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Re: Don't overthink it and remember,
trymaster1 2 Reviews 598 reads
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Thanks for the advice which is all along the same line.  I know the one lady and had a great time and the fun of being with her in a familiar place and the excitement of someone new at the same time should be a blast.  Thanks for all the advice.

I am doing my first threesome tomorrow with 2 beautiful ladies that are friends and truly bisexual.  What are your favorite things to do in 3's that should not be missed?

The fact that both of the ladies you will be seeing together are friendly with each other is a major key.  As for things to do, if this is your first double, I would suggest that you just go with the flow, and not try to choreograph things.   You won't need to, as they will likely blow you away with all of things you will see and experience.  

As for the ladies themselves, if you will be meeting and playing with one these ladies for the first time, recognize that the door will be wide open for subsequent meetings with her as well as the lady you already know.  Doing so on a solo basis will most gain you a new friend, with all of the possibilities that follow.  Have fun, dude.

Thanks CD that's my plan exactly

Posted By: Crazy Diamond
The fact that both of the ladies you will be seeing together are friendly with each other is a major key.  As for things to do, if this is your first double, I would suggest that you just go with the flow, and not try to choreograph things.   You won't need to, as they will likely blow you away with all of things you will see and experience.    
   
 As for the ladies themselves, if you will be meeting and playing with one these ladies for the first time, recognize that the door will be wide open for subsequent meetings with her as well as the lady you already know.  Doing so on a solo basis will most gain you a new friend, with all of the possibilities that follow.  Have fun, dude.

Don't go in with a laundry list, you'll just stress yourself out and kick yourself later if you miss something.  Just get in there and have fun, you'll enjoy it a lot more

I think you sit back, relax and enjoy the ride.  

Have fun! :)

I like to lay down face up with one gal doing cowgirl and the other sitting on my face.

To mix it up, the gal on my face can turn around and make out with the gal doing the CG.

Some gals do a tag-team thing for their 3-way where only one gal is with you at any time.  If that's not your idea of big time fun, then you should have some understanding about that beforehand, as long as you're already on a firm footing with at least one of the gals.

It's best to already know at least one of the gals well before getting involved, and as you point out, it's real good for the gals to already be an item.

Of course their are dozens of possibilities you can come up with, so use your own imagination.  That's half the fun.

By the way, some careful positioning of large mirrors prior to the festivities can really pay off.

Have fun and let us know how it goes.




I have a tendency to overthink things and, when planning my first duo, was admonished gently by one of the ladies not to work so hard at it. It was great advice, and she made sure I had an awesome experience. One thing to keep in mind: ladies first. There's a special joy in providing pleasure to two ladies at the same time. They know how best to be pleasured: be guided by them. The rewards will be great.

Above all, savor the moment, and have fun.

Thanks for the advice which is all along the same line.  I know the one lady and had a great time and the fun of being with her in a familiar place and the excitement of someone new at the same time should be a blast.  Thanks for all the advice.

I have personally found that I don't like the dynamic as much when they already know one another and sell services as a team.....

I prefer to combine providers I've come to know well enough to know that they will get on -

I like for one to be "really bi" and the other to be more or completely inexperienced but curious....

I like to mix types or races - my favorite ever featured two genuinely model worthy ladies, one blonde and experienced / really bi, and the other ebony.... the blonde had never been with an ebony and was curious as well

I like it to be genuinely hot for the ladies, not scripted or too familiar -  but I don't like to be neglected either -

my preferences is to be fucking one of them while they are licking the other,  or in some cases where one is more dominant, to be fucking one while the other is fucking her face and kissing me.....

the dynamic that I and a good provider friend are sharing a lady less experienced in threesies is hot......

and if there is potential for some d/s - which is the currency of my preferred sex life,  all the better.....

By this I mean, lay back and let the two ladies do what they want to you. Then have one of the ladies lay back and you and the other work her over. Rinse and repeat.

then start making out with her and then have the other one give you a nice, slow BJ

Enjoy!

OLT you got it right for me.  The kissing done with one of them while the other did BBBJCIM sent me absolutely into the stratosphere.  Twice. Also found kissing a woman while she is getting oral from the other to be very passionate.  Other good part was just laying in that after glow for a little while warmly sandwiched between two beautiful bodies all three of us just a little sweaty and satisfied.  Priceless.

Congrats on your first threesome, you won't look at life the same way after that experience.  There is a lot of good advice here.  And I agree that until you get the hang of it you should let the ladies set the pace for you.  Unless you are an expert multi-tasker you'll have your hands full (literally and figuratively speaking LOL) anyway.  My first few threesomes (many years ago) mainly consisted of me lying there and saying "oh wow" alot.  At least when my mouth wasn't otherwise occupied.  Which was rare.

I've personally always liked the theme of one girl showing the other some technique (with me as the willing test subject of course).  It usually involves one more experienced and one less experienced partner (or the acting thereof), but they could just be sharing different things they like to do as well.  Of course this usually involves some kind of role play - which is more of an advanced topic regarding threesome dynamics.  :-)  Enjoy!

LOL....Great post thank you.

You're very welcome.  And one more interesting thing - no one ever mentioned the sexual theory of relativity to me.  If you think time flies by with one awesome partner, wait until you have two.  You will swear someone was tampering with the clock.  An hour will seem like 10 minutes.  Three hours will seem like 30 minutes.  Life can be so cruel.  ;-)  So like the other gents said don't go in with a big list of things you want to see happen.  Let the ladies do their thing and you'll have a great time.  Just relax and enjoy the ride!
 

Posted By: trymaster1
LOL....Great post thank you.

...because I to have found that my choreographed mental image goes out the window in a nanosecond once the clothes come off!  Let the ladies guide you this time around.

A couple of fave 3-some memories:

1) As someone else mentioned earlier, a more experienced provider showing a less experienced provider something new.  My most profound memory of this hobby is when I had one experienced squirter coaching a newbie squirter in one session.  I will never forget that one...

2) Having each lady don a female condom, bend over in doggie, then you go from one to the other and back and forth, and feel the differences between their insides...  All good and all incredible!  

Enjoy, and as Mr Fisher said - tell us how it worked out!!

Take it from someone who's had the good fortune to see some of the most amazing sights on the planet,  natural and man made, there is nothing,  NOTHING,  more beautiful and wondrous than watching two hotties get it on. For at least a few minutes just sit back and let the glory of sapphic sex wash over you like a warm breeze on a tropical beach.

And no you don't have to thank me; it's my pleasure to spread the gospel of girl on girl magic.

Wetravel in similar circles.  I got a Pm that you picked a great one and solved a riddle.

Yes I did pick a good one and had a fun time.  And it was so funny your story should come up.

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