I am72 and been hobbying for 30 years. No one has refused me, but I've had a few girls who didn't want to get too close. Terrible sessions.
Would you have a session with a grizzzly old client who looks like he's over two hundred years old? If you're OK with much older men, how come you're not turned off by their advanced age? What is it about the grizzly old men that turns you on (other than money)?
If you have age limits, what exactly is it that turns you off? Is it the skin complexion or just the wrinkles? Anything else
Best sex I have ever had was with a 67 year old man. I don't know why but it was awesome. In my experience old men tend to treat the ladies with a but more dignity than the younger ones, that may be another reason why.
I'm referring to men who are 80 or 90+, not 60 or 70.
The very very old crowd. You still prefer them?
I have nothing in common with men significantly older than my dad, and my (admittedly limited) experience has taught me that I need to put my comfort level at the top of my priority list. Does this mean significantly less income for me? Hell yeah (and by a pretty large margin, too), but it's a trade-off that I feel is best for me.
If you have age limits, what exactly is it that turns you off? Is it the skin complexion or just the wrinkles? Anything else?
If a stranger books with you to have sex after giving you a lot of money, do you honestly really care about having something on common? Are you saying that those strangers you choose to see always have something in common with you?
...to do with having something in common. It has to do with her comfort level.
to threads I haven't participated in. I get to walk-a-way with a sense of dignity
All this time I actually had a modicum of respect for her direct and straight forward honesty but that is disappearing.
I said essentially the same thing back then that I did in my response, just with slightly different wording. I don't know what answer you're expecting.
Call me a bitch, a know-it-all, a feminist nutjob, fine. But don't call me dishonest. I keep it 100.
I can't speak for Tobi, but I know I'd be disappointed if you lost a "modicum of respect" for me. It might make me sad for a matter of..... Never mind it wouldn't make me sad at all. I for one, don't give a rat's ass what you think about me, and I'd suspect she doesn't either.
The long and short of it is, the lady doesn't care to see someone older than 55. And no matter what her reasoning is, it's her time, body, sanity etc and so it's her decision to make
Why are you always such a tool?
Oh, I forgot. You have no fucking way in hell to relate to that.
am surprised at you Tobi, you are hell of lot smarter.
Have you noticed that, every question this idiot asks is either misogynistic or degrading the hobby.
NEG is a troll, no doubt, but he asked a reasonable question in this case.
I am72 and been hobbying for 30 years. No one has refused me, but I've had a few girls who didn't want to get too close. Terrible sessions.
I always am, Ben F does that to me every time...
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Seriously. older guys do not turn me on. They are just easier to deal with for the most part. And if anything goes south I can always take em out and tie em up for LE to cart em away.
Morgan Spurlock's 7 Deadly Sins - the one on lust
Age is probably one of their least concerns. Guys that are unsafe, known to be assholes, have marginal or negative references, seem entitled and stalkers probably are at the top of the Do Not See list. Is an old but in shape and clean guy less attractive that a young, fat slob? I doubt that age is even in the top ten reasons for a provider not to see someone (with Tobi being the exception).
I have hesitated to join this discussion mostly because I don't want to come across as a braggart or bullshitter. I didn't start this hobby until I was 80. Now at 82 I have seen only 7 ladies whose ages ranged from 27 to 50 when I first met them. Three of them have quit escorting to get married or just retired. I was upfront about my age from the start and not one of them had any reservations or at least they didn't show it if they did. Granted, I don't look my age. I am average-looking, 10 lbs overweight, white-haired and I'm always clean when I see them. Yesterday, one of the retired (age 44) came over for lunch just to visit and chat. Next week I have a duo scheduled (I'll probably be still alive at the start lol). The youngest of my small group (29 now) is my ATF and we do many OTC activities. So, I guess, there is more to age than just a number. I have no problem with Tobi or any other provider who won't see us older clients and I wish them well.