Sounds like you either like people to watch or you like to find a private spot in the bar to fuck. Which is it, bonordonor?!

1. There's no trick here, guys are EASY compared to girls.  Its very Cliche but a sexy smile with "Wanna get outta here?" would get me outta the chair.

2.  1.  Kissing (with tongue),  I know its personal and some providers dont do it, but the ones that do get me every time.
     2.  Personality in general.  Drones are horrible and while we may get what we need its not a pleasant experience.
     3.  I dont know about everyone else, but touch me.  I like being touched also, I like to feel desired sometimes, even if its fake.
     4.  Be playful, flirty.  Alot of providers fall short here.
     5.  Any GF I ever had never made me put my hat on until it was actual intercourse time.  Just sayin.
     6.  I cant think of 10 things but these are the top for me.
3.  There has to be a connection a spark something.  You can doll up all you want and look like a million bucks, but if you're a dead fish, its just a dolled up fish.  For me, I like intelligent women, when a lady intrigues me with something I truly dont understand that hooks me.  Sense of humor is a must, Im a sarcastic person and I love to laugh and for someone to make me laugh.  Be a clown with me, nothing like being silly even when someone is watching.  If someone is smart and funny and confident (thats the being silly while someones looking at you part) I get interested right away.
4.  Nothing too crazy for me Im not a props kinda guy although wedges can be fun, but willing to do any position, anywhere would be great.  Still looking for a lady to agree to my Trans-am as a location hehe.  Thats not sluttish to me its just playful and exciting.  Thats my 2 cents, sorry its not an erotic bonanza but have to leave something for the imagination right?

... it appears you're ok with responses here, and that's more fun for everyone to share, so here's my answers:

1) You walk into a Bar & Grille or a Restaurant and sat down for  a drink and bite to eat. What is the sexiest thing that any female could say to get you out of that restaurant or bar & grille and back to a secluded spot?

A:  "Hi!  Fancy meeting you here!  Hey, I'm free tonight, would you like to come up to my incall for a nightcap?"  Explanation: I'm not the kind of fellow to jump into bed with anyone who comes up to me in a bar.  But if one of my favorite providers came up to me while I was out alone and asked me if I'd join her at her place, I'm all over that.
 
2) Describe 10 of the hottest things that would make a provider the HOTTEST GFE?

A:  Kindness.  Intelligence.  Empathy.  Wit/sense of humor.  Lack of pretense.  Confidence, tempered with humility (doesn't take herself TOO seriously).  Truly loves pleasing... and being pleased.  Respects herself & takes care of herself e.g. a fit, healthy body, doesn't do drugs.  A positive attitude towards life.  A beautiful smile--with lips demanding to be kissed early and often.
 
3) What would it take for you to take a Provider out on a date(Any type of date) & continue the date back at her place or a motel/hotel?

A:  I would need to trust her completely and feel comfortable with her... and vice-versa.  Also when I've done this sort of thing, the provider made it easier for me by giving me a very reasonable rate for the extended date.
 
4) What are you seeking in a provider(No holds bar--Include all graphic details please!!)?  

A:  See answer to #2.  Not every provider I've met has all of these qualities.  But my favorites do.  As well as, they truly love their jobs.  They're doing it for the money of course, but they really enjoy it and that's apparent in how they treat their clients.

"I want you to take me right now" - and she hands me some nice leather and nickle restraints...

That would get me out of the Restaurant in a hurry....  

I do love me an edge player :p

10 hottest things?

ask my name - and use it
tear my clothes off before we're in the door good
Look me in the eye when you talk to me - and when I'm fucking you assuming the position allows
Kiss me like you mean it
tell me I can have you any way I want
urge me on when I fuck you
ask for a proper spanking
hand me some nice restraints and tell me to use them any way I like
listen to me when I tell you how I like being sucked
swallow the load - offer to snowball it with me
after round 1 cuddle with me a while and then start kissing me like you mean it to start #2

yes I know that's 11 things and that they are not very "GFE" -  

 
Date?   offer the non-P4P time OTC.  I will show you a time very worth your while.  I would expect of course to donate for the P4P.   I don't do extended / date sort of sessions with providers unless they are OTC -  I spring for very nice (ie expensive) restaurants and accommodations  

 
seeking?  

wall to wall high performance sex with no "GFE choreography" or time wasting.  We can get to know one another a bit or just cuddle or play slap and tickle between rounds.....  must  able to accommodate a good bit of size and liking a good and proper seeing to -  Bonus points for loving Greek likewise.   Kiss like you mean it and don't stop sucking when I ejaculate - that is only the beginning of the male O.  Bonus points for swallowing.

Thank you for asking by the way

1)  "Dude, you wanna fuck me for free?" Yeah, I'm THAT easy... LOL.
2)       #1:  BBBJ
          #2:  DATY
          #3:  DFK
          #4:  Greek
          #5:  Shaved pub
          #6:  No rush
          #7:  Reasonable donation
          #8 - #10: Not necessary
3)  As long as she doesn't charge me for time spent outside her room
4)  See 2) above