appreciate when a guy gets all dressed up for me as, I take the time to get all dolled up for each and every gentlemen. I'm okay with jeans and a t shirt if we're going out for some casual fun.
Ladies do you like your clients dressed up in a suit or is jeans and t shirt okay for you??
If I show up in a suit with Tobi, you'll be dripping wet?
Because quite frankly, the thought of watching you two together gives me goose bumbs and if me wearing a suit adds to your excitement, then I'm all in.
Holy crap, I may need to go home at lunch and rub one out to that mental picture.
In my family are from a culture sort of obsessed with appearance and attires, I often hear a lot of bullshit from relatives and friends when I show up at an event in my jeans lol If I am going to a formal event with a girl dressed in formal dress, well yeah I need to dress my ass up too.
But by the time dinner starts my jack is off, my tie comes off, sometimes even my shoes lol. Hate that feeling of having trapped around something
Especially at your price point, the word "dash" in a hooker name brings up the wrong kind of mental images for me.
As for a suit, I quit wearing suits twenty years ago, most of us don't expect a lady to be dressed to the nines for an incall date, and most guys really don't want their dates to be too dolled up for an outcall. Freshly showered and lingerie is just fine with me for an incall. As for me, I am just as likely to show up in shorts if it's the summertime, but I will be freshly showered.
Sorry I didn't I actually came up with my name from my nickname and the actress Stacey Dash. Dash comes from her and Diamond is the nickname my Godmother gave me.
am in New York City; obviously a very business oriented environment.. And I can tell you the people that wear suits (or at least a jacket/tie) on a daily basis has diminished drastically over the past decade. I see very few "suits" on a daily basis (in my office, building, the surrounding area, on trains, subways, etc.). Unless one is meeting a client, most business men today wear corporate casual (dress slacks/button down long sleeved shirt). The work culture has completely changed with respect to attire.
So while you might like a man (find it sexy) dressed in a suit when he sees you, the reality is, it is most likely not going to happen. I do agree that a hobbyist should not show up looking like a slob (ripped jeans, flip flops, stained t-shirt and a wearing a baseball cap backwards), but asking for a suit/tie is a bit much. A nice pair of khakis and shirt should do the trick.
Decades ago men wore suits for everything. It wasn't just the movies.
I wore a suit to interview for my first after-school job, a 95 cent an hour dishwasher position at a restaurant. In fact, I've worn a suit for every job interview, from age 16 until my last interview ten years ago.
When we went to church, all of the men wore suits. Even most of the young men and boys wore suits.
I have a photograph of my English grandfather in a boat doing some fishing. He was wearing a suit and tie and a fedora. That was the English middle-class tradition. If you've seen the movie "Harry Brown" with Michael Caine, you saw in the opening scenes his elderly character putting on a suit and tie to visit his sick wife at the hospital, and that was very realistic. Alfred Hitchcock wore a simple black suit every day, even when he was on location directing a film. It's just the way it was.
If my father was working on a project and needed to go to the hardware store, he washed his hair and put on some good clothes. Not a suit, but presentable clothes. Guys didn't dress like bums just because they were going to the hardware store.
I wore a suit once to see a provider, and I think she was put off by it, perhaps because of her age (24). I plan to see an older provider soon (35+), and I'll likely wear a suit to see her. Her reviews mention her fine dresses and such, so it would seem appropriate
To answer you question simply: Dressy attire that is applied to what the position required and employees did not wear flip flops. It is not a sex worker’s job.
Also, my comment is specifically directed to one poster and in agreement to a possible cultural and generational gap in fashion today.
(Other than that, it is off subject from the original post.)
What are you talking about? You will have to give detailed information about the position the YW is applying for, I could tell you what she should be wearing on the job.
Not that this will get me ahead. I don't believe in dressing for the interview. When it comes to a real job.
Those are the hoops society should be concerned about jumping through.
Different story in fantasy land. I could out dress your woman any day of the week. Just go back and look at what I tell the ladies they should wear for their shoots. *I don't buy women prizes.
There is a history of change in fashion but it is not worth the time and effort to get into details here. The point is moot if not trite in this exchange as it is off the wall! I realize no two people see eye to eye; especially if they choose and like to do so on purpose. No problem though, I’m always up for a good laugh, as sir you are unique in your own way; so live your fantasy and have some fun. Many do like fantasy, anyhow. Though, the trick is to see if others take to your thinking (and visa-versa, too) to get a, fun, entertaining and interesting conversation…I’m done here.
n my youth, if I attended a Broadway show, most men (if not all) would be in a suit/ or jacket and tie. No other attire was considered. Today, men wear football jerseys to the theater. Same goes for religious worship. I would never wear anything else but a suit. Now men show up looking like total slobs. Sometimes the clothes are appalling. Now I'll admit that I have "downgraded" my current attire when attending the theater or Church/Temple. But I still would wear at the very least business casual. Never shorts, t-shirts, flip flops. etc.
I would still wear a suit/tie to a job interview. Then the rule of thumb in any new job is to see what others are wearing. If your boss is wearing a suit, then you show up in a suit until told otherwise.
I would think, bringing this back to the hobby, that most men do not wear suits to a session...mainly because they do not wear suits in life.
And most of the time if I did I'd look pretty out of place given the office culture. I do like the way I look in one though and don't mind the excuse to wear a suit when I can.
I am in New York City; obviously a very business oriented environment.. And I can tell you the people that wear suits (or at least a jacket/tie) on a daily basis has diminished drastically over the past decade. I see very few "suits" on a daily basis (in my office, building, the surrounding area, on trains, subways, etc.). Unless one is meeting a client, most business men today wear corporate casual (dress slacks/button down long sleeved shirt). The work culture has completely changed with respect to attire.
So while you might like a man (find it sexy) dressed in a suit when he sees you, the reality is, it is most likely not going to happen. I do agree that a hobbyist should not show up looking like a slob (ripped jeans, flip flops, stained t-shirt and a wearing a baseball cap backwards), but asking for a suit/tie is a bit much. A nice pair of khakis and shirt should do the trick.
is to wear what makes you most comfortable and defines the man you are, however, whatever that is. I've had the pleasure of meeting gentlemen in three piece suits (tie and all), cowboy boots, jeans, tee shirts, sweaters, flip flops, shorts, polos, blazer and dress slacks, leather pants, I mean the whole gamut. All of them were sexy, because they wore it well and were sexy in their own skin. Nothing else really matters to me. The key to whatever anyone wears is to wear it with the utmost in confidence..........that's the sharpest suit out there in my opinion.
Suit is great but considering the weather and high humidity other wardrobe choices are equally nice and elegant (a nice pair of slacks with a freshly pressed shirt and loafers are great). We highly appreciate a gentleman who has placed a little more emphasis on looking good for us, conversely we also try to look good at all times...
however they come to me! And I do swoon for suits. In FL they don't happen too often as Paloma said, but my goodness I get lady wood when they do happen. Usually we get jackets at the most, which are also moisture-inducing for me. I do love it when a man makes an effort to be ready for me- even if he comes in shorts, if he's clean-shaven/nicely groomed and smells delicious in all the right places, I'm very pleased.
Posted By: DiamondDash
I appreciate when a guy gets all dressed up for me as, I take the time to get all dolled up for each and every gentlemen. I'm okay with jeans and a t shirt if we're going out for some casual fun.
Ladies do you like your clients dressed up in a suit or is jeans and t shirt okay for you???
however they come to me! And I do swoon for suits. In FL they don't happen too often as Paloma said, but my goodness I get lady wood when they do happen. Usually we get jackets at the most, which are also moisture-inducing for me. I do love it when a man makes an effort to be ready for me- even if he comes in shorts, if he's clean-shaven/nicely groomed and smells delicious in all the right places, I'm very pleased.
Posted By: DiamondDash
I appreciate when a guy gets all dressed up for me as, I take the time to get all dolled up for each and every gentlemen. I'm okay with jeans and a t shirt if we're going out for some casual fun.
Ladies do you like your clients dressed up in a suit or is jeans and t shirt okay for you???
I'm from the D.C. area and it still is a suit environment, and I also like wearing them. My body shape requires slim suits and they are very comfortable on me, almost becomes like a second skin. I travel frequently and my clientele still requires me to dress appropriately.
To those ladies in SoFL, I travel there for business quite often and the when I show up in a suit, the ladies do seem to really enjoy the periodic change from summer casual. I receive quite a bit of compliments, men you should try it.
While I agree that clothes don't make a man, but a well fit and tailored suit sure doesn't hurt ;
I also wear suits for work all the time and is what I feel most comfortable in, so I always wear suits and tie to a date. I have a ton of ties and some ties for work, some for play. Also various pocket squares to jazz things up.
Posted By: sc400
I'm from the D.C. area and it still is a suit environment, and I also like wearing them. My body shape requires slim suits and they are very comfortable on me, almost becomes like a second skin. I travel frequently and my clientele still requires me to dress appropriately.
To those ladies in SoFL, I travel there for business quite often and the when I show up in a suit, the ladies do seem to really enjoy the periodic change from summer casual. I receive quite a bit of compliments, men you should try it.
While I agree that clothes don't make a man, but a well fit and tailored suit sure doesn't hurt
Whenever I'm going someplace where I feel that how I'm dressed will be taken into account, there are three options.
Dress for the weather or situation: for example if I'm meeting someone on a boat or at the marina, I'm not going to wear a suit. Probably cargo shorts and a short-sleeved shirt.
Costume myself: A red & white or a showing where I'll probably know some but not all of the people, I dress in whatever way I feel will allow me to present as I'd like to be regarded in that social situation. Probably not as businessman or a hanger on, although that might be how I DO want to appear at times, but usually I aim for the happy dilettante look. Of whatever, but more a costume, hopefully stylish. So this requires thought and choice.
Or I can wear a suit and tie. This removes most choice, will not seem underdressed usually, can be toned by shirt color and volume of tie, and leaves no questions in the minds of people I meet. Meeting a stranger or a group I'm unfamiliar with almost always warrants a suit. Especially if business is involved or if I want to gain their confidence.
So, most of the time, meeting a provider in a traditional incall or a hotel suggests wearing a suit. Sometimes a sports jacket and no tie. Also, it feels easier to blend in or appear less approachable in a hotel lounge or lobby.
It's just easier than deciding what to wear, and she draws no conclusions about who I am?
Whenever I'm going someplace where I feel that how I'm dressed will be taken into account, there are three options.
Dress for the weather or situation: for example if I'm meeting someone on a boat or at the marina, I'm not going to wear a suit. Probably cargo shorts and a short-sleeved shirt.
Costume myself: A red & white or a showing where I'll probably know some but not all of the people, I dress in whatever way I feel will allow me to present as I'd like to be regarded in that social situation. Probably not as businessman or a hanger on, although that might be how I DO want to appear at times, but usually I aim for the happy dilettante look. Of whatever, but more a costume, hopefully stylish. So this requires thought and choice.
Or I can wear a suit and tie. This removes most choice, will not seem underdressed usually, can be toned by shirt color and volume of tie, and leaves no questions in the minds of people I meet. Meeting a stranger or a group I'm unfamiliar with almost always warrants a suit. Especially if business is involved or if I want to gain their confidence.
So, most of the time, meeting a provider in a traditional incall or a hotel suggests wearing a suit. Sometimes a sports jacket and no tie. Also, it feels easier to blend in or appear less approachable in a hotel lounge or lobby.
It's just easier than deciding what to wear, and she draws no conclusions about who I am?
In today's world, the "wanna be's" wear the suits and the guys who have made it wear casual.
A business suit is a uniform, and once you've reached a certain status it's the "other guy" who needs to wear a uniform.
It's funny, I actually like wearing a suit, but in my business wearing a suit is like driving a hummer, people look at you like you're a putz when you do so.
For me, making a date with a lady might be just a once a month occasion. For you it's just a part of your everyday routine. So I'm have to admit that it probably seems like a bigger deal for me each time. And the people in my world don't equate wearing a suit with driving a hummer. A suit and tie are just items of clothing like socks or jeans.
When someone wears a suit I don't assume they're a wannabe. And I'm not sure how universal it is that people who are well off dress in casual clothes all the time, and only the people who are trying to get money put on suits. For some it's what's more more comfortable to not have to concern themselves each morning with what they're going to wear. For others, it's just enough old school that fewer panhandlers will bother you and fewer drunks in the lounge will stagger up for a conversation. That's not to mention those who wear it as a uniform to do their work.
Nobody is trying to put you down for dressing the way you want, and I hope you're not trying to ridicule me for dressing the way I choose to dress.
Me and the ceo set a culture where we don't give a shit about dressing up too much most days of the week. Neither do the employees lol they all dress in biz casual or jeans and the only time we suit up is when there are big name guys visiting who is most likely wearing a suit so it's a courtesy that I we also dress somewhat appropriately.
I'm usually in my outdoor gear and have walked into appointments in my trail runners, underarmors, after going for a run or hike or both.
I do it as a part of courtesy... not in order to impress. I mean why would a guy be impressed or even interested in how well I dress unless he's gay?
On dates, if it's a real date, I try to look like I care more about my dress. may even suit up depending on occasion. Mostly cuz certain girls whine about me dressing too casually to events we go to and I don't wanna hear them bitch about it every time. Lol
And to the extent that I have to do business or deal with people, I feel it is a sign of respect to dress well when meeting them. And I'm quite serious about clothes fending off random people. It's like carrying a clipboard when going to certain parts of town. I have no real need of a clipboard, but it looks like even though I'm a stranger, I must be there on some kind of business, so people generally leave me alone.
At other times I deliberately wear work clothes. Not because I'll be around only workers, but simly because I want to be regarded as a laborer who just got off work. Blending in too much opens up invitations for strangers to get acquainted, and sometimes that's the mood I'm in, and sometimes not. It's all about survival.
But when a lady meets a man in a plain suit, there is no message sent. The guy isn't dressed in cowboy boots, Stetson, a square dancing shirt, dress jeans with a big silver buckle on a thick buffalo-skin belt. That makes a statement, and at times I might want to make a statement like that (although it's an expensive costume to have in the closet), but a plain east coast suit and tie says absolutely nothing. Except your on your way to something and don't really have time to shoot the shit with every workie who gets it in his head that he wants to get to know who you are and what you're up to. Camouflage in reverse. But either that's how a person is or it's not. Not something a man should just decide to do.
I can usually tell when someone's wearing clothes they're not used to, but it goes right past the vast majority. Women with big tits have it made! They can walk through a crowd and nobody will remember their face! Men aren't so lucky and have to find more subtle ways.
Like most "mainlanders" a coat and tie was the uniform of the day, even in the oil business. I flew out and brought about three different suits to wear for my various meetings. After my first meeting, where I was the only guy in the room wearing a suit, I "went native" immediately lol
Now suits are reserved for weddings and funerals, I still own a tux, but I haven't worn it for at least ten years. Wearing a suit to a P4P session is laughable IMO
but mostly in the capital city of San Jose which is at a bit of altitude, it rarely gets much of 80 there, if you go down to the beach it is almost always "Florida in the summertime" type hot, and you won't see a lot of suit wearers there, unless it's a bathing suit that you are talking about.
I agree. I don't even own a suit anymore, but I HAD to wear one (and a tie) daily until I retired. Comfort is where it's at for me these days. I'm only going to drop everything I have on right to the floor anyway.
Being a very touristy town where shorts are the norm I'll usually were a some nice loafers, shorts and a clean casual shirt. I want to blend in as much as possible.
I'm more concerned with hygiene and behavior. Some of my favorite dates have been more on the casual side, but what gal doesn't like a man in a suit -- or likes to get dolled up herself from time to time?
As with traveling, it's probably a good idea to dress for the destination and location of your rendezvous. If you know you are going to a nice boutique hotel, it might be best to put a bit more thought into your look. Of course, a suit probably isn't necessary, lol. It can also depend on your intended date vibe. I say if it makes a guy feel like a stud, go with it!
I like to be the pretty one! No really, anywhere in Chicago a pair of jeans and jacket are all you need. But whatever makes you most comfortable is best. I can't wear jeans...too much ass and thighs I just never feel comfortable in them and love dresses but a guy in jeans and jacket looks sexy!
I'll stick with my jeans, polo shirt and suspenders. Just works for me.
I did actually wear a tux not too long ago...shocked the shit out of quite a few folks.
Posted By: TiffanyDelight
I like to be the pretty one! No really, anywhere in Chicago a pair of jeans and jacket are all you need. But whatever makes you most comfortable is best. I can't wear jeans...too much ass and thighs I just never feel comfortable in them and love dresses but a guy in jeans and jacket looks sexy!
Suits do look sharp, but excluding some lawyers and politicians, only the men who wear polos and khakis (or jeans) can afford to see me regularly... Lol.
Sometimes for dinner dates a guy will ask what he should wear. I always tell him no worries, I can carry the team. If he's super casual, everyone will just assume he's rich or hung like a horse. Lol. Hilarious but 100% true.
Seems many are quite casual with their attire...and few make any serious money LOL
You don't have any dudes in the financial service field? All my pals there still have to wear a zoot...and they hate it
I'd also suggest why not rich...and hung? I guess it all depends on the definitions.
Posted By: MissMarieM
Suits do look sharp, but excluding some lawyers and politicians, only the men who wear polos and khakis (or jeans) can afford to see me regularly... Lol.
Sometimes for dinner dates a guy will ask what he should wear. I always tell him no worries, I can carry the team. If he's super casual, everyone will just assume he's rich or hung like a horse. Lol. Hilarious but 100% true.
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Usually we get jackets at the most, which are also moisture-inducing for me. I do love it when a man makes an effort to be ready for me- even if he comes in shorts, if he's clean-shaven/nicely groomed and smells delicious in all the right places, I'm very pleased. 
