you're in a playroom with an exam table with stirrups, a blindfold and a violet wand. Guaranteed for some serious giggling.
We all have them. This is an anonymous message board, so except for the boys and girls at the NSA, who would know? Keep em over 18 btw. Besides, the disclaimer on this board says this is all acts of fiction
I'll show you mine and tell you about a friends.
I enjoy being on the receiving end of a nice warm golden, not brown, shower. There is nothing like having a tall attractive woman with long muscular legs and powerful thighs standing tall over you. One that is willing to be uncomfortable for a while as she ingests as much fluid as she can stand.
She lets it loose, first in small spurts followed by a warm steady stream of the nectar of the gods. Giving me a soaking from my head to my crotch. At this point i'm usually hard as a rock. Speaking of that I ummh need to take a break, be back in a few. Ok, I'm back, yes I washed my hands.
I have probably one of the most liberal wives, in the world, when it comes to sexual things. Lifestyle people, threesomes, four and more somes. I tried to hint around on this one and got the look. So I have to P4P for this one. A case of wanting what you can't have i guess.
A college buddy always had a thing about naked girls dancing, with glow in the dark paint, in a totally dark room. He finally did it. He got seven girls. Six to dance and one to take care of him. They put this lime green glow in the dark paint, around there nipples and put a V between their thighs.
Killed the lights and for about 40 minutes or so they danced while he enjoyed the other one. FYI, he is a winner in the lucky sperm club.
What gets your boat floating?
Never thought a movie would be made about this phenomena but DAMN am I excited. Premieres tonight at 8 pm.
Oh this is not for everyone mind you but for the real Kinksters this is where its' at!!!!!
The choking game (also known as the fainting game and a wide variety of local slang names) refers to intentionally cutting off oxygen to the brain with the goal of inducing temporary syncope and euphoria. There are two distinct methods used to achieve oxygen deprivation: strangulation and self-induced hypocapnia. Don't recommend the former (unless you know your partner) the latter has to be done only with extreme precautions (YOU REALLY need a partner to help you).
I love this along with smothering. But it is not something once finds easily in a Partner (not even in this lifestyle).
But there is always hope.
Anyone want to discuss please PM me.
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Not my thing, but a few celebrities have made the news headlines by this means after taking it just a tad too far. A tad too far is lethal. David Carradine is the first to come to mind, Grasshopper.
Here's a link to a bunch more:
Can't you imagine a film today having a scene like that? How Victorian our world has become in so many ways.
It's telling that this film gets referenced on this board probably more than any other. I believe this is the second time just this week.
By the way, Rabbi Baumel officiated at my bar mitzvah, which might explain a few things.
Like the OP, I do enjoy a golden shower, and love to find gals who love to give and receive same.
My other big kink is COF and cum swapping. Even my regular tantrika, who like so many tantrikas is rather plain vanilla in so many ways, is a cum freak and loves to engage in this with me to my ever lasting delight. I swear she orgasms when I let loose on her face, and loves to have me massage the goo into her skin. She says it builds a strong bond between people who do it, and I say she is right given my experience with it.
Food sploshing is another fun activity, especially with the sweet stuff like whipped cream and chocolate pudding, but I'm thinking bacon fat might be an interesting choice some time.
I also have a masochist streak in me. I enjoy some forms of physical pain. I'm bound under the penalties of getting my gonads kicked in (Not the practice I have in mind, by the way.) however not to reveal the specifics.
Just ask Woody Allen
I was introduced to bdsm over thirty years ago and discovered something important about who and what I am...
I can go from playful D/s to very hard S/m ---
I don't even discuss this with most people - they've read "50 shades of grey" or some such shit and have no idea what the scene is really about - they just want to be trendy and are not really wired for it...
And if the lady has one or more of her own I'm more than happy too oblige.
I really love a woman sitting on my face and making me eat her out, grabbing my skull while she grinds my face. Reverse is good too, with my mouth completely covered with pussy, so that I am forced to breath through my nose which is right up against her asshole. Never had a woman squirt in these positions though, that would be the ultimate.
One variation I really like is when the woman is in an Asian cowgirl postion over my face with her feet in the palm of my hands, basically pinning me down in a submissive position. Recommend that she has something to hold onto for balance. I have done this with the woman barefoot and in high heels. I am sure this is very vanilla for the bdsm enthusiasts, but I really think it's wild. It is very hard to find a provider who will do this.
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Depending on what I see out in the World. My kink will change daily
Once I saw a young woman spinning a parade baton along the roadside. She was soliciting cars for a car wash fundraiser . Obviously she happened to be a fair skin, red head. Probably what got my attention in the first place. This PYT was spinning her baton, and high kicking like she was auditioning for the rockettes.
While sitting still at the red light in the oppressive heat and humidity. I was unable to take my eyes off of her legs as the beads of sweat ran down her thighs, then I notice she isn't wearing any panties under her hot pink shorts. I said to myself wow what fantastic free show, to my delight she does a split and drops all the way to the ground. That's when the light changes, and I have to drive on... if she only knew what I was thinking.
After seeing that, I wanted to see a lady penetrate herself with a parade baton.
I don't know how safe such an activity would be, and I'm not as excited about such an excursion this very moment.
This kink comes from an unprovoked story a young lady told me a long time ago about her being molested with a b-ball bat, if memory serves she was a red head too.
*fictio
And those who can deliver great vanilla are alright by me. And vanilla does not mean "hurry up and get it done I have better things to do", I feel it means that it is a more gentle, sensual go with the flow type sex. Hell I could be wrong but that is how I like it and make no apologies so nor should you.
I joined a BDSM group a few months ago to see what was going on and sample some of the possibilities. Electrical, wax, cupping and heavy bottom didn't hold much appeal, but last night I got together with a domme/sensualist and we worked out a scene that was a lot of fun. Me nude, hands roped up to an overhead ring so she could get to me from all sides, blindfold and gag while she did some light impact, lots of sensation play (dragging chains over me, fingernails, pinching, rubbing, slapping, etc.). Was in a public dungeon with an audience of about 20. A lot of attention to the boys and my dick until a drop of pre-cum fell to the floor.
Didn't think I would enjoy something like that, but it was a lot of fun, particularly the interplay with challenging her as a domme and the joining in of a second woman (don't know who) for a while.
Point is, you don't know what you like till you try it. I'll bet that 90+% of the clients on TER haven't tried most of what they think they wouldn't like.
Go out and explore beyond the vanilla. There are a lot of flavors out there and YOLO.
I haven't, and don't want to.
I know that's a terrible analogy. You either like or want to experience things, or you don't.
I'm not sure where this opinion of a middle ground comes from, other than thin air.
Didn't think I would enjoy something like that, but it was a lot of fun, particularly the interplay with challenging her as a domme and the joining in of a second woman (don't know who) for a while.
Point is, you don't know what you like till you try it. I'll bet that 90+% of the clients on TER haven't tried most of what they think they wouldn't like.
Go out and explore beyond the vanilla. There are a lot of flavors out there and YOLO.
As any non-asswipe realizes with only a teensy bit of thought, JCA, if you haven't tried it, you don't know for sure if you like it or not. Of course there are things that you know that you don't want to try for cultural reasons (or safety, or ...) but there are a lot of things that you may not object to trying and actually might like. I didn't know that I like sushi or sashimi until I tried them. Didn't know that I liked DATY so much until I tried it a couple few times and learned how to do it well and found a responsive partner. Didn't know that I liked squirters until I ran into one. Didn't know that I liked motorcycles or lots of other things until I tried them. You live through your experiences and if you choose to be blind about your options, it's your own damn fault. YOLO and no replays.
But you clearly missed the obvious point of my post which is - I'll spell it out for you using short words - that most of the male members of TER probably have never looked past the vanilla part of sex into some of the kinkier aspects, some of which they might find that they enjoy. There can be more to sex than sucking and fucking. The only way to find out if you like it is to check it out and maybe try it.
Look around, the world is a lot bigger than they told you in middle school. I know that I'm going to be investigating providers' ability to include a couple extra dishes on the menu, and will show my appreciation financially. Providers are probably ahead of us mongers on this aspect, in general terms. Already had a couple PM me with requests. Some of them really like some of the kinkier aspects of the hobby. To each his/her own.
including restraints and other control instruments.
I blame an ex, her "evil gynecologist" fetish totally became mine.
you're in a playroom with an exam table with stirrups, a blindfold and a violet wand. Guaranteed for some serious giggling.
Golden Showers are just the start to my kinky fun. Just, like foot worship it is a mild session that I enjoy. My arousal comes from being in control of your fantasies, or fetishes. I never judge anyone's naughty pleasures, and pride myself in being the golden & brown shower MASTER!
I enjoy being sensually dominant with a man, stradding his face, making him eat me out, treating him like my sex slave
Is a really interesting subject that I'm just starting to learn about. It can be fun to just hand over control to the lady (that you know pretty well) and let her run the session however she wants.
IMHO mongers often want to run the session because they are paying for it and want to try to "get their money's worth". While I understand the sentiment, sometimes the lady may know how to rock your world better than you do. I don't think that there would be a lot of ladies trying to "run the clock out", they want the repeat business and great reviews, so it is in their best interest to make things as fun for the mongers as possible.
Just one guy's opinion.
All sorts of ways -
- Erotic Stories/fantasies/scenarios while getting an HJ.
- "dirty" talk --
- Descriptions of kinky stuff that the provider has engaged in in the past.
Being good at this is tough and requires a LOT of talent and imagination. There is a provider in Atlanta with the initials GT who is really good at it. May need to see her again when I am back in action...