I had a provider I had seen for the second time the other day comment "You're quite a grower."  Huh?  She proceeds to explain that growers are guys that are small that get very big when excited; showers are guys that are big to begin with but don't grow very much when excited.  Makes me think of the Seinfeld Shrinkage episode.  So which camp do you fall into?  
   
 Ladies, do you see more showers or growers? Any totally unscientific observations you wish to make?  All in fun, of course.