http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xbpPIYy_YQk
(about 45 seconds into clip)All,
Need some help. My provider is very into toys (and I have very little experience in this department). And our next session she asked that I bring a toy to surprise her and she would bring a few.... Ladies- what toys are best to be used with another guy? Guys- any experience here? I have no idea other than searching the web.... Thanks in advance!
Sounds like you're changing from just vanilla - good for you. There are a lot of flavors out there; you don't have to like them all, but give them a taste to see...
WARNING: You got me started...
Of course you need massage oil, unscented or almond is best if you need discretion. Most women will have a preference, so check with her to see what she likes. Moisturizer will do in a pinch, but don't get it in her naughty bits, can irritate sensitive skin. When you get there, take a short break, wash your hands and use lube for a yoni massage. Bring the Hitachi, assuming that she doesn't already have one and a good blindfold and maybe some earbuds for your phone to listen to music/be kept from hearing anything. That's for starters. Get some soft 3/8" to 1/2" rope at Home Depot and EMT scissors (no clothesline) and spend a few hours on Youtube learning how to use it safely. I'd also suggest bringing a flogger of your own - I don't like being hit with a flogger that has hit anyone else, it's a hygiene thing. That should be plenty for a quite a few hours of introductory play. Remember, floggers aren't just to hit with, they can caress and kiss and tease very nicely, although when your skin gets pinked up a little, it's much more sensitive for whatever kind of touch therapy she wants to apply. The kitchen or mini-bar has ice, you can bring fruit (in-season strawberries are great), some really good chocolate, maybe some truffles. Don't be afraid to switch places and let her take control, the power exchange is wonderfully liberating.
I really enjoy the sensory deprivation sensory play, including the food. Very erotic, very safe, very entertaining for both of you. It's easy to spend hours on foreplay doing this stuff, watch the clock if that's a concern. I'm lucky enough to have a friend that throws the clock out the window when we play.
Sorry, good reply but I couldn't resist. Good answer from you
WARNING: You got me started...
Of course you need massage oil, unscented or almond is best if you need discretion. Most women will have a preference, so check with her to see what she likes. Moisturizer will do in a pinch, but don't get it in her naughty bits, can irritate sensitive skin. When you get there, take a short break, wash your hands and use lube for a yoni massage. Bring the Hitachi, assuming that she doesn't already have one and a good blindfold and maybe some earbuds for your phone to listen to music/be kept from hearing anything. That's for starters. Get some soft 3/8" to 1/2" rope at Home Depot and EMT scissors (no clothesline) and spend a few hours on Youtube learning how to use it safely. I'd also suggest bringing a flogger of your own - I don't like being hit with a flogger that has hit anyone else, it's a hygiene thing. That should be plenty for a quite a few hours of introductory play. Remember, floggers aren't just to hit with, they can caress and kiss and tease very nicely, although when your skin gets pinked up a little, it's much more sensitive for whatever kind of touch therapy she wants to apply. The kitchen or mini-bar has ice, you can bring fruit (in-season strawberries are great), some really good chocolate, maybe some truffles. Don't be afraid to switch places and let her take control, the power exchange is wonderfully liberating.
I really enjoy the sensory deprivation sensory play, including the food. Very erotic, very safe, very entertaining for both of you. It's easy to spend hours on foreplay doing this stuff, watch the clock if that's a concern. I'm lucky enough to have a friend that throws the clock out the window when we play.
depending on whether you want to do it or watch porn.
Thanks for not getting pissed. Now if I bring the one on the left, I won't have to worry about traffic
that big diesel throbbing, all that power to play with. Like screwing on a running Harley (with a low idle speed - potato, potato, potato,...) but on steroids.
Speaking of Harleys, one favorite memory is getting a (partial) hand job from a lady on the p-pad on my Harley while doing about 70 at night on a lonely highway. I had to stop the bike to finish, though. No windshield, can you imagine the mess that would have made, cumming into the wind at 70 mph? Talk about spitting into the wind...
I've had amazing results from, Standard-Innovation-THRILL-Vibe-Thrill from Amazon
Girls seem to go crazy for this vibe. Its slick and comes in a box that looks like a big IPhone box. It's rechargeable (charges via USB from your PC), it's waterproof, and has about 8 different speeds/pulse settings from slow and steady to ass off the bed mode
I have two (bought one as a gift for someone, but she's not getting it) and I'm sure it will make a nice TIP for someone more deserving.
Need some help. My provider is very into toys (and I have very little experience in this department). And our next session she asked that I bring a toy to surprise her and she would bring a few.... Ladies- what toys are best to be used with another guy? Guys- any experience here? I have no idea other than searching the web.... Thanks in advance!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xbpPIYy_YQk
(about 45 seconds into clip)