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Is there a such thing as having too many reviews? How many reviews is considered enough? How many reviews should a lady have in order for you to feel secure in her reputation? Should a lady strive for a certain amount of reviews per month, or should she not concern herself with such matters?
If in fact, a lady has requested for you not to review her, would you respect her wishes?
If a lady has not had any reviews in a few months, would that deter you from seeing her, irrespective of her past reviews?
Furthermore, what are the hindrances of reviewing ladies? What are the positive aspects?
I'd love to hear your thoughts..

But some clients think that too many reviews indicates a gal who is too high volume, and that upsets them for one reason or another.

I like to see that a gal has at least 5-6 reviews over the last couple of years as a minimum.

I know of no specific hindrances to review a gal, and I enjoy helping out her and my fellow hobbyist.  But I enjoy writing as those of you who follow my posts can attest.

The hindrance may be a legal one. It may not hold up in a criminal case. but could be damaging  in a divorce or custody case, or just a matter of credibility in a law suit. What if she was outted and her stage name came out to family and friends, a quick search would let everyone know of her other life. Who knows what is in a woman's mind.
   I for one don't give much credibility to most reviews. I feel 85% are -LOOK WHAT I DID!! -SHE HAD 20 BIG O's- I AM THE MAN!!
   I just want to know that she is reliable and safe.

For you English Teachers out there please don't grade my syntax or spelling.
MY 2 cents

The ones I met only had 19 Os.  I just couldn't get them to reach that 20th O.  I feel less of a man due to not having them reach that last O.

Behind closed doors, you "politely offer," since she is clearly "having an off day," that you would be more than happy to forgive her inability to "recieve the pleasure you were trying to give her," by escorting her to a lengthy off the clock dinner. But be sure to mention that if she declines, it is your sworn civic duty as an esteemed TER reviewer to report her "orgasmic deficiences" via a lengthy and "truthful" review of what secretly frigid, man-hating, bitch she is. ;-)

Please refer to the first definition. :-p

 mag·num n.  

1. A bottle, holding about two fifths of a gallon (1.5 liters), for wine or liquor.  
2. The amount of liquid that this bottle can hold.  
3. A magnum cartridge or firearm.

I think it depends on the lady. Many women are not on here because they don't allow reviews of them selves, there for take a low key approach to the biz.  

But for the woman on here reviews help them out immensely.

can always make up for lack of reviews. Even w/ reviews I always back channel with other guys to see if she is a good match or not.  

If someone tells me not to review her, I will grant her wish, provided the request is made in advance and before me stepping my foot in the door. At which point I will decide whether she is even worth seeing or not.  

Hinderances? No there are no hinderances. I can run my mouth all day long.  Positive aspect is I get to write a damn review. Ain't that positive enough...:D

Reviews keep a current synopses of the level of service, professionalism and aesthetic charm of the provider.

Missing an occasional "month" in respect to reviews is no concern, a long laps could mean a lot of things; but not necessarily bad!  

I'd respect a wish NOT to review; but only if the service was perfunctory and the woman's photos were faithful to her currently. If not; she is obviously trying to beat or "game" the system through passive skulduggery.

The 'Pros' of reviewing are that  
1. Tiresome and invasive screening is often avoided at subsequent solicitations.
2. The community benefits from it.
3. One's English composition skills are tasked, exercised and improved.
4. 15 days of VIP access are awarded for every approved/published review.

 The 'Cons' of reviewing are
1. Pressure from manipulative "gamers" of the review system.
2. Pissed off or hurt feelings whether they be justified or by the individual's personal delusions or neurosis.  
3. Anything one puts in writing can bite them in the ass at a later date for a multitude of scenarios and reasons.  

 
 

Posted By: YourDCMuse
Is there a such thing as having too many reviews? How many reviews is considered enough? How many reviews should a lady have in order for you to feel secure in her reputation? Should a lady strive for a certain amount of reviews per month, or should she not concern herself with such matters?  
 If in fact, a lady has requested for you not to review her, would you respect her wishes?  
 If a lady has not had any reviews in a few months, would that deter you from seeing her, irrespective of her past reviews?  
 Furthermore, what are the hindrances of reviewing ladies? What are the positive aspects?  
 I'd love to hear your thoughts...  
 

I disagree. I have seen numerous handles, with 15 or 20 reviews under their belt, still exhibiting syntax reminiscent of bad e. e. cummings poetry.  If the following poem/review was written by RodTidwell, it would read, "pretty lady, i will touch you with my mind. stay strong."  Of course if it was written by most of the rest of you, it would read:

lady, i will touch you with my mind
you will come (five or ten times, in the first ten minutes)
and come, again. squirt

squirt
(it is not pee, says my ego.) squirt

i am a skilled lover.
dinner, for me

is always off the clock.

 
“lady, i will touch you with my mind” by e.e. cummings

lady, i will touch you with my mind.
touch you and touch and touch  
until you give  
me suddenly a smile, shyly obscene

(lady i will  
touch you with my mind.) Touch  
you,that is all,

lightly and you utterly will become  
with infinite care

the poem which i do not write.

I think it is completely dependent on the guy himself and where he is located...some feel a long time in-between reviews is a red flag, while others realize that ladies take breaks, are seeing only regulars who don't review, etc. Others feel too many reviews in a short period of time indicates high volume (even though a gent has x amount of time to review after an appointment, so this really doesn't indicate anything if all of them decide to review around the same time).  

I recently went a year with no new reviews, and thought nothing of it (a combination of visiting places that do not use TER and seeing mostly repeats). Then I saw a post on the newbie board from an upcoming appointment I had, asking if a large gap in review history was a sign of LE or the provider being flipped, lol. I ended up having an old regular re-write his past review, and then had two more pop in the following week....they definitely increase business and seem to give people the peace of mind that the lady is still active and has not encountered any problems.

It's kinda problematic if they suddenly end.

What I mean is when a lady has a page or more of good reviews I'm interested. But if the last review was posted in 2012 I'm reluctant.  One begins to wonder if there has been a change in appearrance such as weight gain or even performance  or something that might be of greater concern.

I understand why someone might not want scores of reviews but like I said, at least an occasional somewhat current review can be helpful for us distrustfull types.

However, I have seen a few ladies that prefered not to be reviewed and since I had a very positive experience with them I honored their request.

one of my girls has 242 reviews..she is as hot now as she was 7 years ago..she never reads her reviews and is always booked solid on every tour she does..any more questions?..

Posted By: YourDCMuse
Is there a such thing as having too many reviews? How many reviews is considered enough? How many reviews should a lady have in order for you to feel secure in her reputation? Should a lady strive for a certain amount of reviews per month, or should she not concern herself with such matters?  
 If in fact, a lady has requested for you not to review her, would you respect her wishes?  
 If a lady has not had any reviews in a few months, would that deter you from seeing her, irrespective of her past reviews?  
 Furthermore, what are the hindrances of reviewing ladies? What are the positive aspects?  
 I'd love to hear your thoughts...  
 

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A provider I saw in spring has a couple of hundred reviews that span four years. In and of itself that's no big deal, but I had problems with her being very late, unprepared, not dressed (bathrobe only) and forgetting common things I had requested. My impression when I arrived at the session was that she'd been rushing to get ready after a prior session. The number of reviews made me wonder if she was overbooking herself

and  I am personally not put off if there are hundreds of them but some may be -  many do like the idea that if a lady is "low volume" that is somehow a benefit, makes it more "real" and leads to better service - I have not found this to be the case at all but that idea is out there....

the thing is,  having no recent reviews (by which I mean compared to the established pattern / frequency or reviews)  is a red flag to me and I think to many others.....

If I were asked not to submit a review I would honor that request UNLESS there was an issue with the provider or session that I would feel remiss in not informing other hobbyists about....

For many reasons but this one seems a good one to start;

"Anything one puts in writing can bite them in the ass at a later date for a multitude of scenarios and reasons"  

And by writing I interpret that as anything written either by a john or about a hooker that is viewable by the public

is that she asks to remove her profile here -   that is why I consider a cessation of a steady pattern (whether it is weekly or monthly or twice yearly or whatever.....) of reviews to be a red flag....

Try sending me a pm.  I'm curious if you can even send let alone receive.  

But I agree with you that is why I don't have any reviews visible.  

If I had diligently written reviews since the day I started it would be well in the hundreds. (hobby once upto a few times a week times 4 weeks times 12 = 50 to 150 a year and I've been around for a few years).  I do write very occasionally but only if the stars align,  the girl wants one, and or if I have ton of time on my hands where I'm home early in the evening screwing around on my laptop. .  

I put some thought in to the shit I write so they take some time.  I don't write them to get vip days but primarily to write a good review or TOFTT. Honestly, I prefer to just pay for VIP or problem reports, than spend all that time writing.  Lol

I can't PM. Not VIP and no need to be. You know I just come on here to mess around. Shit 90% of the guys on here have scratched me off their little "to do" lists because I have said something, okay a lot of things out of line for a hooker.  

Clearly I don't mind, not here to win a popularity contest and like a few guys who prefer the alias route and would never tell a hooker the handle they mess around here on.

der for me to even begin to determine if I want to set up an appointment with a lady, I study her review history. I look for a minimum of 10 reviews, of which there must be a few recent reviews (written over the past two months) and written by established hobbyists. Moreover, even though there may be a plausible explanation (and most times there would be), I tend to avoid ladies with large gaps of time between reviews. For example if I see the most current reviews dated April 2014 and March 2014 but the next most current review prior is dated May 2013, I usually pass. I'll let the lady "re-establish" herself with current clients before setting up an appointment.  

I also like to see a personal website. So even though the lady may have 30 current reviews, if her only method of advertising is a back page or Eros ad or a 411 Preferred, etc., I pass on seeing her as well.  I am sure I have missed visiting some great ladies, but we all must maintain a certain comfort level.  

Obviously, there are always exceptions to the rule. For example if a provider I trust recommends a lady, then I'd be more apt to set up an appointment even though she doesn't meet my review requirements.

So for me, I like seeing current reviews. The lady can never have too many.

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Than how many has reviewed her, I try to look for reviewers that I trust. I'm not naive I know I'm not the only guy a provider bangs, so I could care less about how many reviews she has. And if I get a request not to review, or to leave something out of a review, I honor the request.  

Posted By: YourDCMuse
Is there a such thing as having too many reviews? How many reviews is considered enough? How many reviews should a lady have in order for you to feel secure in her reputation? Should a lady strive for a certain amount of reviews per month, or should she not concern herself with such matters?  
 If in fact, a lady has requested for you not to review her, would you respect her wishes?  
 If a lady has not had any reviews in a few months, would that deter you from seeing her, irrespective of her past reviews?  
 Furthermore, what are the hindrances of reviewing ladies? What are the positive aspects?  
 I'd love to hear your thoughts...  
 

I myself have very very few reviews. I work have taken time off from hobby from time to time and even had arrangements which meant I didn't have to hobby at all and  when the arrangement ended. So basically had to reestablish my again it's still hard.   For some reason I see the one's that don't review but have reference and just a handle. But they tend to be repeat for quit some time.  I've even heard some girls will make the client write the review in front of them and they were given special treatment.  

I have even turned down appointments if someone contacts me that's been around a very long time have hundreds of reviews, then see ladies who have hundreds of reviews from all boards and travels a lot. I will decline to see. Too much of a risk for me which he is a career hobbyist and she is a career provider.  Just my view...hope I didn't offend anyone

Reviews should definitely be written if there's false advertising involves pictures out of date and not accurate, too Photoshop, doesn't follow through with services offered, habits of not being on time.

Although a person could be well reviewed, I could see you point in having too many reviews because it might give off the impression that she is a high volume lady. What I think that you're thinking is contingent at what point that I am in within the business would directly correlate to how much publicity I would need in order to be successful. In your case, you have been around enough so that you get a number of regulars that can attest to your social and libidinal gifts. With that said, although you have your tried and true patrons, there are still first timers who might want to read something recent.  However since you are a veteran of the game and have had relationships with some of the most reputable women on the east coast it is highly reasonable to assume that you also would get your fair share of referrals from other providers who just happen to be in your social circles.  This would be a critical and determining factor in how you attract new clients to keep your base and revenue stream growing.  However you might not want to have constant reviews but say every three months to six it is good to have at least one or two for those new clients that are thinking about seeing you.

How long you've been hobbying. Look at how much you make, take out bills and any other "fun" activities you pay for. Take out how many women you have seen through the hobby. Look at the reviews.... Then. You'll probably want to get another provider because I'm always horny when I think about the past ladies I have seen.

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