Sorry it happened to you. I imagine its a little unnerving for you. I'd follow the good advice given here by other posters. And your post reminds us hobbyists why we need to jump through a few hoops on occasion in order to see someone. Safety first, and then we can all play with peace of mind.
Take care and stay safe.
I had a client in the past. I have seen him only one time and he shorted me a significant amount. Which I made him aware of and he said he would make it right. He had planned a visit for today also agreeing to make it right frm the last visit. He was 30 min late with no call or text stating he was gonna be late. I had another appt planned for alil after his. With no contact letting me know I assumed him to be a no show and told him it would have to be another time since I did have other appts and his response was he was calling the cops because I made him drive all the way down here. Was I wrong to tell him next time since he had been almost 30 min late with out letting me know? Also so with his threat I told my next appt to wait alil while. But he couldn't see me later. So now I lost out on both because of this guy. What should I do? I've not had to experience this before.
This person sounds like a manipulative psycho. I would not contact him at all. Your first mistake was making
a second appointment with him after he shorted you. Forget it about the money and think of it as an expensive lesson.
You have to set the boundaries. Threatening to call the cops is a dickhead move. Don't instigate him in any way. He clearly has no empathy and will take anything you say to be a slight so the best course is no contact what so ever. Ignore him completely and he will go away.
Don't waste your time on someone who would not treat you right. missing out on a few bucks is better than missing out on hundreds. This guy was very disrepectful and you deserve way better than that. Sorry this happened to you. Lesson learned... There are many guys on here that wouldn't treat you like that.
Here is my opinion: this guy is a jerk, liar, and a loose cannon.
1. shorting is never an accident
2. He was not on his way
3. He will continue to try to taunt you, degrade you, and other psychological abuse if you let him.
The most important thing is your safety. I would forget about the money. My guess is you should avoid any further communication with him. If he emails, texts, calls - just ignore, blacklist, or whatever you have to. Don't engage.
You do owe it to the other girls to somehow let them know who this is - not sure if better publicly or privately (which can include TER handle, ph #, other email, and even appearance). Because if he has done it to you, he will do it to someone else!! 
I am sure some other girls have been through a similar problem and hopefully they can give you some additional advice via PM.
Hang in there and be strong. 
Know that most of us are good guys and hate that a loser like this can create such a bad situation for you
To tag onto this opinion...
It could also be a power issue, that he is doing a dominance display then reverting to child like behavior when he does not get his way. Some of the individuals I have seen display similar behavior would try to collect food stamps in addition to their million dollar paychecks.
In essence, Holly you are a wonderful and gorgeous woman that does not need this guy. Blacklist him and free your time for the nice guys .. like me :-
You did the right thing. Now, as others have indicated, blacklist him with the other girls. Also, do not reply to any of his communications. Hopefully, he'll get the message and stop trying. On a related note HL, if he knows where you live, rather than just seen you at incalls that are not your residence, things may get more complicated.
Too bad, but law of averages says some jerks out there. Surprised he cleared screening for your first date.
Merry Christmas!!! What a f-ing dickhead. I bet a million dollars the dbag wont have the balls to come on here and post some kind of half assed attempt to excuse himself from his assnine behavior. His lack of planning for proper drive time and inability to arrive on time has nothing to do with you yet in his little pea brain the moron some how found a way to blame you for it
The other 3 posts have already given you some great suggestions I would only add that you should immediately post this on the provider board (PO). Hopefully more of the women all over so cal will see and read it there. He obviously belongs back in a 3rd world country from where he came.
BTW - I would love to hear his phone call on that. How is it possible he could file some kind of report w/o implicating himself. Total BS.
Sorry it happened to you. I imagine its a little unnerving for you. I'd follow the good advice given here by other posters. And your post reminds us hobbyists why we need to jump through a few hoops on occasion in order to see someone. Safety first, and then we can all play with peace of mind.
Take care and stay safe.
some providers don't spend a lot of time on TER, so you might want to let her know what happened to you.
Blacklist him. Once shame on him, twice shame on him again & there will never be a third time. Blacklist his punk ass. Anyone who does not respect your time does not deserve it. I would of had him send me a gift card, or supply a deposit after shorting the 1st time, which he would never have been invited over again until he made up for the lack of funds from the previous encounter, but that is just me. You lost out on another appointment because of him wtf no respect.
Sorry, but it takes less, than 1 minute to text, call, or email & update your booking stating I will be 30 minutes late is that alright with you, or should be try a different time…
It is obvious lots of these lames are creeps who I would never want at my private play pad, so do us all a favor & blacklist him, so he does not continue his games in 2014 with any other providers. Respect.
That's always a sure way to ingratiate yourself with the escort community; threaten to call the cops. F*ckin DA !
MfSD>>>>
Here are the ONLY three options
1.) he simply forgot to pay (happens with regulars often)... he returns NOW and pays
2.) he did it intentionally and can make up the diff. with a gift card via email (if not, B list)
3.) he did it unintentionally --- he either misunderstood a special or the rate: he fixes via option #2 or you two compromise
If he shorts and none of the above, move on and DO NOT rebook. PERIOD. If so, it's on you.
So sorry this happened but use it as a learning tool.
Normally i wouldn't have seen him again. He actually contacted me again to make right what he had shorted me previously. And seemed to be committed to coming to our visit as he confirmed the day before and day of. Had he not made it a point to contact me to get me what he shorted me and then make another appt, i agree i would have not seen him again. as i chalked up his last visit as a loss and moved on. but yes he is a dbag and i'm not sure yet whether to post publicly his info to make sure others don't come across him or just having providers just message me for info? Thanks everyone for all your feed back and helping me feel alil more at ease about the whole thing. I truly appreciate all your inputs
"he simply forgot to pay (happens with regulars often)" Please! Tell that to a single mom who needs to buy groceries that day.
There are no words..........
If you read the quote in full you will see the silliness of this comment comes to light...
The quote without the end edited out:
"he simply forgot to pay (happens with regulars often)... he returns NOW and pays"
Emphasis on "he returns NOW and pays"
I have lots of lovers/client/friends who part ways and I look around and think SHOOT.
I text them and ask if they FORGOT anything and they offer to return rite away with donation.
"Please! Tell that to a single mom who needs to buy groceries that day."
I wouldn't tell her anything except to consider the following: why she is a single mom and why she is living "paycheck to paycheck" (or in this industry day to day)...
Sorry but the truth isn't always pretty
There are no words..........
1.) he simply forgot to pay (happens with regulars often)... he returns NOW and pays
2.) he did it intentionally and can make up the diff. with a gift card via email (if not, B list)
3.) he did it unintentionally --- he either misunderstood a special or the rate: he fixes via option #2 or you two compromise
If he shorts and none of the above, move on and DO NOT rebook. PERIOD. If so, it's on you.
So sorry this happened but use it as a learning tool.