Do some of you also feel that booking longer than a few hours is not worth it?
Most girls expect to be taken to dinner and shit like that and spend at least an hour yacking bullshit if you book longer than 2 or 3 hours. I want to fuck her brains out and watch her shove my dick down her throat, I don't want to watch a girl shove food down her mouth or pay for an hour or longer for her to bitch about her life.
Anyone else feel the same way regarding longer appointments? Too much talk less fucking
Do some of you also feel that booking longer than a few hours is not worth it?
Most girls expect to be taken to dinner and shit like that and spend at least an hour yacking bullshit if you book longer than 2 or 3 hours. I want to fuck her brains out and watch her shove my dick down her throat, I don't want to watch a girl shove food down her mouth or pay for an hour or longer for her to bitch about her life.
Anyone else feel the same way regarding longer appointments? Too much talk less fucking.
he way I work, the more you spend, the BETTER the deal. The more options available and the more we do, the more time we spend together doing all those things.
Its no different than any other sales business. Have you ever bought business cards on Vista Print? The more you spend, the more value you get for your money.
Its like bundling - you get lot more for your money at a much better price because you are spending more.
If you spend a VIP Suite hour with me, you get to do a lot more than if you are booking an inexpensive hand job
Quite frankly the GFE providers I see don't have ala carte menus, and I get to do pretty much whatever I want during my time, within reason of course.
The OP is talking about booking 3-4 hours when he knows he can't possibly fuck that long, and I tend to agree with him. I don't pay for "time and companionship" I pay for NSA sex. I like going out to dinner and such, but is it worth several hundred dollars an hour to do so? IMO no.
Why anyone pays to get that "price break" on that type of shit (or in this case a woman's time) is useless.
If you only need 50 cards...buy 50. But some see the price break at 1,000 and figure they'll use them eventually LOL All the while effectively making the cost of the cards they really need excessive.
But that's how some folks seem to see life. And never really looking at the cost/benefit objectively.
Not you though...upsell, bitcoins, nails and hammers.
I did see a Gemma post yesterday. I guess she got a new keyboard finally. That sledgehammer to the old one the other day did the trick. Maybe she was also looking for the price break on keyboards.
Posted By: GaGambler
from a customers POV, not so much IMO.
Quite frankly the GFE providers I see don't have ala carte menus, and I get to do pretty much whatever I want during my time, within reason of course.
The OP is talking about booking 3-4 hours when he knows he can't possibly fuck that long, and I tend to agree with him. I don't pay for "time and companionship" I pay for NSA sex. I like going out to dinner and such, but is it worth several hundred dollars an hour to do so? IMO no.
But with one provider in particular, I didn't want to leave when the three hours were up. Even if my equipment wasn't going to function any longer, I still wanted to play with her. I'd try to get her to go for four, but she'd already had other plans.
Now I've booked four hours with her, and I'm glad I did. We're trying stuff that we wouldn't have had time for.
I figure I spend the entire weekend travelling to that city, overnighting and then driving home. Might as well make the trip worthwhile by spending more time.
I'm in the camp of 2 hours paid for BCD. But as Nicky posted...that often turns into other "stuff" that just happens. Paying to watch someone sleep, eat or babble just isn't an interest of mine.
What is taking you so long that you need 4 hours of paid BCD to perform? Please don't suggest that you're bringing circus animals in. That would be strange
Posted By: 89Springer
But with one provider in particular, I didn't want to leave when the three hours were up. Even if my equipment wasn't going to function any longer, I still wanted to play with her. I'd try to get her to go for four, but she'd already had other plans.
Now I've booked four hours with her, and I'm glad I did. We're trying stuff that we wouldn't have had time for.
I figure I spend the entire weekend travelling to that city, overnighting and then driving home. Might as well make the trip worthwhile by spending more time.
Some guys actually enjoy paying to take someone to a concert, dinner or shopping l would take a provider shopping or to dinner but that would have to be off the clock. however I would consider an extended or overnight with my atf because she has earned it
Posted By: NewEnglandGangsta
Do some of you also feel that booking longer than a few hours is not worth it?
Most girls expect to be taken to dinner and shit like that and spend at least an hour yacking bullshit if you book longer than 2 or 3 hours. I want to fuck her brains out and watch her shove my dick down her throat, I don't want to watch a girl shove food down her mouth or pay for an hour or longer for her to bitch about her life.
Anyone else feel the same way regarding longer appointments? Too much talk less fucking.
Is it like when you buy 5 coffees you get the 6th one free?
Or are you suggesting that you don't pay rack and feel you "owe her"?
Why do some feel they owe someone something that they've already paid for?
Posted By: cashorcredit
Some guys actually enjoy paying to take someone to a concert, dinner or shopping l would take a provider shopping or to dinner but that would have to be off the clock. however I would consider an extended or overnight with my atf because she has earned it
Posted By: NewEnglandGangsta
Do some of you also feel that booking longer than a few hours is not worth it?
Most girls expect to be taken to dinner and shit like that and spend at least an hour yacking bullshit if you book longer than 2 or 3 hours. I want to fuck her brains out and watch her shove my dick down her throat, I don't want to watch a girl shove food down her mouth or pay for an hour or longer for her to bitch about her life.
Anyone else feel the same way regarding longer appointments? Too much talk less fucking.
But I never want to feel like she's "doing me a favor" when she wants to go out and play...or shop...or eat and so on. Shit, to get CPA to go shopping she has to be hot...and trust me, I'm doing her a favor. I fucking hate shopping.
I pay for my BCD as I would pay anyone for a service. I don't see how or why they earn points for doing what I've already paid for. But I can see why you (and others) may feel that way.
Posted By: cashorcredit
And other perks so she has earned an extended or overnight from me. But I'm not doing that for any random provider.
Nope...gotta go and watch them check out the hundreds of shoes, purses, blouses, bras and so on.
Sometimes I've had a gal thank me for putting up with that shit with a nice home made dinner.
Other times they've wanted to do the modeling show...that has been entertaining.
I look at that as a wash...she owes me nothing more, and vice-versa. Actually I do insist that I buy her dinner/brunch/drinks to show my appreciation.
Some gals seem to enjoy that type of interaction...others (based on public comments) wouldn't think of spending OTC for anyone for any reason. Something for everyone.
Posted By: cashorcredit
Maybe a better idea, I almost forgot how long it takes women to shop haha!
There is always some other gal who actually enjoys my company and wouldn't dream of charging me for "her time" when "our time" consists of me spending money on her for dinner, drinks, shopping etc.
but of course a provider would have to actually "enjoy" the company of a man she is NOT charging to spend time with her. That's the one sure test to find out how a provider really feels about you. If she charges you for every second you are together, but you still think you have "chemistry" YOU DON'T. lol
I have not had any problems over the years having gals ask me to join them for lunch/brunch et al. Some of this is with gals who travel to Chicago on occasion and want to match the handle to the man. Others it seems are locals who have a similar interest LOL
So far only one has gone a little crazy when I agreed to meet her, but ONLY for lunch. I suspect she'll be back on here shortly.
Posted By: GaGambler
There is always some other gal who actually enjoys my company and wouldn't dream of charging me for "her time" when "our time" consists of me spending money on her for dinner, drinks, shopping etc.
but of course a provider would have to actually "enjoy" the company of a man she is NOT charging to spend time with her. That's the one sure test to find out how a provider really feels about you. If she charges you for every second you are together, but you still think you have "chemistry" YOU DON'T. lol
The same one that against all the advice from the BSC crowd I booked on short notice last Sunday.
I guess she must like my company because she schedules me as her last "date" of the day for an hour session and then we go eat, drink or whatever, I think our shortest "date" was about three hours, and if any of the BSC crowd thinks I am taking advantage of her, she calls me, and it's her idea to go out.
This is not a "I've fallen for a provider and can't get up" post, we just enjoy the same things and we both enjoy it more together than we do alone. The way I know she really wants to go with me is that SHE calls me, and SHE doesn't expect a thing after our paid session expect for good company, but I suppose some people, both men and women alike, can't grasp that simple concept.
Sometimes connections are made. Hookers and Johns are human. Some of us know how to treat each other and learn to enjoy each others' company. It's called chemistry and you can't plan it. So many guys want it and ask how they can get OTC time like this and there's no answer. You can either do it or you can't. It either happens or it won't. My most recent experience is one with which GaG is quite familiar. I was on line with a hooker friend and learned it was just her birthday and she hadn't had such a great time. I was planning to meet two fellow mongers the next day at a fine restaurant and told her she was welcome to join us. I'd been to dinner with her once before when she was the date of another monger and I knew from him that he paid for her time at dinner. I said to her, "Look, I'd love to take you to dinner but you know my rules: I'll pay for the food but not to watch you eat it." She said she was fine with that. I picked her up at her place (where I'd had a P4P session earlier this year), we had a great dinner and I brought her home. No sex. Just good company and excellent food. Simple. And one of those things that make this game so much fun.
I don't care if I met her, ate dinner with you guys and saw it with my own eyes. The OTHFBC has spoken, and if they say it doesn't happen, then I have to believe them. lmao
but yes, a good time was had by all. Not ALL hookers are mercenary bitches that only look at johns as walking ATM machines. Once again, I really don't understand why some people have such a hard time with that concept.
She didn't seem too enthused about a plane ticket though. Will she be back tonight or will the closeness of padded walls and white jackets be her companions for another week or two?
Of course, I'd already been generous with them and they just wanted to reciprocate. As a true gentleman, I let them. It's not as if we were at an expensive restaurant, so I was fine with it.
But wrong, as far as I'm concerned. Since you chose not to explain your comment I have no idea why you believe this. And like all blanket statements it can't possibly apply to everyone. I certainly doesn't apply to me. I think so much of myself I could be described as arrogant. Seriously, I never expected this aspect of the game when I returned a few years ago, and it's only one part of the personal side of the business. But I've ended up with a very wide circle of friends in this game, men and women, and partied and dined with many of them. It's been a huge amount of fun. If you've been unable to participate in this way you're really missing something.
...You're always bragging about not paying to watch them eat, i.e., you'll only go to dinner with them OTC. Now are you saying you DO pay to watch them eat?
I missed the word "pay" in your first post on this. I never have and never will pay for a girl's time at dinner. That said, I don't judge those who do, as you seem to. I don't understand it. But if that's what they need, why not? There are things I get judgmental about but they tend to be things like pederasty, rape and other outright abuse. But thanks for clarifying.
I also can agree that a true gentleman should always pick up the tab, but ain't no way in hell I'm paying for every second that someone sits at the dinner table.
However Like Nick I don't judge guys who choose to do so
Why would you care how a provider feels about you when you CLEARLY don't care for her?
After all you are paying her to have sex with you. The only reason some of these chicks offer it is so you can see that spending longer times with her is fun in hopes you'll enjoy yourself and pay for it. Her time is just like her sex. The money is in place so no one gets the idea that its more than what it is. Paying a woman for her time is only respectful.
The problem with accepting offers for OTC time is that if it doesn't have its desired affect, cutting you off becomes hard. When she starts 'having other plans' after your hourly rendezvous, you realize that the OTC aspect of meeting with her actually enhances the whole experience. And some of you resort to subtle hints of blackmail.
My advice to you gents: keep it professional and pay for the experience you want. My advice to you ladies: never give time to someone who doesn't value it.
I care because I would like to believe the provider that I'm with doesn't detest and loth me, I treat every encounter as though it's date with the notion that we may become friends.
We are entitled to our opinions, I just feel any woman charging a guy to take them to dinner or shopping obviously can't stand to be in the presence of this guy to charge him every second that he sits at a dinner table.
If guys are willing to pay you for such things, I have nothing bad to say about them, it's their money and their dime. They're some things I just won't pay for, and paying for someone to sit at a dinner table is one of them, although I always pick up the dinner tab.
It seems a bit contradictory to say that to a lady, 'you aren't worth a quarter unless I'm pounding your guts. But sure, I'll buy coffee, pay for for dinner, movie, or art exhibit fees to get to know you better as a person.'
You clearly value your money over her time missed with really important people in her life. When is who she is going to be valued in the exchange? Why not respect her time AND get to know her? I guess you figure you lose then? If that's the case, pound her guts and go home.
Aside from the few guys that speak their minds here, I notice everyone's using an alias. I wonder who's afraid of being put on DNS lists for their postings.
Cute twisting my words, no one ever said a provider isn't worth anything unless a guys pounding her, I've paid for sessions where no banging happened at all. There is just some shit that I don't think men should pay for
For example if your rate was $400 an hr... and I offered to buy you dinner after a session, now honestly what would you think of a guy who paid you the $400 for the session plus an additional $400 for the hr that you sat at the dinner table, then obviously he would pick up the tab as he should. Wouldn't you think that guy was a pathetic fool?
I value every providers time, but there's some shit I'm not paying for. Paying chicks to sit in movie theaters and dinner tables, it's laughable! I do all kinds of charitable stuff during the holidays, the kinda guy that I am I would much rather just give her the money than to pay her to let me take her shopping, dinner, or a movie.
I've used my Alias on every board that I post on, I could give a rats ass about someone getting upset with me because I refuse to pay someone to sit at a dinner table or paying them to shop.
LMAO paying a woman to take her shopping, just think about that for ten minutes and tell me you aren't laughing your ass off.
Cute twisting my words, no one ever said a provider isn't worth anything unless a guys pounding her, I've paid for sessions where no banging happened at all. There is just some shit that I don't think men should pay for.
I didn't twist your words. You're just taking mine too literal.
For example if your rate was $400 an hr... and I offered to buy you dinner after a session, now honestly what would you think of a guy who paid you the $400 for the session plus an additional $400 for the hr that you sat at the dinner table, then obviously he would pick up the tab as he should. Wouldn't you think that guy was a pathetic fool?
I don't do one hour appointments. If I did, and you offered to buy me dinner after a one hour appointment, I would decline. Yes, the guy who pays for a private hour and is expected to pay the hourly rate to eat, he would be a fool.
The problem with 'the hobby' in general is that it lacks the basic ingredient for drama-free fun: discretion. I love the interesting men that I've met over the years, and we keep in touch. But the few that get my attention, that I fly to meet on my own dime are the men that have consistently respected my time.
I value every providers time, but there's some shit I'm not paying for. Paying chicks to sit in movie theaters and dinner tables, it's laughable! I do all kinds of charitable stuff during the holidays, the kinda guy that I am I would much rather just give her the money than to pay her to let me take her shopping, dinner, or a movie.
Then don't invite them. Save that for the civvies.
I've used my Alias on every board that I post on, I could give a rats ass about someone getting upset with me because I refuse to pay someone to sit at a dinner table or paying them to shop.
LMAO paying a woman to take her shopping, just think about that for ten minutes and tell me you aren't laughing your ass off.
Darling, it wouldn't be what you didn't agree to, it's about your attitude towards the whole thing. If you're the kind of guy who only benefits from hourly appointments, then keep it that way. You have to understand, this is a business for us. Meeting nice guys is a treat. Women accept OTC dates so you come back. That may be enough for some girls, but you really need to understand what that means
Couldn't have said it better myself, I've had quite a few dinner dates and never paid extra. Usually a spur of the moment thing, that's the stuff that makes the hobby fun. Some guys never learn....
she'd be here preaching that none of this OTC time really happens, that she would never do it and that any gal who does it is a fool. Then she'd mount up again on her high horse, using the back of her mangina footman to reach the stirrup, and would ride off into the sunset with her nose in the air. LMAO. Do you get the feeling I don't miss her? Sadly, I'm sure she'll return soon. Beetlejuice? Minnie?
See a few posts above. Rumor has it that she will be back to grace (or graze) us with her cud again soon. I guess I prefer her over the manly gated horses.
There are gentlemen who look forward to the company of a lady at dinner. They want to go to dinner and do activities with a lady. Every man as different needs. some men want those types of sessions, but most who book 4+ hours really like to have conversation. Many of my multiple hour clients insist on dinner and a movie etc.
Value is based on the individual and to you there is not value in having dinner with the lady. to others it is value.
And some are actually prepared to pay someone to watch them eat and babble about themselves.
However many have NO interest in paying for that...and many others learn after a while here that many gals are happy to join a dude for dinner/drinks et al after the session is over. And they don't seem to have issues with NOT getting paid for that.
Posted By: sexxyleeza
There are gentlemen who look forward to the company of a lady at dinner. They want to go to dinner and do activities with a lady. Every man as different needs. some men want those types of sessions, but most who book 4+ hours really like to have conversation. Many of my multiple hour clients insist on dinner and a movie etc.
Value is based on the individual and to you there is not value in having dinner with the lady. to others it is value.
I doubt anyone would even be able to hear it over you saying to yourself "What, am I fucking stupid? Why am I paying a thousand bucks to watch her eat popcorn?" over and over again. lmao
I"m sure you know who I mean. She told him on many occasions of guys she dated who took her out to dinner, paying her for her time as well as the food, and never even had sex with her. So there are guys who just want a dining companion, or someone to take to theater or a movie. I don't get it, but if that's the way the want to spend their money, who cares? PS: I've seen her pix and I wouldn't have sex with her either, LOL.
A lady I know very well has five regulars and no other clients - obviously she's a part-timer. Only two of her regulars have sex with her. One just hangs out watching TV (two hours a week), one get the bejesus beat out of him (he makes the whips, flails, etc. himself), one watches her take a shower and occasionally gets a back massage, but leaves his undershirt, shorts and socks on.
Very well said. We do a lot of outdates here because there are a lot of men who desire to spend time with a lady, having dinner, sightseeing, going to shows, nightlife, etc.
One of my most fun outdates was one where I took a client Ghost-Hunting in Virginia City at the Old Washoe Club and then we went on a Mine Tour.
I don't have $700-$800 to play when the majority of that time is to talk. I rarely book more than 1 hour. When I did, the lady had a very reasonable rate - $400-$500 for two hours. This is nice, because when I do book 2 hours, it just slows everything down. I only pop once and dont try to run the gambit in 60 minutes, so Im totally okay with some chatting and a little time to put my clothes on, so under normal circumstances, the extra hour is a lot of money for that. Id like to see more providers offering 90 minutes for a little more than the hour rate, just to give you a chance to settle in to start and get your clothes on to finish, not to be naked and groping. In the scheme of things, 30 minutes goes fast and it would seem reasonable to me, but that is my humble opinion.
The other time I booked a 2 hour appointment, it was to have a threesome and 1 hour is just not long enough to have fun with 2 women. Some women offer a minimum of 1.5 hours for threesomes with a friend, and having done it before, that would be enough time, but I would not squabble over 30 minutes if I wanted to be with 2 beautiful women. I would be understanding going in that it would cost me well over a grand with two highly reviewed providers.
I have never taken a woman out to dinner, or a sporting event. I know she is not my girlfriend and just cant justify paying over a grand to be with someone that I am not connecting with on that level. 3+ hour appointments for a lady who is a dinner date, or a 1 night stand is too much for me. However, there are guys out there that make bukoo cash and $800 - $1,600 just aint as much money to them as it is to me...and thier are model material providers who can get men like that all day long, especially known porn stars that provide, so to each their own I guess.
Posted By: NewEnglandGangsta
Do some of you also feel that booking longer than a few hours is not worth it?
Most girls expect to be taken to dinner and shit like that and spend at least an hour yacking bullshit if you book longer than 2 or 3 hours. I want to fuck her brains out and watch her shove my dick down her throat, I don't want to watch a girl shove food down her mouth or pay for an hour or longer for her to bitch about her life.
Anyone else feel the same way regarding longer appointments? Too much talk less fucking.
or I am history. I should also add that drinking in a public bar or eating is OTC. If I am drinking, they can talk all they want as long as the conversation isn't about paying bills, ex-husbands/boyfriends or dirty laundry in general.
Most of my appointments are one hour and yes I want less talking and more fucking.
But she was an extraordinarily special lady. It did require a few breaks for cat naps and sandwiches. But it all depends on the lady and the "connection." Some I wanted to leave immediately after busting a nut, some I wanted to play with for a while (2-3 hours?).
Many ladies charge around $300 per hour. I usually see low volume ladies - two or three dates a week. With some of those ladies, they are happy with $1,000 for an overnight. At that point: $600 for 2 hours, or $1,000 for all night, it is a no brainer. It is like paying for a 2 hour date in the evening, a 1 hour date in the morning, and you get the rest of the time to enjoy her company.
There are some guys that can't see why you would spend more than 30 minutes with a lady. It all depends upon what you are looking for. You want a 2 hour PSE experience. Some guys want more GFE, with an emphasis on the GF part
Howver, I sometimes end up spending a lot more time. Last week I arrived bt cab at 10:00 AM for a 2-hour morning session with a very special lady (of course, they're ALL special). The session was profoundly sensual, and at noon, I took her to a very nice lunch at a different hotel not far away
As we talked and enjoyed each course, we found we sort of clicked--we liked each other and found each other fun--then she suggested returning to the room to pick up where we left off. I inquired of her if we might have time to stop at her hotel for dessert first, and she agreed.
We had had a bit to drink, and I very seldom drink during the daylight hours, so we strolled back to her hotel taking in the sunshine and chatting about the sport of living life. By the time we reached the lobby, the dinning room had closed until dinner, but dessert could be gotten in the cocktail lounge, so we dd that. She had a rice pudding on croissant, and I had strawberry shortcake. Very good.
When we returned to her room, we were delightf to see that housecleaning had made the bed, so we had fresh sheets for the rest of the day.
About 5:30 she said she had to Skype her family, so I showered and quickly dressed. She had removed my tie without untying it, so that probably cut two minutes off my departure time.
I returned to the bar and did some online things while I nursed a gin tonic and waited for her. Before the ice had melted completely, she joined me and we ordered an apetitizer and... I forget what she was drinking.
Anyway, about 8:30, as the sun was going down, I walked her back to the elevator, and with a kiss on the cheek we said our good-byes, and I took a cab home.
In a way, this could be referred to as OTC, but I don't consider it that way, as we pretty much left my longlost-lover fantasy in her room, and were just two people having a good time in a hotel that was wonderfully swank and a new adventure for both of us. So, we weren't extending the session really.
But I find things often go something like that, and I totally enjoy the entire time. I guess if I didn't enjoy it, I'd probably politely shorten the chatty part and leave, but I don't recall that ever actually happening exactly.
So, no. I don't generally have the type of experience you describe.
Posted By: NewEnglandGangsta
Do some of you also feel that booking longer than a few hours is not worth it?
Most girls expect to be taken to dinner and shit like that and spend at least an hour yacking bullshit if you book longer than 2 or 3 hours. I want to fuck her brains out and watch her shove my dick down her throat, I don't want to watch a girl shove food down her mouth or pay for an hour or longer for her to bitch about her life.
Anyone else feel the same way regarding longer appointments? Too much talk less fucking.
Are you going to write a review on the dessert? How about a sneak peek...and be honest.
And of course the review on the hotel...new sheets and all.
Seriously however...that's the way the game can/should be played. Bravo
You may have pissed off a few gals however...seems they still expect to get paid for that. Don't fret...no shortage of gals that do enjoy some of the dudes here.
Posted By: WickedBrut
Howver, I sometimes end up spending a lot more time. Last week I arrived bt cab at 10:00 AM for a 2-hour morning session with a very special lady (of course, they're ALL special). The session was profoundly sensual, and at noon, I took her to a very nice lunch at a different hotel not far away
As we talked and enjoyed each course, we found we sort of clicked--we liked each other and found each other fun--then she suggested returning to the room to pick up where we left off. I inquired of her if we might have time to stop at her hotel for dessert first, and she agreed.
We had had a bit to drink, and I very seldom drink during the daylight hours, so we strolled back to her hotel taking in the sunshine and chatting about the sport of living life. By the time we reached the lobby, the dinning room had closed until dinner, but dessert could be gotten in the cocktail lounge, so we dd that. She had a rice pudding on croissant, and I had strawberry shortcake. Very good.
When we returned to her room, we were delightf to see that housecleaning had made the bed, so we had fresh sheets for the rest of the day.
About 5:30 she said she had to Skype her family, so I showered and quickly dressed. She had removed my tie without untying it, so that probably cut two minutes off my departure time.
I returned to the bar and did some online things while I nursed a gin tonic and waited for her. Before the ice had melted completely, she joined me and we ordered an apetitizer and... I forget what she was drinking.
Anyway, about 8:30, as the sun was going down, I walked her back to the elevator, and with a kiss on the cheek we said our good-byes, and I took a cab home.
In a way, this could be referred to as OTC, but I don't consider it that way, as we pretty much left my longlost-lover fantasy in her room, and were just two people having a good time in a hotel that was wonderfully swank and a new adventure for both of us. So, we weren't extending the session really.
But I find things often go something like that, and I totally enjoy the entire time. I guess if I didn't enjoy it, I'd probably politely shorten the chatty part and leave, but I don't recall that ever actually happening exactly.
So, no. I don't generally have the type of experience you describe.
Posted By: NewEnglandGangsta
Do some of you also feel that booking longer than a few hours is not worth it?
Most girls expect to be taken to dinner and shit like that and spend at least an hour yacking bullshit if you book longer than 2 or 3 hours. I want to fuck her brains out and watch her shove my dick down her throat, I don't want to watch a girl shove food down her mouth or pay for an hour or longer for her to bitch about her life.
Anyone else feel the same way regarding longer appointments? Too much talk less fucking.
Rosemary Cross: Do you think we're going to have sex? Max Fischer: That's a kinda cheap way to put it. Rosemary Cross: Not if you've ever fucked before, it isn't.
Do some of you also feel that booking longer than a few hours is not worth it?
Most girls expect to be taken to dinner and shit like that and spend at least an hour yacking bullshit if you book longer than 2 or 3 hours. I want to fuck her brains out and watch her shove my dick down her throat, I don't want to watch a girl shove food down her mouth or pay for an hour or longer for her to bitch about her life.
Anyone else feel the same way regarding longer appointments? Too much talk less fucking.
"I want to fuck her brains out & watch her shove my dick down her throat, not watch her shove food down her throat or pay for an hr or longer for her to bitch about her life"..... Funny funny shit!!! Love it.... Hahahahahaha
"I want to fuck her brains out & watch her shove my dick down her throat, not watch her shove food down her throat or pay for an hr or longer for her to bitch about her life"..... Funny funny shit!!! Love it.... Hahahahahaha
Start shit when it's not necessary... I had to run the other day too, too much stuff going on with friends & clients.... U seem to do the same thing, not play very well with others... Especially w/me so why don't u go play with someone who gives a crap what you say ... Cause I really don't.... Thanks & have a wonderful day....
Then of course it disappeared...but it was a fun read LOL
Have you been to Navy Pier recently...that's where we went Sunday afternoon. Good times
Posted By: Gemma Coreana
Start shit when it's not necessary... I had to run the other day too, too much stuff going on with friends & clients.... U seem to do the same thing, not play very well with others... Especially w/me so why don't u go play with someone who gives a crap what you say ... Cause I really don't.... Thanks & have a wonderful day....
What was happening at navy pier? I love that area... Why didn't u invite me!!! Oh I forgot we hate each other..... I was on Michigan ave at an engagement party...everyone seems to want to get married these days... Ugh.... Then a client dinner date, which I agree w/the OP-more fucking less talking...
As I tell the Turdmeister all the time. The stick never hates the piñata, but I suppose the piñata does hate the stick.
I am glad you are back, I told CPA that we tried to be nice to you while he was gone, but you seemed to want nothing to do with being nice. I would have hated for him to have gone all "Turdwellian" on me if you went on hiatus and accuse me of running you off. I shouldn't have worried as we all know this is fun and games, well at least some of us do. The way the steam was coming out of your ears the other day, I was beginning to wonder.
Alas, I can't stay and play long tonight, I too have a dinner date, but in my case I expect just the right amount of fucking and talking.
Trust me, I don't take things that personally & things are forgotten like yesters news.... Maybe I have ADHD but TER is fun!! I'm too much of a strongheaded gal to let peeps run me off.... I'm just busy busy w/trying to get my upcoming semester in order plus trying to se all my ATFs before I'm grounded in chicago & not able to tour! You guys are amusing.... More then anything... Very whimsical actually intelligent & cunning... These boards would be boring without u guys....
Any whoo have fun on your dinner date... Hope there's lots of fucking & sucking... !!!!!
The fucking obviously will be confined to the bedroom, but she loves crawfish and the season is about to end so there will be a lot of "sucking" both before, during and after dinner. "sucking heads" with each other, AND sucking crawfish heads. lmao
Y'all have fun tonight and try not to break anything while I am gone.
Thanks. It was very heart felt. I haven't received a letter like that in many years. I had no idea you felt that way about me actually but we can talk more offline. When you stop by new england, I can take you a better pier if that's what you enjoy but only after hitting the clubs first.
Can you remind me what was written on that letter?? Maybe I was drunk when I wrote it, since I'm being accused of being a slobbery drunk on TER... Lol... So anything sentimental I wrote may not mean anything as of the following day...
Will you take me to the patriots game instead of some crappy pier??? 😘😘😘😘😘
As they say, a drunk girls words are a sober girls thoughts. Patriot games sounds better.
I thought you said a pier would be more romantic though. You'd go to a pier with a board asshole like our friend CPA but not with someone you actually like? I can't quite figure that out. You like mean boys over nice guys?
The thread that got deleted where you were babbling with GaG and a few others..Just like this one may end up LOL
Nothing particular was happening there...just a nice leisurely stroll from Millenium Park to the Pier. Fun to do some girl watching. Had a nice dinner at Harry Caray's (did I ever tell you about London Rayne and the fun we had)? Remind me after you've figured out what you wrote to Skarp. If you're cheating on me...not cool
I saw at least 4 wedding parties as we drove down Michigan Avenue. I didn't see you there...and I know you'd "stand" out.
You can go see the Pats game....but the place this year to watch football may indeed be on the Lakefront. Hope so anyhow LOL And sorry...gave up my Bears and Hawks tickets years ago. Maybe Skarp still has some box seats?
Hey....that client didn't actually pay for more than 2 hours...did he? If so, have him read this thread. That'll help him in the future.
Posted By: Gemma Coreana
What went to the right?
What was happening at navy pier? I love that area... Why didn't u invite me!!! Oh I forgot we hate each other..... I was on Michigan ave at an engagement party...everyone seems to want to get married these days... Ugh.... Then a client dinner date, which I agree w/the OP-more fucking less talking...
The thread that got deleted where you were babbling with GaG and a few others..Just like this one may end up LOL
Nothing particular was happening there...just a nice leisurely stroll from Millenium Park to the Pier. Fun to do some girl watching. Had a nice dinner at Harry Caray's (did I ever tell you about London Rayne and the fun we had)? Remind me after you've figured out what you wrote to Skarp. If you're cheating on me...not cool
I saw at least 4 wedding parties as we drove down Michigan Avenue. I didn't see you there...and I know you'd "stand" out.
You can go see the Pats game....but the place this year to watch football may indeed be on the Lakefront. Hope so anyhow LOL And sorry...gave up my Bears and Hawks tickets years ago. Maybe Skarp still has some box seats?
Hey....that client didn't actually pay for more than 2 hours...did he? If so, have him read this thread. That'll help him in the future.
Posted By: Gemma Coreana
What went to the right?
What was happening at navy pier? I love that area... Why didn't u invite me!!! Oh I forgot we hate each other..... I was on Michigan ave at an engagement party...everyone seems to want to get married these days... Ugh.... Then a client dinner date, which I agree w/the OP-more fucking less talking...
The rest of that thread... GD-who removed it??? Who the hell is Skap??
It's wasn't a wedding I was at an Engagement party.... My date was lots of flirting, then lots of fucking... Hopefully his review comes up soon... It's was fun... Nice nice gentlemen w/a BFC.... 👍👍👍👍👍👍
Maybe it got so small that it ended up in cyberspace?
Oh...the engagement party. Nah, didn't see those milling around Michigan Avenue.
Did you ever try riding a segway? Lot's of fun. Even has a little bell on there to let someone know you're about to run them over.
What's a BFC?
Posted By: Gemma Coreana
The rest of that thread... GD-who removed it??? Who the hell is Skap??
It's wasn't a wedding I was at an Engagement party.... My date was lots of flirting, then lots of fucking... Hopefully his review comes up soon... It's was fun... Nice nice gentlemen w/a BFC.... 👍👍👍👍👍👍
I wanna do one of those Segway tours, maybe I'll suggest that to one of my ATFs when they visit me instead of dinner date.. Wished guys were more creative on long engagements.... I saw a guy on it once that slammed right into a light pole... That was hilarious... He wasn't paying attention to where he was going... Lol. I would def run peeps over... I'm mean that way... 😝😝😝😝😝😝
BFC- Big Fat Cock!!! It was a pretty cock.. Me Likey!!!
Tell me ur story about London Rayne, I didn't really know her but thought she was funny!!!
The rest of that thread... GD-who removed it??? Who the hell is Skap??
It's wasn't a wedding I was at an Engagement party.... My date was lots of flirting, then lots of fucking... Hopefully his review comes up soon... It's was fun... Nice nice gentlemen w/a BFC.... 👍👍👍👍👍👍
well. And I've had some extended OTC time afterward here and there but that was just social. As far as a compensated pay for play I can't see more than 1.5 with someone I don't yet know and in most cases 1.5 is plenty of time for a unrushed date focused on play....
From now on, when the door opens, I want her on her knees with her mouth open. And I want a timer that stops when my cock isn't in her pussy or her mouth. I'll be sure to get my 1.5 hours worth.
Same as I do anything else. Longest I've done is 3 hours and that was with a UTR girl in another city and the rate was a about what I'd pay for an hour in Chicago. Can't review her but a great time was had by all (well by me anyway). Here I would not do over an hour unless I really felt like I clicked with the provider...shit can get real awkward real fast after the lovin' or between rounds if there's no compatibility.
That said, you "I'mma fuck this chick for an hour and bounce" guys really seem to bug out about the guys who do like longer dates. Not once have I ever seen a guy who likes overnights come on here and bitch at y'all for only wanting a minimal amount of time. So what's your beef?
Can you imagine having a date with Tobi, having a slam/bang sexfest for 60 minutes and bailing out without getting to spend some time getting to know her a bit? I'll bet she'd be so much fun to hang with that I'd put my pants back on for the second hour.
Escorts should not assume all her clients are like you.
Escorts should not try to steer my session that way, if I'm paying per hour all I really want is to fuck her brains out and, like Tobi's ultimate wish, skull fuck her through both eye sockets if she thinks I look like Johnny Depp.
Do you really think talking for an hour is worth paying the same hourly rate
I can't remember the last time I walked up to a really hot chick and just started playing with her boobs or rubbing her vagina. I think I can't remember because she decked me.
Caressing and licking and squeezing are just as much a part of sex, for me anyway, as BJ's or intercourse.
It's been a looooong time since I've been able to lie in bed and play with a hot little lady. It's not going to happen now unless I pay. You may not think the non-penetration stuff is worth paying for. I do. Simple as that. I enjoy it. Maybe you enjoy anal. I don't. I don't ask why those who like anal pay for it.
What about golden showers? Guys paying for girls to piss on them? Or S&M? Paying for pain?
The experience of just getting naked with a nubile young lady like Tobi is worth the price of admission.
Two types of OTC: Playtime Off The Clock. (POTC) and Socializing Off The Clock (SOTC).
Maybe she just likes to finish what she starts, so the session goes 15, 20 minutes over. POTC! Big Deal! Lucky Day!
After you're dressed you go down to the lounge and spring for beers. SOTC. Nothing to write home about. Hope you have a nice conversation. Don't pine and sigh and wring your hands if it doesn't happen.
Does either MEAN anything? If the authorities came to take you away, would she let you hide in her home? If not, it's not even a proper friendship. Still, you can enjoy each other's company.
But what is this fear of two people talking to each other?
Posted By: NewEnglandGangsta
Do some of you also feel that booking longer than a few hours is not worth it?
Most girls expect to be taken to dinner and shit like that and spend at least an hour yacking bullshit if you book longer than 2 or 3 hours. I want to fuck her brains out and watch her shove my dick down her throat, I don't want to watch a girl shove food down her mouth or pay for an hour or longer for her to bitch about her life.
Anyone else feel the same way regarding longer appointments? Too much talk less fucking.
I like to see gals who are interesting people, and I get great pleasure being in their company.
Sure, I enjoy the sex too, but there's something to be said for balance.
Nearly every date I have is a dinner date, and even with an overnight I seldom indulge in over three rounds. Truth be told, I'm not physically able to do much more but even so, I'd miss the social time if all we did was hang out in the bedroom.
You seem like a 10 round guy.... And please don't say ur age won't allow you, from the reviews & consistency in seeing providers, I think with the right person you can blast out one after another... There should be more hobbyists like URSELF... Every girl would have a happy hobby life... 😁😁😁😁!!!
Every meal we eat comes in multiple courses. Every escort we see comes in multiple courses as well. One after another. LOL Truth be told, I'm also not physically able to do much more either after the first escort but even so, I agree it's fun to just socialize.
One big difference though, not on my dime. If I'm paying a girl, I'm paying her to suck my dick and to fuck like minks. We can do the social thing off the clock if that's what gets her off but it sure doesn't get me off.
I actually knew you'd say what you said since you're a well-known mangina. I don't mean it in a condescending way, just that you're more emotional and less aggressive than other guys here. Nothing wrong with that.
My gripe is that escorts assume all her clients are like you and try to steer my session that way but honestly all I really want is to fuck like minks.
Any shorter and I feel rushed, any longer and definitely diminishing returns as I'm lucky to get two shots on goal in one night. Hanging out off the clock is another thing entirely, but rare except for one lady that I see.
I book as long as I need to splooge twice. I'd be more than happy to hang it with the lady and bullshit around afterwards since I no longer have to worry about getting off, but I'm not paying for it.
I genuinely enjoy longer appointments. I have no problem with springing for a meal or a show. For me, stuff like that is part of a true Girl Friend Experience.
My minimum appointment, even as a first time out kind of thing, is three hours, preferably four. My typical appointment length with one of my regular friends is probably five or six hours.
One very special friend and I get together with tremendous frequency. Our typical date-length? Three days (Yes, Days. We've actually gone for almost a week once or twice).
What can I say. If you looked in the dictionary under "lonely middle-aged man whose wife doesn't understand him," you'd see a picture of me. For me, all those buzzwords like "the donation is for my time and companionship"...well, Yeah, that's really where my head is at. I love the hot and wild sex, for sure; but I also truly enjoy the companionship.
Go ahead, flame away at me, I can take it...
(PS: I'm going to be starting a thread soon about super-extended "arrangements"--looking for good, intelligent feedback. Try not to fling too much feces from the cheap seats, ok? Thanks.)
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