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it's not the "coming back" - it is the feeling that sometimes "retirment" is a manipulation....
MarkusKetterman 150 Reviews 818 reads
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an attempt at gaining more attention in a competitive market -

I have definitely seen that quite often -   retirement notices being dragged out for months,  a retirement lasting a few weeks, and then back "new and improved" -

hey - it's marketing -

but it can be pretty transparent....

I know girls who have "retired"   because of personal circumstances that eventually changed, and they came back -  that's fine - most did not try to make a big promotion out of retiring in the first place....

I know some who have retired because for personal reasons they needed to re-invent themselves, and came back as "someone else" - I get that too....

NewEnglandGangsta2804 reads

Isn't it funny when girls who announce retirements come back out of their retirement in less than 3 months? I've seen one recently who came out of retirement in less than 2 months. Another girl postponed her retirement after the first announcement. All that fanfare!  

Escorts need to wise up and be careful about posting those retirement announcement fanfare because life may take an unexpected turn and that sugar daddy might just dump you when he gets tired of fucking the same girl.  

On the otherhand, do you think this is actually a smart marketing trick much like hollywood celebs trying to gain media attention?  A question for the ex-retired girls who came back after 60 seconds, has business really picked up when you pulled off that stunt?  

Your thoughts, if any? (no, skarfy I'm not Asscalade

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Posted By: NewEnglandGangsta
Isn't it funny when girls who announce retirements come back out of their retirement in less than 3 months? I've seen one recently who came out of retirement in less than 2 months. Another girl postponed her retirement after the first announcement. All that fanfare!  
   
 Escorts need to wise up and be careful about posting those retirement announcement fanfare because life may take an unexpected turn and that sugar daddy might just dump you when he gets tired of fucking the same girl.    
   
 On the otherhand, do you think this is actually a smart marketing trick much like hollywood celebs trying to gain media attention?  A question for the ex-retired girls who came back after 60 seconds, has business really picked up when you pulled off that stunt?    
   
 Your thoughts, if any? (no, skarfy I'm not Asscalade)  
 
Not so much funny, as sad. Typically it means they were "done" with the job, but found out circumstances were such they had to jump back in. I see this happening a whole lot and usually I which girls quitting the biz all the best and hope to never see them again; that has a fairly low successrate though.

When she gets it off the ground she intends to move on. I hope she makes it, but I won't be laughing if she doesn't.

I don't think many if any do it as a marketing ploy. The retail yag of "Going out of business! Everything must go!" doesn't seem like a smart move here.

Oh, and the Hollywood celebrities getting media exposure? That's what defines them as celebrities. You see them on one or another medium.

But why do you take such delight at a woman's inability to successfully move on with her life? Seems sad, IMO.

Posted By: NewEnglandGangsta
Isn't it funny when girls who announce retirements come back out of their retirement in less than 3 months? I've seen one recently who came out of retirement in less than 2 months. Another girl postponed her retirement after the first announcement. All that fanfare!  
   
 Escorts need to wise up and be careful about posting those retirement announcement fanfare because life may take an unexpected turn and that sugar daddy might just dump you when he gets tired of fucking the same girl.    
   
 On the otherhand, do you think this is actually a smart marketing trick much like hollywood celebs trying to gain media attention?  A question for the ex-retired girls who came back after 60 seconds, has business really picked up when you pulled off that stunt?    
   
 Your thoughts, if any? (no, skarfy I'm not Asscalade)  
 
 
The Lumber Yard Waits

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NewEnglandGangsta939 reads

1. I take delight? No I don't.  I do get seriously amused when people jump the gun but I do not wish them any ill will. I do wish them best of success...  
but are you denying the general fact that jumping the gun make them look like a tool?  

2. "Moving on with her life"?  You're assuming that I implied escorting is some bad low level work.  I never assumed such thing and spoke from the perspective that I accept and treat escorting the same as any other job. I feel it is you who's having preconceived notions

The first, yes, perhaps I misread the "isn't it funny" phrase at the beginning of the OP. When someone jumps the gun, to me they just seem too eager to win the race. I don't see that as at all foolish. Perhaps that's because I often feel that I've failed at more of life's endeavors than most people ever try their hand at, so such a feeling might shape or distort my perspective, however you look at it. But, no, that doesn't make them look like a tool.

On the second point, the phrase, "Moving on with her life," was meant to distinguish her plans from the usual connotation of the word "retirement." She isn't pretending that she has salted away enough cash to live out the rest of her days, but rather she plans to move on to another career as the owner of a small business that can return a comparable income.

And, no, neither of us are judging the value of an escort's way of making a living. Personally, I do feel that it is a young woman's game, and as she ages she might be wise to seek gainful work in some other field. I know that this assertion will send some of the clowns here to drag out pictures of women eighty-something who are still making themselves available, and I can't wait to hear the chorus sing their praise, but, such is my opinion on the matter.

People very often move on from one approach to life to a new approach. Maybe you've experienced that in your own life.

Posted By: NewEnglandGangsta
1. I take delight? No I don't.  I do get seriously amused when people jump the gun but I do not wish them any ill will. I do wish them best of success...  
 but are you denying the general fact that jumping the gun make them look like a tool?  
   
 2. "Moving on with her life"?  You're assuming that I implied escorting is some bad low level work.  I never assumed such thing and spoke from the perspective that I accept and treat escorting the same as any other job. I feel it is you who's having preconceived notions.  
   
   
 
The Lumber Yard Waits

Rick-Rude871 reads

Many times. You either haven't been around long enough or you simply refuse to see the reality.

But I really do not see it as a strategy that, as a deceit, could be used for more than a couple of months.

That a woman tries to change gears and finds that her new life isn't paying the bills seems a much more probable scenario to me. But what do I know! My life is very sheltered from the stuff you guys have to deal with.

It's a way to get a big payout before she takes a break (or truly retires). As marketing, it does work in getting guys to book. A "hiatus tour" would be a more accurate but far less effective label.  

The ones who don't need/want the money simply inform their favorites and delist.

someone other than you care about your useless posts telling providers what to do. No one gives shit because no one other than you have time to think about what others to do and adjustments they make to their lifestyles.

May be you should consider lobstering in Maine.

Many seem to come back. I'd rather just see them leave and delist with no retirement announcement and some of them do.  

Posted By: NewEnglandGangsta
Isn't it funny when girls who announce retirements come back out of their retirement in less than 3 months? I've seen one recently who came out of retirement in less than 2 months. Another girl postponed her retirement after the first announcement. All that fanfare!  
   
 Escorts need to wise up and be careful about posting those retirement announcement fanfare because life may take an unexpected turn and that sugar daddy might just dump you when he gets tired of fucking the same girl.    
   
 On the otherhand, do you think this is actually a smart marketing trick much like hollywood celebs trying to gain media attention?  A question for the ex-retired girls who came back after 60 seconds, has business really picked up when you pulled off that stunt?    
   
 Your thoughts, if any? (no, skarfy I'm not Asscalade)  
 

WHO ARES....... Why does it matter WHY they return/Unretire themselves? It's no ones BIZ!!!  There maybe number of reasons why one returns from their "WHORING HIATUS"..... Where the heck you know where one makes, $200, $300, $400, etc... Etc... $1000 an hour along with having a flexible schedule, receiving luxury gifts, trips, sometimes "great tips"..... NO WHERE.....   It's guaranteed, those Sugars daddies are elated to have them back....  

Is it really RETIREMENT, When you're 25yrs old saying "You're leaving the biz"?......  OH PLEASE!!! Lol  

Happy TGIF TER!!!  
Have a fabulous weekend!!  
Xoxo 😜😜😜😜😜
GC

There is one I wish would come back, but no iso from me. Gone is gone and back is OH HELL YESSS!. Sometimes I just like to be marketed to.

and came back the very same week, never been more popular.

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about themselves unless it comes at the expense of someone else. Of course, if I apply the benefit of the doubt in regards to ill intent, I suppose it could simply be extreme callousness, poor communications skills or abject cluelessness. Best date ever, eh?? Time to jump on those ISO posts on every regional board, ladies...

In fairness, he wasn't really mocking her for coming back but for faking her retirement to begin with as a marketing ploy.  That said, this tactic is so old it's hard to get terribly upset by it.

I think girls really 'retire' and move on. Then life doesn't provide what they need so they come back.

I've done it, only I've had a couple smart ones tell me not to announce it --- just in case. I've also seen other girls (and guys) announce retirements with good intentions, but come back.

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an attempt at gaining more attention in a competitive market -

I have definitely seen that quite often -   retirement notices being dragged out for months,  a retirement lasting a few weeks, and then back "new and improved" -

hey - it's marketing -

but it can be pretty transparent....

I know girls who have "retired"   because of personal circumstances that eventually changed, and they came back -  that's fine - most did not try to make a big promotion out of retiring in the first place....

I know some who have retired because for personal reasons they needed to re-invent themselves, and came back as "someone else" - I get that too....

it could create a rush to see her before she goes way but when she doesn't stay away ... its like the boy who cried wolf too many times.

 
When I retire, I will do it quietly.

I think "retirement" is one of them, because they seldom mean exactly what the word generally implies.

It's like when a woman refers to her service as her "job." Same reason. Unless she's referencing a pimp or maybe an agency who is sending her out on a commission basis.

I know a few jazz musicians who are very talented and very hard-working, but who would really be struggling if their only income came off the few gigs they played every month. They talk about their "jobs" as daytime employment, and usually it's in the context of the "job" getting in the way of playing music.

I have stopped comparing the art of seduction and giving sensual pleasure to the passion artists, writers, dancers, actors, musicians have for their craft. I admit I was naive in thinking that my favorite lady found that kind of artistic satisfaction an important part of her work--"her work" seems to me a much more sensible way to refer to it--and from the posts they write on this board, I now realize they are only concerned about the money.

Imagining an escort accumulating enough money to not really need any more, but still working at her craft the way, say Miles Davis continued to play music long after he was quite wealthy, is, I have to admit, an absurd notion.

Anyway. I'm in a weird mood today because one of the few women in the life that I actually care about has the flu, and that saddens me, and being sad makes me grump about inconsequential things.

So bite me.

The Lumber Yard Waits

Do you think business is easy?
 Ladies tha provide deal with allot of BS and trying to screen out the A**holes is just one or the challenges. The majority of I like myself  do a very large amount of preparation work before your appointment with us, just so you can feel comfortable during your appointment.  
As a FBSM provider I know there is allot of work involved.  
Take a few minutes and think about it.
 All business's want people to return to them, it develop a good reputation and good reviews,which keep people coming back and referring others. Providers have Prep work to do such as  making sure the linens are fresh, stones are sanitized between every appointment, cleaning, taking call's,  screening possible new appointments, managing advertising, staying up to date with whats going on in the hobby and much, much, more; Just so we can make you Feel Good.
In my opinion there really  isn't any other way to describe being a Provider other than a "Job"

Much like music, theater, dance...

That's nothing to do with the point I was making

CubaGooding_Sr677 reads

What cracks me up is when they come back after a tearful goodbye thread and BAM they are back like nothing ever happened.

Just sayin!

CGS

then why can't a lady?
I change my mind all the time too.
Retire, unretire, raise rates, lower rates - it's all her personal business based on potentially lots of different factors.

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