real issues exploring BBFS now. I think that my biggest concern would be being a new Daddy LOL
all good to go..you are so caring and loving after all..let's do lunch..
Posted By: Dr Who revived
How soon they forget
You're all good to go now...right?
Posted By: macdaddy1944
i.m an old Daddy..DR.WOO WOO..
Posted By: Dr Who revived
I have seen the posts over the years on both sides condemning those who actively participate in BBFS. Hell...I even believed that as well at one point.
But it's clear to me that most here (on both sides) have BBFS with someone out there.
I was surprised the very first time a gal offered that up with me (in P4P). But it was early on in this game and I had NO interest whatsoever. However as time has passed and my understanding of the gals here...well I can say that I would have no real issues exploring BBFS now. I think that my biggest concern would be being a new Daddy LOL
You seem like a nice enough dude...but quite the loud mouth.
Is there something I need to know?
I care for those that I know and understand....those that are delusional and dangerous...nope!!
Posted By: macdaddy1944
all good to go..you are so caring and loving after all..let's do lunch..
Posted By: Dr Who revived
How soon they forget
You're all good to go now...right?
Posted By: macdaddy1944
i.m an old Daddy..DR.WOO WOO..
Posted By: Dr Who revived
I have seen the posts over the years on both sides condemning those who actively participate in BBFS. Hell...I even believed that as well at one point.
But it's clear to me that most here (on both sides) have BBFS with someone out there.
I was surprised the very first time a gal offered that up with me (in P4P). But it was early on in this game and I had NO interest whatsoever. However as time has passed and my understanding of the gals here...well I can say that I would have no real issues exploring BBFS now. I think that my biggest concern would be being a new Daddy LOL
Yes, the same players who cover up have relationships in the mundane world where different boundaries apply.
What seems irksome are those who see BBFS as the brass ring, as if scoring that somehow denotes either a closer relationship or a greater conquest.
Why? Seems arbitrary. Like that culture where two people eating off the same plate denotes a degree of intimacy that they don't share if they each eat off an individual plates. Okay, that's a custom, but so what meaning does it really have?
It's a very controversial topic in this Hobby. If you're the Lucky few that can find a Provider to give you BBFS, then enjoy it. I definitely enjoy my BBFSCIP Sessions with the Provider I'm seeing. (sorry I'm not going to reveal her info to anyone).
My SO. And that's infrequent at best, less than once a month at worst. It's why I hobby. I will not risk it with a provider because I don't want to increase my chances of bringing something home to her. Unless the provider is a virgin, I ain't going there bare. Considering I've never even met a virgin of fuckable age who was interested in me, the point is moot. I may be snipped, but I ain't stupid.
I have done this a few times,with my ATF, as well as a few others.I get tested regularly.For me alot of these women gasp when they see my package and thickness and want to really fell it without condoms.Almost, like hooking up with some chick in a bar.
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