Oh sweetie, you need a better system. I'll be glad to call you for some free advice for what it's worth.
I'll try you tomorrow & throw you some tips. There is still a sisterhood somewhere in all of this. Sincerely Sweet Sara
Everyday this man calls/texts froma different number set up an appointment short sweet direct and to the point I call to do a reconfirm a couple hours later and no answer no return text no nothing now I'm beginning to doubt everything I don't know what's real and what's not. anyone else having this trouble any suggestions on how to figure out to stop him or anything?
only respond to the number that he's been verified with. if he wants to update to a different number, he needs to inform you which number he used previously and that's on him. it shouldn't be changing everyday
It is a super shitty thing to do, but it's an old dirty move that has been making it's rounds again on the west coast again.
It's unlikely of course, but something to be considered if you are not aware of the practice. Keep the numbers and emails and any and all info on these callers. If you are savvy and this is the case, they will slip up and you will catch them.
If you are offering incall, be more so concerned with giving out your exact location to any unknown, highly verifiable client. Your safety overall is paramount and there is a multitude of issues to be concerned about if this is a standard practice.
Take times such as these and reach out and find information and implement it into your work habits. It is a live and learn process and clearly, you are making every effort to be at your best.
Should you discover a culprit and do not have feasible resources to report such person or persons, please refer back to this site and many fine women will be very happy to assist you in ripping their eyeballs out of their sockets, per se.
Stay diligent and all of the very best of luck.
Sincerely Sweet Sara
Have you screened this guy?Does he have references?
I would advise to block the numbers obviously this guy is wasting your time if he sets up appts and when you call back no answer.Sounds like he is just playing games and does not have any intentions on really going through with an appt.If he was serious his number would not be changing every time he contacts you.
I'm Keeping all numbers and texts. I've caught him once. He called booked an appt didn't show next day called from same number different name I addled him why he changed his name he called me a loony and now he's called from 2 more #. I'm screening myself but now I'm asking for voice and picture w/ something with Vegas and date on it in pic. I don't know much else. I'm new. I am using. ...BP I know I know bad 85% of the time. But my web site isn't done. I'm trying to get respectable calls from the gentleman on here but that's not working as of yet. Any suggestion greatly appreciate
Oh sweetie, you need a better system. I'll be glad to call you for some free advice for what it's worth.
I'll try you tomorrow & throw you some tips. There is still a sisterhood somewhere in all of this.
Sincerely Sweet Sara
Thanks very much. I would love a chat and talk about this. It's nice your offering.
Hope to hear from you.
Z
Call your phone company and tell them someone is harassing you from a phone number and you want them to block calls and text from that number. Phone company has to block the number by law free of charge to you.
If you don't have the number, give them the dates and time and the phone company can track the number.
Lot less hassle for you than contending with deranged moron.
If he continues, the phone company can cut off his service and put his information in database and he will never get a phone. It doesn't matter even if it is throw away phone, it can be tracked and blocked.
Most of us don't notice it but, there is clause in every contract which states, the subscriber will not use the phone to harass anyone.
Now for how to screen. First I would suggest you ask around in the ladies board as I am only giving the basics. There is a few ways to do this:
1) Make them join a verification service. Get real full name and check blacklist and sexual predictor list sites. Not what I would do but works. You can also read his review and contact those ladies about him.
2) Get there real full name, real age and a traceable phone number (not a hobby phone) and run a back ground check with that also checks for known employers. Also check the blacklist sites. Call him on that phone. Check ID at the door. I know a lady here in Utah that has had great luck with that method.
3) Get there real full name and employment information. Call and check to make sure he really works there using a made up story and ether talk to him at work or make him show you ID. Check the blacklist and sexual predator lists as well.
4) Get and check a minimum of two references from providers that you know or are known and have excellent reputations. If you do not get verification for at least two I would stay away.
There is likely other was to do it that I don't know about, ask on the ladies board. I would also suggest talking on the phone a bit to get a feel for him and always trust your spider senses with any of the above. There is now perfect screening method not even the reference system but the above should weed out many of the bad clients.
Everyone needs to screen everyone in this hobby. For your own good please up your screening.
I only do massages. I am positive it's the same guy. He's been caught calling twice from two of the same phones. I will now be calling the phone company he's calling front and letting then know he's doing what he's doing thanks to this information on here.
I'm getting good advise and I'm grateful please don't think I'm stupid, I'm new and getting better at this. I am loving everyone that has been wonderful since I've started. He's rattled me a bit but I'm keeping my head by asking you all for help.
Thanks again,
I'll be safe and on guard,
Zoey
Many providers omit their phone number and rely on email.
providers who work primarily by phone are asking for a lot of drama and I find that generally the more professional / serious providers either don't use phone at all or just require a voice call when you arrive.....
GFE providers put a phone number in their ads. Many BP providers take the first warm body who calls and shows up with the cash but that is a different story for another day.
No, screening method is completely perfect "BS" will find a way though eventually, But I would think most of us do do our best to prevent the "BS".
Personally, I'm tired of all the BP provider bash's and put down's.
For some area's there is no other place to advertise but BP and some of us BP girls have been well reviewed on TER and other similar websites to TER. Not all BP providers are bad.
If the client didn't screen the provider before hand, by checking reviews alt least, that's his or her own fought. Sorry, that's how I see things. The clients need to screen just like the providers by at least looking for reviews on the providers he/she is interested i, then they know what to expect.
Perhaps he is. Although I would think that it is several different guys looking for a more immediate date. Who find what they are looking for before your attempt at confirming the appointment.