That could explain the email request.
Or perhaps they simply don't have their schedule for the next week in their heads, and as you suggested it's not convenient to flip open their laptops (or smartphones) right then. I find this behavior to be more typical than not. I prefer that providers be careful about scheduling appointments, to avoid double-booking and other issues.And it doesn't really cause me any consternation. I just wonder if others have run into it or have ideas as to why it happens.
A few times while getting dressed after a session, I've asked a provider about scheduling the next session, say next week, same night, same hour. Usually they say something like, "Email me."
Now, I don't expect them to flip open the laptop and enter the appointment in front of me, and, no, it's not a matter of whether or not they want to see me again, but it's rare that they just agree to the next appointment.
Any ideas? Is this frequently done?
Any time I've wanted to schedule while rapping up a session...each gal seems quite enthusiastic to set up another session.
Maybe you're just seeing the wrong gals? Most I know use their smart phones instead of a laptop. Maybe you need to work on that DATY skill....let's ask Rod.
A few times while getting dressed after a session, I've asked a provider about scheduling the next session, say next week, same night, same hour. Usually they say something like, "Email me."
Now, I don't expect them to flip open the laptop and enter the appointment in front of me, and, no, it's not a matter of whether or not they want to see me again, but it's rare that they just agree to the next appointment.
Any ideas? Is this frequently done?
Either she doesn't set appointments a week in advance or you've asked her after she's seen no tip or your tip!
BTW, if I really enjoyed myself, I usually ask for a follow up appointment the next day. If I want to see her again later than that, I ask her to log me in her phone and sometimes even give her a suggestion of what to name me, based on our session, so she will remember me when I call again. I don't want her to confuse me with the other 100 bonordonors she sees.
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As the the afterglow of you passion fades, so may your interest. Requesting a follow up email or text demonstrates your continued desire to see them again.
While it sounds noble, what recourse do we have that will ensure you will be back? And, if we get an offer for a longer appointment, or another life obligation and you are only requesting an hour, would you be upset if we canceled?
Something similar just happened with me in which I was supposed to believe that he would be back bi-weekly, and in turn, of course, he wanted a rate adjustment for his frequent visits. I can't take his 'I'll be back" to pay my bills, so I had to decline. If he were to return weekly, religiously, well that's great, but pussy contracts are never binding.
...to a restaurant and enjoy the meal, you may want to make another reservation before you leave. They'll be glad to take it.
OTOH, a provider may think you're just being polite (if it's your first time with her) and you may not be serious. Then she's left with a no-show. But that's what confirmation emails are for.
This provider doesn't sound very flexible about how she schedules her appointments; not the sign of a good businessperson.
That could explain the email request.
Or perhaps they simply don't have their schedule for the next week in their heads, and as you suggested it's not convenient to flip open their laptops (or smartphones) right then.
I find this behavior to be more typical than not. I prefer that providers be careful about scheduling appointments, to avoid double-booking and other issues.
and like you it's never really bothered me. My guess is that prior experience has taught them not to commit... and they may have accidentally double booked that way. Or they may decide to go to the Bahamas next week.
Like a lot of things - it's not all about us....
She might have other things to take care of on a tight schedule.
At a restaurant or the barber shop it's no big deal if there's some overlap between you and the next customer. "Wicked! How's it going? Are you here to see her or him? Yeah, I get serviced by her, too. Her haircuts are very sexy. I'm just making an appt for next week. See ya!"
You have to leave. Almost nobody wants to overlap with other guests. I surely don't.
But, you know, the same thing does happen in the real world. It's not a big deal
..like others have said she might have to check her schedule before agreeing to a future meeting.
A few times while getting dressed after a session, I've asked a provider about scheduling the next session, say next week, same night, same hour. Usually they say something like, "Email me."
Now, I don't expect them to flip open the laptop and enter the appointment in front of me, and, no, it's not a matter of whether or not they want to see me again, but it's rare that they just agree to the next appointment.
Any ideas? Is this frequently done?
Some girls I have met only meet about 1 or 2 clients a day at most so yeah I had that happen many times. Some don't even look at their laptop to know their schedules. Either that or since I am an Asian man, which is another word for "superior race", girls just feel compelled to give me priority booking and many freebies. ROFL
It's awesome when a really hot girl is usually available for me whenever I need to see her though. That's what I like about the hobby. The ladies are the ones highly available and waiting around for my money, I mean, date. Lol
I do get a "email me" once in a while but the recent one who said "email me" really meant it, she wanted me to contact her directly instead of her booker since she wanted to keep more of the $. Others really have an assistant.
My recent appointments were with low volume providers so they knew their own schedules a lot better and told me right away when she's available again. It's obviously a big plus when a girl is eager to see me again and acts like it, whether she's acting or not.
The assistant handles all the scheduling.
like you said you didnt expect her to pencil you in right there BUT she could have been professional and respectful enough to give you her broad schedule the next couple of days. She is not thinking about the big picture in regards to business and the consequences of her demeanor towards you. I never waste anyone else's time so if im available or not available i will let him know. She seems like she's so concerned about her next date she ignores her current date.She did you a favor by showing her true colors! A true provider make's a man feel like a man in every way.. Good luck hun
Usually I'm not asking about visiting again the following night; I'm not that active in the game. Once I saw a woman in the afternoon and arranged to return in the evening, but more often it's, as I said in the OP, the same night next week or something like that. So I can understand if they don't memorize their schedule that far out, but conversely, a lot of the women I see don't really schedule many appointments that far in advance.
Like I said, it doesn't really bother me. It just makes me wonder.
I think the comments about clients booking in the afterglow and then canceling make sense. But when they say they want to set it up later, the women I've known have never been rude about it.
I've stopped doing that pretty much. But I still think it is a convenient way for me to schedule things.
There's a lot of talk about rudeness on this board, but maybe that's because so many posters are from back east. Los Angeles is probably a more civil, more relaxed and fun-loving environment.
Yo dude. Another remark about us Easterners being rude, and I'm gonna come out there and kick your fuckin ass. jk
...like others have said, she may not have her full monthly/weekly plan in her head, also it's pretty common for some of you guys (no offense) to be head over heels and ask for a meeting ASAP after the first and then cancel last minute or never confirm. Perhaps she said to email her as a sign of commitment, to show that it wasn't an in the moment thing and that you were serious.....
I personally have done this in different ways, a gentleman will ask, "Hey can I see you xxx?" and I'll agree tentatively but ask them to follow up with an email so I can remember and then say officially that yes this day works or no it does not. I have also sent out emails after an appointment asking if a gentleman was still interested in the date they wished.
In a way, I guess I play it by ear. Also how long we have known each other makes a big difference, if this is the first time we have met, then I'm just going to be like "Okay....whenever your ready just reach out" if we have met multiple times and have a relationship, I'm more likely to actually be willing to make the time even if I have something there because I know your a sure deal. (And as a bonus, I probably really like you and can't wait to jump....err. I mean MEET You again!) LOL.