If u need to c some one come c me I'll take care of the woodie u have 
my last attempts at appointments, including today, have ended up with cancellations as I was literally walking to the designated area. I wish they would cancel before I popped the little blue pill. Now I'm all perked up and nowhere to go. Come on ladies at least give an hour's notice before cancelling-those little pills are expensive!
I have the same problem in addition to failure to even respond to requests for appointments.
Is it bad manners, snobbish, ditzy broads, or damn poor Public Relations (customer service)???
Well there are the DIVAS and then there are the good, solid providers who respect the men who see them. Maybe you guys are looking at the wrong ones.
I have a bad habit of being late and it isnt because of lack of respect. Its because I have a getting any where on time problem that I am working on. But some gals just throw a guy to the curb cuz someone they deem better came along. I guess they dont have to change because guys keeping calling them.
and as far as the little blue pill, I understand how that works so I tell anyone I know that takes them that wants to see me, to not take it until I am in the car (once I get in car I usually wont sidetrack) But if gals arent going to change maybe you gotta change to the pill that lasts for the day.
Sorry, but any respectful provider would have gave you a heads up. Not everyone is blessed with professional courtesy anymore. Sad.
If u need to c some one come c me I'll take care of the woodie u have
happened to me recently. tho to be fair the two of us mutually cancelled when we met, i didn't like her false advertising and she didn't like the look on my face, i guess, but that's another story.
however, having just popped a blue pill an hour earlier, i just sat in my car and called about 5 numbers for ladies i had previously seen. luckily not one but two called back, i took the one who got back to me first, we set a time for 2 hours later and i had one of the best sessions of my life.
ps it was my birthday too lol.
if you've been in the hobby for any length of time you should have a back up phone list just in case...
I personally have found last minute to be very hit or miss... It is good to have the speed dial ready, as there is a chance you can coordinate something, but it misses more than it works... So, maybe the birthday gods were looking out for you!
I think the best thing to do is to confirm plans at least twice (something I have learned from experience) - usually 24 hrs before and follow up with another email or text 2 hrs before. You need to get keep getting confirmation you are still on and let them know if you don't hear back you will assume something came up. And then make sure you both know the best way to get in touch with each other if there is a problem or something comes up last minute. The few problems I have had are when communication goes dark, but I still have tried to make it work.
Great communication is the key.