I am commenting on what the OP gave us, if there were other circumstances for us to factor in, she should have mentioned them. She has had ample opportunity to do so, and I will take her NOT saying that any of these factors came into play as a tacit admission that they did not. Doesn't that seem fair to you?
The OP simply asked if there was an unwritten rule that one hour means 2 pops, and the answer to that question is NO.
This question is for the gentleman and ladies regarding multiple cups of tea and session lengths.
I have been providing for a few years now and have only came across this situation twice, the other night being the second, so I was wondering if I could have your opinions on the matter.
I don't have it listed on my website but I thought that it was common knowledge that if you book a half hour session than you are provided 1 cup and 2 cups for the hour session, but the other evening I had a gentleman that booked an hour session and was looking for 3 cups. I politely explained that if he wanted another cup that there would be an extra charge in which he replied that he paid for the hour and should then be served unlimited cups until he was full. Now let me also add that I normally ask my dates if they book the hour to let me know if they are a 1 or 2 cup guy so that I know whether to take my time or not.
My question is Have I been wrong this entire time and is the standard unlimited cups per hour?
Thanks
xoxoxo
Tin
actually very generous. Many providers only serve one cup per hour.
As to the OP, an hour is an hour, you women are the ones who stick to that silly statement that you "sell time, not sex" so if a guy pays for an hour, he should expect an hour of your time, end of story.
Now that said, not all women stick to this so called rule and that's where things get confusing, and quite frankly very few guys can actually finish three times in an hour session, so I will allow that if the guy takes 10 minutes for the first cup, finishes his second cup at about the 45 minute mark and thinks he can recover and finish his third cup without running over, and therefore taking advantage of YOUR time, I can see your point in telling him that's not what you agreed to.
and BD, while being a HUGE suck up as usual, is correct that there are many women only offer one cup per hour, I don't agree that it's fair, but it is a fact. But the fact also remains that if you charge for an hour, you should deliver an hour. Just because other women rip off their clients should not be a justification for you to do the same.
and BD are you EVER going to grow a pair? You make the turdster look manly in comparison
and that you are the leading BSU candidate by far.
The OP is hardly the biggest offender, but it is hardly "common knowledge" that a half hour is one pop, and an hour is two. If a guy is capable of cumming twice in thirty minutes and has fully half his time left, he should be entitled to enjoy that time doing what he paid for.
Keep in mind that NONE of this applies to me personally, as I am completely incapable of cumming three times in a single hour at my "advanced age" but if a guy can go three times, or a dozen times for that matter, he is well within his rights to expect to enjoy the time he paid for.
Some guys are renting a piece of meat and others are buying time with a girl of their dreams. And we are calling the same girls and they can't tell us apart until the first meeting.
The OP is hardly the biggest offender, but it is hardly "common knowledge" that a half hour is one pop, and an hour is two. If a guy is capable of cumming twice in thirty minutes and has fully half his time left, he should be entitled to enjoy that time doing what he paid for.
Keep in mind that NONE of this applies to me personally, as I am completely incapable of cumming three times in a single hour at my "advanced age" but if a guy can go three times, or a dozen times for that matter, he is well within his rights to expect to enjoy the time he paid for.
...."he is well within his rights to expect to enjoy the time he paid for"
Provided he is not causing the hooker discomfort. You are not taking into consideration his dick size nor how vigorous he might be. These are unknowns even to the hooker first time around and should not be ignored. Every coupling is different with variables that can't be determined here and now for the sake of discussion.
I am commenting on what the OP gave us, if there were other circumstances for us to factor in, she should have mentioned them. She has had ample opportunity to do so, and I will take her NOT saying that any of these factors came into play as a tacit admission that they did not. Doesn't that seem fair to you?
The OP simply asked if there was an unwritten rule that one hour means 2 pops, and the answer to that question is NO.
I took a more universal view.
You just lost virtually all your BSU points with that last post. lol
and there isn't enough time in the hour to do so much more.
example - I suggest that for an hours time at say a thousand dollars an hour. I contract with a lady that she "pick up my dry cleaning, wash my car, and FTTOOMM." There is no way a lady can pick up my dry cleaning and wash my car with in an hour's time, the so much more will have to happen OTC.
Now that said, not all women stick to this so called rule and that's where things get confusing, and quite frankly very few guys can actually finish three times in an hour session, so I will allow that if the guy takes 10 minutes for the first cup, finishes his second cup at about the 45 minute mark and thinks he can recover and finish his third cup without running over, and therefore taking advantage of YOUR time, I can see your point in telling him that's not what you agreed to.
and BD, while being a HUGE suck up as usual, is correct that there are many women only offer one cup per hour, I don't agree that it's fair, but it is a fact. But the fact also remains that if you charge for an hour, you should deliver an hour. Just because other women rip off their clients should not be a justification for you to do the same.
and BD are you EVER going to grow a pair? You make the turdster look manly in comparison
You are not being totally unreasonable by expecting extra donation for 3rd pop. I can barely imagine one in one hr. And being a one pop guy, I typically book 90 min, so I can relax, get my pop and go my merry way.
Having a clear disclosure on your website would dissuade cheap bastards from booking with you?
Also make it coffee instead of tea.. We are capitalist over here. Tea or Chai is what I have at my parents' place... 
Now if he's trying to squeeze in a third pop and is trying to start at the 55 minute mark, I would agree he is taking advantage, but hookers have been claiming for years that they sell "time and companionship" an hour of time is an hour of time whether they are discussing baseball or having balls deep sex three different times.
I can't go three times in an hour either, but I can fuck for an entire hour and sometimes do IF the women is up to it, although I will confess most women are not up for an hour of straight fucking, and even I am not that big a jerk to insist on it. lol but let's look at it this way, if he can get off in ten minutes and many guys can, three pops in an hour is still only 30 minutes of actual fucking. I rarely spend less time than that actually fucking, so who is really putting "more wear and tear" on the pussy? lmao
I guess if you could pull a 10 min pop, you could pull it off. Neither can I pull a 10 min pop, and if I am going non stop for any more than 20 min or so I am having issues climaxing in the first place.
But again, you have to give consideration to her pussy also. Not all pussies can handle the pounding. A very famous ex hooker used to have a 6 inch rule for intercourse...
Let me ask TER to do a poll to see how many guys can actually cum in 10 min.
Are you 100% certain it's semen? LMAO
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10 minutes...shit, I cum a lot faster than that if I'm not careful. I'm in my late 30s and have not seen my ramp up to first delivery increase at all. The couple times I've been in committed relationships when we went bbwbc, it was actually worse 
. We had to go at least twice just so I could attempt to satisfy her. I last a bit longer the second time and can sustain a decent rhythm. If I go too fast on pop one, I barely get into position before I'm blowing all over. Also depends on how much foreplay. Something about a good massage that gives me a hair-trigger release almost every time.
To the OP, it's whatever rules you want and your clients agree to, IMO. I've heard of good providers that only ever offer one round. If they can make a living doing that, more power to em. For me, I'm looking for 2-3 pops every time. But, I also book 1.5+ Hrs time because it's not just about that. There is so much more to do with a beautiful woman than just pound her. Don't get me wrong, that can be fun on occasion when she's up for it. My current gf loves it as often as I can deliver. But, everyone's different. I've had providers complain about my width and beg off 2+ rounds even with sufficient time.
To each his/her own.
But again, you have to give consideration to her pussy also. Not all pussies can handle the pounding. A very famous ex hooker used to have a 6 inch rule for intercourse...
Let me ask TER to do a poll to see how many guys can actually cum in 10 min.
Are you 100% certain it's semen? LMAO
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Personally....I don't mind how much coffee you drink as long as you respect my time.
I have been providing for a few years now and have only came across this situation twice, the other night being the second, so I was wondering if I could have your opinions on the matter.
I don't have it listed on my website but I thought that it was common knowledge that if you book a half hour session than you are provided 1 cup and 2 cups for the hour session, but the other evening I had a gentleman that booked an hour session and was looking for 3 cups. I politely explained that if he wanted another cup that there would be an extra charge in which he replied that he paid for the hour and should then be served unlimited cups until he was full. Now let me also add that I normally ask my dates if they book the hour to let me know if they are a 1 or 2 cup guy so that I know whether to take my time or not.
My question is Have I been wrong this entire time and is the standard unlimited cups per hour?
Thanks
xoxoxo
Tina
It doesn't really seem like this is a big problem since, as you say, it's only the second time this has ever happened.
What's the possible upside of allowing him to spunk one more time?:
A great review. A big tip. A repeat client. A great report bc by pm.
Now let's examine the down side................um...............well..............uhhhhhhhhhh...........oh yeah, 10 more minutes of "work".
I'll try not to let that horrible outcome keep me from getting a good night sleep tonite........zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz
Some guys are like those fat people at a buffet, shoving as much food into their mouths as possible, elbowing other diners out of the way in their quest to "get their monies worth".
Hey there are some ladies who don't mind seeing guys like that and then there are some who do not. Sp allowing fatty Magoo another round when he has already worn out his welcome can be problematic
What does TT think?
I have been providing for a few years now and have only came across this situation twice, the other night being the second, so I was wondering if I could have your opinions on the matter.
I don't have it listed on my website but I thought that it was common knowledge that if you book a half hour session than you are provided 1 cup and 2 cups for the hour session, but the other evening I had a gentleman that booked an hour session and was looking for 3 cups. I politely explained that if he wanted another cup that there would be an extra charge in which he replied that he paid for the hour and should then be served unlimited cups until he was full. Now let me also add that I normally ask my dates if they book the hour to let me know if they are a 1 or 2 cup guy so that I know whether to take my time or not.
My question is Have I been wrong this entire time and is the standard unlimited cups per hour?
Thanks
xoxoxo
Tina
But I like Tina, having met her at a M&G. She's cute, tiny, sexy and writes well, aside from her interest in "Tea." I really must get around to seeing her. But I do find the issue of "cups" (hate the term) per hour to be weird. Not many guys can get three in an hour, so it's really not much to worry about.
If you feels he's taking advantage, don't book him again.
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You know exactly what I think. Shudder.
I have been providing for a few years now and have only came across this situation twice, the other night being the second, so I was wondering if I could have your opinions on the matter.
I don't have it listed on my website but I thought that it was common knowledge that if you book a half hour session than you are provided 1 cup and 2 cups for the hour session, but the other evening I had a gentleman that booked an hour session and was looking for 3 cups. I politely explained that if he wanted another cup that there would be an extra charge in which he replied that he paid for the hour and should then be served unlimited cups until he was full. Now let me also add that I normally ask my dates if they book the hour to let me know if they are a 1 or 2 cup guy so that I know whether to take my time or not.
My question is Have I been wrong this entire time and is the standard unlimited cups per hour?
Thanks
xoxoxo
Tina
LOL I'm with you on this. Just hate it lol.
I have been providing for a few years now and have only came across this situation twice, the other night being the second, so I was wondering if I could have your opinions on the matter.
I don't have it listed on my website but I thought that it was common knowledge that if you book a half hour session than you are provided 1 cup and 2 cups for the hour session, but the other evening I had a gentleman that booked an hour session and was looking for 3 cups. I politely explained that if he wanted another cup that there would be an extra charge in which he replied that he paid for the hour and should then be served unlimited cups until he was full. Now let me also add that I normally ask my dates if they book the hour to let me know if they are a 1 or 2 cup guy so that I know whether to take my time or not.
My question is Have I been wrong this entire time and is the standard unlimited cups per hour?
Thanks
xoxoxo
Tina
as many cups of tea as you would like to serve. Just take your vitamins and we are good to go.
The gentlemen are paying you for your time, not how many cups of tea he produces.
you don't feel comfortable and have to charge for another. he may get pissed and never see you again. So what?
I think 3 in one hour is excessive so I would not hold it against you.
Just specify that rule on your website and be done with it.
I have been providing for a few years now and have only came across this situation twice, the other night being the second, so I was wondering if I could have your opinions on the matter.
I don't have it listed on my website but I thought that it was common knowledge that if you book a half hour session than you are provided 1 cup and 2 cups for the hour session, but the other evening I had a gentleman that booked an hour session and was looking for 3 cups. I politely explained that if he wanted another cup that there would be an extra charge in which he replied that he paid for the hour and should then be served unlimited cups until he was full. Now let me also add that I normally ask my dates if they book the hour to let me know if they are a 1 or 2 cup guy so that I know whether to take my time or not.
My question is Have I been wrong this entire time and is the standard unlimited cups per hour?
Thanks
xoxoxo
Tina
I've done many times....usually the last one id pretty dry and a HJ. And the lady was taking it as a challenge.....YMMV
...multiple orgasms. It doesn't mean one every 30 minutes. That's the first time I've ever heard that. He should not expect to run over time though. He should also be considerate of his partner (you) if you aren't able to accommodate him physically. It didn't sound to me like that was the issue.
I'm not advocating just pound for an hour regardless of consideration for you but if he can have 3 in an hour (and you can) since you offer multiple orgasms then you should accommodate him.
If he is willing to give, I am willing to take, as many and as much as possible! Just make sure we are done and you are ready to go on time or extend the time accordingly. More power to him for getting all that he can, but he should have made sure before booking that you were down for it too. Not everyone is prepared to give that much or work that hard especially if they don't need to. He'll learn soon enough, not every lady is so tolerant of even two cups in an hour. I myself am a one and done, so if it were my turn to get a cup, I'd have to sip slow, when mine is gone that's it for the day. Shop is closed. LOL!
All this tea cup talk makes me dizzy...
I'm sorry but I don't post that frequently and am unaware of the terminology? Could you please elaborate as to what BSU stands for?
Sorry to sound so ignorant but as stated above I don't post (or read) that frequently..
And thanks for all the advice I appreciate it and will be more aware of how I word things (i.e. tea)
Thanks
xoxoxo
Tina
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Not ALL women will even consider allowing three pops in a single hour, no matter how quickly their client is able to cum, but since you asked, "an hour is an hour" and there is no unwritten rule governing how many pops a guy should be able to have, unless of course to achieve his last pop means running significantly over his paid for time, at which point he is the one taking advantage of you, not the other way around.
My issue was not with your perfectly legitimate question, but with the usual fawning over every woman who makes a post by the BSU contestants. lol To many of us, constantly "sucking up" to every woman that posts is not only "unmanly", but it's downright revolting when carried to extremes.
How about some good old fashioned respect both ways? Seems many are short on that and some make it an art form to "get one over" the other.
This makes this whole thing a freaking nightmare when that bullshit happens. A simple "treat someone how you want to be treated" really helps.
At least for anyone billing themselves as gfe or pse. Now for a pump and dump BP gal, that is usually a cbj for 1/2 hr and cfs (once) for an hour. Then again you are paying bargain basement price for usually a girl of no more than a 6 or 7 in looks. I can't tell you how many time I paid for an hour with this type of gal only to get a 5 or 10 minute warm up bj followed by 10 minutes of sex. 20 minutes into the hour she's shooing me out the door. Its why I gave up on BP gals.
A higher class gfe or pse at a correspondingly higher rate I expect to at least try for 2 in an hour. It may not happen the 2nd time, but that should be my lack of ability, not her lack of trying. 3 in an hour in my case is improbable and I wouldn't even try for it nor ask for it, but 2, possible and if she doesn't at least try then she should downgrade her rate and head back to BP.
During my last session I had 30 minutes remaining, I never asked for a pop 3 but my provider was very up for it. She tried a lot hard to make me hard but it did not happen. I kindly said no , went for a shower , dressed up and chatted for the last 20 -25 minutes. Practically it was a 30 minutes session instead of 1 hour, but I would still rate my provider 11/11 as she tried and I gave up.
I think it depends on both the individuals , I agree with most guys over here if there is only 10 minutes left and he is trying to squeeze another pop then I would say no, but if there is more time left then it depends on both of you
I don't believe this industry has rules, if it did, people would follow it and not be so dumb and ignorant. So what it comes down to is "to each their own" or "yymv". I offer 30 minute sessions but make it clear on my website that I only serve 1 cup of tea (whether it's green, chai, coffee, etc) because I like to enjoy our time first before gulping down the cup (I'm not 711 offering a Big Gulp!!!). But an hour session I offer multiple cups and some guys may prefer a cup of tea 1st and then coffee after or visa versa dependign on their energy and strenth after their 1st cup. I don't rush but I don't like to be taken advantage of either. I come across a few who want more than 2 cups and I don't deny it. And with me being pregnant its honestly more draining, especially if a guy is rough or just gross (which is why some girls will not offer refills). You need to do what you feel comfortable with and stick by it. I will not bend my rule no matter what. How does that benefit me? To make me uncomfortable?
My "Rules" per say: within the scheduled timeframe CUM as many times as you wish... If a guy can CUM 2x in half hour-Hurray for him!!! I've never encountered a person to achieve that in that short length but I also do not offer half hour sessions...
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My body has it's limitations. If I reach those then all bets are off. If the guy is not satisfied, then I will not be surprised if he does not return.
One thing to remember is that the woman you hire is NOT a blow up doll. Some get this and others clearly do not.
You set the rules for yourself. But as you state, this situation is not a common case. As I'm sure you've experienced, there's a broad spectrum of penile performance - on one end are guys who only need five minutes to recover and the other are guys who take the whole hour to even get hard. Correct me if I'm wrong, but it seems to me that it would be just as much work to suck a limp dick for an hour as it would be to get the other guy off a third time (I'm guessing that he cums as quickly as he recovers, amirite?). If your jaw and pussy are done, just offer to jerk him off rather than the upsell.
That said, I'm totally sympathetic if he was really working you hard to "get his money's worth." There's just no fun to be had with those guys.
If you want to restrict it, go ahead. Most of us, me included, will never complain, but you will run into some guy who wants you to get him off X+1 times, no matter how many times you normally allow.
I recently visited a provider who was a talker. Among the stories she told me (and she would not stop telling stories) was one about a regular she has who comes to town just to see her, and likes to come at least 5 times in an hour, all via BJ. She was telling the story with pride, but also because her yapping had turned me off and I was losing interest in an effort to reassure me that if I did not come for her it was okay, lots of guys have different standards, shit happens. At least I think she was paying that much attention to me, though now I have to wonder.
Once she got started, she then riffed on what happened when this guy came to town and she was out of town. She managed to refer him to another lady, who I also know. Sounded like she first asked the lady to cover for her, then sort of challenged her to get him off five times. As I recall, the other girl got him to 3 or 4, with some choking and puking involved in getting there. After the fact both the lady and the guy contacted this provider to tell her never again, the whole thing was a disaster. He complained about her only sucking him off three times in a hour, and she complained about a sore throat, sore jaw, and generally miserable experience. Gotta sympathize with the provider on that, even if I did not know her and like her (unlike my feelings for the lady who shared this story).
This tale was told with great pride. Any chance of me getting off with her being gone, I quickly gathered up my clothes and snuck away. I suppose I could have explained to her that GFE usually did not include having to listen to constant stories about her car accident, how her job sucks, and trash talking about other providers and hobbyists, but it seemed like that would be a waste of breath.
Anyway, the point is that there is no standard for how many cups one gets - some providers keep it to one unless you pay for some PSE upgrade, while others will do pretty much whatever you request, and even talk about it endlessly and with pride.
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I don't think there are standards. Really, you set your own. I think communication is key here. I recently had to add a "rule" to my website (about my tardiness policy), so I wouldn't run into more issues with tardy whiners.
It would be good to add your rule to your website maybe. If a gent doesn't like your rules, he can move on.
........ is the standard unlimited cups per hour?
Thanks
xoxoxo
Tina
If he uses you as a reference, tell the next girl she needs to eat her Wheaties!
now GFE is supposed to mean:
multiple shots on goal - no limit within the time
(but in reality a lot of GFE providers provide more time wasting GFE choreography than action 
in addition to
CIM
DFK
My personal feeling is that if I donate for my typical 1.5hrs I do not expect to be told that playtime is over before that time is up.
Now I am a nice guy in person and am not looking to punish anyone - but the ladies I've seen have found 2-3 to be reasonable in that amount of time. Hell sometime I'm done before they are lol.....
GFE means something different to many people. There is no hard and fast rule for the acts delivered in GFE.
Some like you want CIM, I will not ever do CIM but with the other activities I am still considered very much GFE.
To others, GFE is not about acts or pops it is about the entire atmosphere, attitude etc.
..."multiple shots on goal - no limit within the time" and this, well for some ladies sure, for others no, they have limits depending on the guy who is with them at the time.
This is not like ordering a plate of food at a restaurant where the portion size and ingredients are the same for each diner (for the most part).
The variables of each guys needs and and wants places this in territory that has to be taken on a case by case basis, at least that is what I have to do and I am sure I am not alone in this.
The key is finding a person (both john and hooker) that fits your ideal of GFE (or PSE)and what it pertains to
since the term originated in the US -
now it has no real meaning as everyone claims it.....
ironically when I first encountered the term around 1969 in Asia, it meant BBFS....
Well if you don't want to provider that extra cup of tea the least you can do is tea bag the dude to make up for withholding cups of tea unless there's an extra rose or perhaps a sweetheart rose to compensate you!
...you shouldn't ever be expected to go beyond your physical limits. Three in an hour seems excessive, unless he's got serious premature ejaculation issues. If he's like most guys, it takes a while to get back in gear and each orgasm takes longer to reach than the last. If it's like 55 minutes into the hour, he shouldn't expect to squeeze an extra round in there (unless he's a dick and will overstay his time just to meet his arbitrary nut quota).
There's nothing wrong with a guy wanting to get his money's worth, but you can have a kickass time without chaffing a chick's pussy and giving her TMJ. I look at it this way: if your rule is 1 per 1/2 hour, then by that logic you'd be expected to get a guy off eight times in a 4hr date. That's some superhuman shit.
If her pussy is being chaffed or her TMJ goes into orbit
I don't have it listed on my website but I thought that it was common knowledge that if you book a half hour session than you are provided 1 cup and 2 cups for the hour session
Like others are saying it's all up to you, just letting you know what I had thought it meant (though personally for me three in an hour is a totally theoretical question, not happening).
This concept is re-enforced by the oft-repeated message that we are paying for time only, not anything else - the flip side of that is that we aren't thinking by paying for a specific period of time we have purchased a specific number of cups of anything.
You can sell sex acts and obviously the more a man pays, the more he gets. Its like any other business.
I prefer to sell ALL INCLUSIVE parties to avoid men being disappointed however sometimes a man knows he can only come once and is on a short time frame or lower budget so I make sure its all understood prior to booking the party
cups as the guy can produce. However, a 30 minute date is a one and done experience.