At first make only vague statements like, "I've been a very bad boy." See how she responds. If her eyes start to twinkle and she says, "Me too!" you've got yourself a winner.
Just don't tell her about me and your mom
Fuck me.
Anyway. I met this woman who is a burlesque dancer.
Should I tell her all of the fucked up shit i have done?
Do you become honest with like minded people?
it is better to get that squared away early on than have her realize it after you've tried to live a lie.
You do both yourself and her a favor that way.
Has honesty ever set you free?
At what cost?
I bring up various topics during our dates and if the date sounds conservative and not cool with such things, I act more conservative.
If she's liberal, I become liberal and more open with her.
Too much information in the beginning isn't always a good thing, IMO.
People are different and react to different experiences differently. It may go against their beliefs, values, upbringing, or religion. No need to jeopardize things too early especially when I'm willing to adapt to the girl somewhat and do less fucked up shit according to her likes dislikes.
I'm fairly conservative though. Well, minus the weekly mongering, occasional 3 somes, and FWB I have fun with every now and then.
but it beats the alternative sometimes which is the freedom of lies and deception.
The gist of the problem is as old as mankind:
Nobly bear the burden of truth in all its horror, or wrap ourselves in deception while riding the proverbial wheelbarrow to ruination.
On balance both paths have their plusses and minuses. The trick of living is picking which one to ride with and knowing when to switch.
As with many things in life, timing is everything.
Those with successful timing are the winners. Those without, not so much.
I don't recall the specifics...but it was similar.
Yeah...tell her all about TER...hookers...johns...trainwrecks.
Only upside there...what gal doesn't want to hear about your involvement in prostitution?
Maybe she'll even admit that she's a hooker and you can link her page so we can comment on it?
Anyway. I met this woman who is a burlesque dancer.
Should I tell her all of the fucked up shit i have done?
Do you become honest with like minded people?
Life isn't always so logical. You know? 
You definitely work with numbers..
Tell this one that you fuck hookers....nothing but upside!
You definitely work with numbers..
Otherwise your dad Inicky will miss you. This way you are virtually guaranteed to be back here in a matter of hours, right after she tells you what a sick fucker you are and to get the hell out of her life.
But seriously, why would you volunteer to tell her all about TER, you fucking hookers, and every sick detail about your sex life, especially if she's not asking? If she asks, that's different. Speaking strictly for myself, I am too lazy to live a lie, (I still don't know how you married guys do it) but telling the truth is one thing, making yourself out to be sex perv is another. Do you really think that I brag to the civvie chicks in my life that I have been with hundreds of civvies and thousands of pros in my lifetime? Even the hookers here on TER are put off a bit by those numbers, I might be honest, but I do know how to "sugarcoat" my numbers when I don't want to have a woman go running out the door screaming at the top of her lungs that she never wants to see me again.
I can fuck up a relationship in tons of other ways too.
It's my specialty 
I'll be around for a while.
It would be nice to be able to date a girl who didn't care I tried this shit..
That's all I'm saying I guess.
At first make only vague statements like, "I've been a very bad boy." See how she responds. If her eyes start to twinkle and she says, "Me too!" you've got yourself a winner.
Just don't tell her about me and your mom
dabbled as escorts? If she doesn't say much, then you ask her if she ever considered it? Sooner or later you will need to fess up.
What anyone does prior to getting involved with someone else is really none of that persons business.
If it is something that is public knowledge I would see them discussing a past...but fucking hookers isn't something that is public knowledge.
But I guess there are people who can't keep stuff separate...and the only reason to discuss fucking hookers is to make the person confessing feel better about themselves. It does nothing to enhance a relationship IMHO. As I posted to HOC....what gal wouldn't swoon to find out that her newest BF fucks hookers LOL
I agree with Dr Who. Anything you say, can and is often used against you at some point.
no ones perfect,
ask her out to a upscale dinner and get to know her.
show genuine interest in her life.
let her know good things about you,
I dont know things that you've done but whatever needs to be said, say them fairly soon.
not everything needs to be on the table the first night
xoxo
If the real reason is to clear your conscience, it's not a good idea as you really only might hurt the one you tell.
I feel people are on a need to know basis...I tell them what they need to know.
It's a Boy Scout thing.
A response would depend on how are the relationship has gone. In general, I would say no. Here is why. In relationships we trip over ourselves. Does not knowing cause her harm? If no harm, that would be a reason to not tell her. Was it really fucked up shit or just in your mind? Is it continuing or in the past? Hound, a thought that it took me a long, long, time to learn - "only a fool trips over something that is behind him". Eyes forward and good luck.
suggest you stuff her pussy in your face to save yourself lol! Women can be fickle and no matter how cool with shit they may seem she will hold it against you at some point. Just stay cool and a little mystery is a good thing!
You may think you're like minded, she may think otherwise. Especially if she reads into it too much.
Do you think you're both naughty and that's why you're like minded? Lol
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