I know I am a whore. I love the action of this game and the money too. My play schedule is limited and a few guys have tried to get on it by offering double my posted rate.
That made me feel like a dirty, cheap whore. I am a cheap, dirty and a whore. Why then did I not like that offer?
I don't understand the attitude of men who suppose that, because a lady offers a special service to earn her living, she becomes a commodity to be rented and discarded. That is the highest form of disrespect. Since you are self-employed, you have an absolute right to follow your own business model, create your own rules and expect to be treated with respect and dignity. Any man who ignores your intrinsic worth and tries to play the commodity game is bringing dishonor on himself, not you.
My $0.015 (with deflation).
When women or providers who are offering their services act like they don't wanna make more money, I don't really know how to react to it. Cuz it becomes a damn if you do, damn if you don't situation.
Does she wanna make money or does she want her clients to treat her better while giving her less tip? Seems maybe this line of work isn't for her if she's going to give the guilt trip to her clients who are lookin for sex related services.
Then again women have always been women. There's usually less logic and far more gut feel / emotion involved so it's no surprise that she's making little sense from a provider business standpoint offering such services.
Excellent threAD though. :
Tell me what you thought was good about that post?
Don't turn this into a show me a better ad comparison.
Does she wanna make money or does she want her clients to treat her better while giving her less tip? Seems maybe this line of work isn't for her if she's going to give the guilt trip to her clients who are lookin for sex related services.
Then again women have always been women. There's usually less logic and far more gut feel / emotion involved so it's no surprise that she's making little sense from a provider business standpoint offering such services.
Excellent threAD though.
Usually everyone who works there is an asshole.
Makes it worth the trip.
I have been at the lobby of a massage parlor but never got a massage at a happy ending place. I did get some traditional services at a local spa though, but massage just isn't my thing.
Seems like parlors are always getting raided plus it's mostly asians working there.
Jokes are rarely funny when you have to explain them.
I was merely poking some gentle fun at your typo.
Got nothing against AMPs.
well said
Although she is low priced, she is selective in the company she keeps, and the guys that offered her double didn't make the cut and were rejected.
So, she’s still a cheap whore to the guys she has selected, but not a piece of sh*t to the guys she has rejected.
Maybe she can raise her standards in self-esteem and self-importance and call herself a lady as you've implied.
But then again, every guy that patronizes an escort should also feel important and be a gentleman.
So, the moral to the dilemma is we’re all important and we’re all in this game together that is part of the grand scheme of pleasure, whatever.
How’s that?
It is a blend of humor and seriousness my friend. Or shall I say self deprecating humor.
…humor, seriously? All the best to you.
Thank you for your kind words. It is refreshing especially given the responses of some here. And some ladies .... I don't believe they could respond the way they did.
There are a lot of "massage" ladies that offer more. Probably more than not. Just say you don't and move on.
Yes, you are a whore. The only difference between you and other whores is that you don't spread your legs. That makes you a challenge and yes, I would pay more then your going rate to deposit my sperm in your box but at the same time I would have to respect your boundary.
You should be elated that you are in such high demand while some providers are hurting.
or does something about a whore that turns u on? man i love whores and not just in a sexual way
That made me feel like a dirty, cheap whore. I am a cheap, dirty and a whore. Why then did I not like that offer?
They will do almost anything to get you to discuss things because just discussing it alone is probable cause. Now they can not arrest you by this alone, but it is evidence they can and WILL use against you in court.
That is the nature of men. They try to get as much as they can and whatever they want. It's why this job exists. The older ones tend to know that being nice and not haggling or breaking rules gets them more with women, but it's just more clever, not different.
It sounds like you're not particularly objective about selling access to your body...? It's a service you're selling, not you. Draw your lines and expect that men will want to cross them (conquer something). Not a thing in the world to do with you as a person.
xoxo,
Marie
And add it to your website.
Good Faith Estimate 
Hell, what do I know. Apparently, not much in this lil game. Good thing to see you think so highly of yourself lol. Good lord. If you're in Chi-Town, perhaps you should hit up Dr. Who. I think you may be his type for sure. He's looking for an excellent companion. Do you know Amy Pond???? Cause I sure as hell don't LOL.
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That much I can guarantee. If you don't believe me try a scheduling with her. You will not get an appointment.
She is only seeing regulars. It can be a threAD only if she is looking for clients.
That made me feel like a dirty, cheap whore. I am a cheap, dirty and a whore. Why then did I not like that offer?
Maybe she's behind on rent.
Nah you are wron
You are a whore.
You're just not the smartest whore in the world.
No big deal.
Peace of mind is more important. Check my post below and you will understand where I am coming from.
Samantha: Money is power, sex is power, therefore, getting money for sex is simply an exchange of power.
Cancel my yoga (or therapy or lunch with a girlfriend or procrastinate doing my taxes, etc.) for a date? Probably not. For double my rate? As long as the screening panned out, I'm sure I'd consider it...
or capable to explain this to you. For that you should consult a qualified psychologist.
However, I can tell you that your instincts are correct. It is a common ploy of LE to offer a gal double her rate if she'll come over right now and see him.
Many a gal have told me that got stung that way.
Thus the old adage: If it sounds too good to be true, it isn't.
I know that's one thought that crossed my mind. Thank you for the thoughtful and respectful response.
to accommodate mine. She jumped all over that shit.
That's why my rate is low. You get a wider pool of customers. Then based on email communication, references and review history and content select the best guys. Finally exceed expectations and lock in your customers.
Ladies advertise to get more clients and she is not taking any new clients. Ergo not an ad
Blaming what someone said or did for your emotional reaction is a cop-out.
You can spend $$$$$ over years seeing specialists who have you sit there examining your navel while you try and trace your reaction to an event or string of events in your childhood.
But, for many years now Cognitive Behavior Therapy has consistently provided better results than any other approaches. To borrow a phrase heard in AA meetings "The way to be is to do." If you do not like your reaction to an event, decide to change your reaction. the change you decide upon can be a small change, just to see if it works or just to see if you can change. Once that change is accomplished you can decide to make another small change. eventually you will discover how to make changes that get more of what you want in the long run.
You can go to a library and borrow a highly regarded book in “The Dummies” series about Cognitive Behavior Therapy, once you see that it is an easy read and very straight forward you can buy it on line