and I could not write an honest review that I thought would post, I just didn't. Her normal reviews are a ball of energy, but with me she was a soft cuddly long lost girl friend.
Writing it then it would have been seen as a bed review. my writing has improved so maybe next time. It was a wonderful experience but I did not want to be her want review because of my writing ability
that some other mongers really had a bad time with her or did not appreciate her and gave her substantially lower scores....
Usually the more experienced reviewers have given her scores very much like mine -
what I notice most often in reading these reviews is that the "gentleman" -
just does not know what he is doing....
is not realistic about the realities of the human female biology or appearance
sounds like he would be pretty annoying to put up with
just really made a bad choice of whom to see and was unhappy from the first instance,
without making an attempt to make the best of it
or sometimes -
wanted services specifically not mentioned in her reviews....
often these reviews read as childish, peevish, immature...
(in many cases I have a glance at some of his other reviews and find
similar peevishness.....)
I am not saying that there is not a YMMV factor in this sport, I am not saying that
despite best efforts sometimes people don't "click"
I've had that happen as well but take my share of responsibility for that instead of
trying to dump it all off on the provider...
(I am not talking about bait and switch or drama here else I would not have given
a good review in the first instance... and I am not talking about service variability
or inconsistency because most often these negative reviews are a one off out of
a very good review history....)
I conclude the obvious - it takes two to tango -
"GFE" does not work well without some corresponding "BFE"
it's such a fun sport really - I'm always sad to see that some just don't seem
to know how to enjoy themselves....
it is ultimately a fantasy - to enjoy it you have to be willing to suspend disbelief
a little and go along with it.....
and I could not write an honest review that I thought would post, I just didn't. Her normal reviews are a ball of energy, but with me she was a soft cuddly long lost girl friend.
Writing it then it would have been seen as a bed review. my writing has improved so maybe next time. It was a wonderful experience but I did not want to be her want review because of my writing ability
It won't be long before you'll both be labeled as manginas or something equally as boorish.
I seriously love to put the wood to a pretty lady -
but I always respect her....
a gentleman knows how to fuck...
he also knows discretion and appreciation.....
Not that.. I just do not see why you should bear the responsibility for my bad day. I also said that my wants were fully met, I was just not articulate enough to say so at the time without making her look bad, as compared to her reviews before and after me. I realized that my inexperience in writing reviews might harm her business so I said nothing instead of going for the free days. After it is my fun but your livelihood. So if not doing harm to you is boorish, Guilty as charged.
I was complimenting you and MK BECAUSE of your points of view. The boorish comment was aimed at anyone who called you a mangina for your opinion and support.
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oops there I go being too serious again. Thanks for your response. I took your response the wrong way.
...how a review saying she was a soft, cuddly, long lost girl friend would be a bad thing. It would show she has range. She can be that ball of energy if you want or just the opposite. I'd find that interesting.
At the time I lacked the skills and experience to write an accurate review that would not reflect poorly on her, in my opinion. So instead of being a free day "whore" I just let it go. I hope to see her again. My lack in being able to get this point understood clearly demonstrates to me the correctness of my decision.
I often see it with well-reviewed ladies, who have 50+ excellent reviews, mostly in the 8-10 range, then there's a 5 or 6. Sometimes there's no obvious reason for the low score. If you read the review, it's all aglow with praise. Other times, you see something that doesn't make sense. For example, a provider I know very well got a low-scoring review from someone who complained that all he got was DIY finish. I am certain there's no way one of her clients would get only a DIY experience unless he requested it.
Another example: I know a provider who has the first several dates with her clients choreographed--especially the first. That's the way she prefers to work. 98% of her clients seem to agree, and give her high marks. And there's many reviews that explain in great detail what a client can expect from her. Then you see a review where the gent is surprised with what happened in the first session! Obviously he didn't do his homework.
Then there's the nitpicking over small details. Such as a review for a provider I know who's in her late 30s that gave her low marks because her face isn't flawless--even though she doesn't show her face on any of her photos or misrepresent it as being flawless--and knocked her for it in the review also. She has beautiful eyes, great lips and a talented tongue, a gorgeous curvy body, smooth milky skin, and most importantly a total focus on her client's pleasure, with a quick wit and great sense of humor to boot. But that wasn't enough for this fellow.
As you said, it's such a fun sport - it's too bad some fellows don't know how to enjoy themselves.
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When I first started doing this I was amazed at the beauty and talent of these ladies. Plus I was intimidated by prior reviews which kind of set the bar on my ratings. Now I'm very picky. Still rate overall high yet I'm not "afraid" to give a 7 or 8 which seems stupid but I guess those are the low numbers now for a highly reviewed lady.
Yet if you read my reviews they are generally all good. Go figure. So a 7/8 is now bad?
I have the feeling that a road killed dog could get a 7 around here sometimes.....
I'm not "afraid" to give a 7 - but I've only been in one situation this year that deserved a score that "low".....
Usually the more experienced reviewers have given her scores very much like mine -
what I notice most often in reading these reviews is that the "gentleman" -
just does not know what he is doing....
is not realistic about the realities of the human female biology or appearance
sounds like he would be pretty annoying to put up with
just really made a bad choice of whom to see and was unhappy from the first instance,
without making an attempt to make the best of it
or sometimes -
wanted services specifically not mentioned in her reviews....
often these reviews read as childish, peevish, immature...
(in many cases I have a glance at some of his other reviews and find
similar peevishness.....)
I am not saying that there is not a YMMV factor in this sport, I am not saying that
despite best efforts sometimes people don't "click"
I've had that happen as well but take my share of responsibility for that instead of
trying to dump it all off on the provider...
(I am not talking about bait and switch or drama here else I would not have given
a good review in the first instance... and I am not talking about service variability
or inconsistency because most often these negative reviews are a one off out of
a very good review history....)
I conclude the obvious - it takes two to tango -
"GFE" does not work well without some corresponding "BFE"
it's such a fun sport really - I'm always sad to see that some just don't seem
to know how to enjoy themselves....
it is ultimately a fantasy - to enjoy it you have to be willing to suspend disbelief
a little and go along with it.....
an interesting contradiction among posters. Some say that guys who give all high scores are manginas. The guys who give all high scores say that they just know how to pick 'em. I know review "management" happens and that ladies have gone BSC for a lower score, but I'm guessing those are the exceptions rather than the rule.
I think the smart guys know what to look for and how to do their research in order to ensure they meet ladies they are pleased with. Nothing wrong with that! But I wonder how much board groupthink affects how some choose to review or not. I wonder if some of the guys here feel a little more "manly" for giving a lady a lower score, just to "put her in her place" and show the other guys how tough they are. It's a bit homoerotic, no?
Usually the more experienced reviewers have given her scores very much like mine -
what I notice most often in reading these reviews is that the "gentleman" -
just does not know what he is doing....
is not realistic about the realities of the human female biology or appearance
sounds like he would be pretty annoying to put up with
just really made a bad choice of whom to see and was unhappy from the first instance,
without making an attempt to make the best of it
or sometimes -
wanted services specifically not mentioned in her reviews....
often these reviews read as childish, peevish, immature...
(in many cases I have a glance at some of his other reviews and find
similar peevishness.....)
I am not saying that there is not a YMMV factor in this sport, I am not saying that
despite best efforts sometimes people don't "click"
I've had that happen as well but take my share of responsibility for that instead of
trying to dump it all off on the provider...
(I am not talking about bait and switch or drama here else I would not have given
a good review in the first instance... and I am not talking about service variability
or inconsistency because most often these negative reviews are a one off out of
a very good review history....)
I conclude the obvious - it takes two to tango -
"GFE" does not work well without some corresponding "BFE"
it's such a fun sport really - I'm always sad to see that some just don't seem
to know how to enjoy themselves....
it is ultimately a fantasy - to enjoy it you have to be willing to suspend disbelief
a little and go along with it.....
because I am not getting anything of value from the bros 
I do think I am an honest reviewer but I've had some criticize me for being generous
sometimes it's someone who has seen one of the same ladies I have and rated them
very low where I gave them a 9 or such -
what I note is that in almost every case the experienced reviewers here have given her
scores that are a lot more like mine then those of the one who complains and gives a
lower score....
One of the people in the room is a professional. I'm assuming that the woman is in the business because she enjoys it or at least likes the profession. If we both go to a mechanic we expect the car to be fixed, it is very doubtful we will have the same experience. When I joined this site I came across providers that I had seen before and they had reviews. My experience was different than the reviewers both better and worse. If a person pays for a service then they expect what they paid for, I'm sure you expect what you paid for every time you spend money. If a provider is having a bad night or is stressed out, lets face it not everyone is on their game everyday. So if a guy sees a girl and she has other things going on her mind and let's her game fall off it is expected of humans. It is also expected for another human to be upset for it. I believe the purpose of sites like this one are for the customers not the providers. If you have your gentleman hat on while you are writing your reviews are you doing a disservice to the people trying to find out information? I am always respectful of providers and I have a good attitude and very clean. The rest will happen the way it happens. I know my experience is going to be different, I just hope it is fun.