But definitely lopsided in the hobby - the providers are paid to be giving after all.
"Women are sources of power, and men drain that energy from the women and devour it.
That's why women like Angel get drained and men get charged up.
It's not a physical phenomenon entirely, it is more spiritual energy."
My questions:
1) Is this accurate?
2) If so, is it useful/efficient/the way things should be?
3) Do women experience the "draining"/"taking" of energy as pleasurable or natural?
The only thing that gets drained is my man juice and sweat.
I recharge my energy after eating good food and beverages.
I guess having a great woman in my life never hurts but I do not depend on woman for my energy. Women depend on me for their energy but not the other way around. It's true 
But my experience so far tells me that it is right on.
I was taught this by my mentor in these areas, a man who lived a very unusual life, among other things.
Never discount the spiritual. There's a reason that people fight and die over their spiritual beliefs. When we disappear, the spirit is all that will be left, after all.
But definitely lopsided in the hobby - the providers are paid to be giving after all.
in most cases if the chemistry is good, both myself and the mademoiselle du jour are energized by the date - and if the chemistry is really not there and it is just serviceable sex, we are both a bit drained by it....
the engagement of compatible personalities is always energizing in my experience....
as a net negative.
Even as that energy is transferred to the male, she is reaping a benefit in doing so as she is designed for this function, and can recharge and thus be more complete when the cycle is over. But some gals give so much that they get a bit bent out of shape. I've seen this several times. It should be temporary.
Conversely, a male who absorbs her energy improperly can become burned out and dysfunctional unless the male can consume the energy fully and use it towards his betterment. Often this damage is more lasting.
I'll use electricity as a metaphor. A battery (the female energy giver) can become drained, but can usually be recharged with little problem. but if the battery discharges too much voltage into a light bulb (male energy receiver) and burns it out, then that light bulb is broken for good.
Obviously this metaphor has its limits, but in a very rough way it illustrates what I'm trying to say.
This a very involved subject, and the confines of a venue like this would prevent me from covering the topic in any meaningful way.
Books by Wilhelm Reich, however, get into the subject pretty well if you want to look further. Erich Fromm's works are also good.
I begin to see the mechanics of what you are talking about and I think I have experienced it myself... I have not considered the danger to the male... only the female... which danger was what prompted my OP. I am glad you think that there is not a significant long term risk to the woman...
As to the male, how does one determine one's wattage?
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But in any case, as to your question:
Keep seeing higher powered women until you find one that pops your fuse, then take it down just a hair.
That works for me.
....they tend to have that effect on everyone around them - spouses, friends, coworkers, etc. I don't think it is necessarily gender specific as everybody is unique and to say that one gender systemically drains another is ludicrous.
After I finish, I'd like to roll over and nap. The ladies jump up and are full of things to do, like I just injected them with an espresso or something.
But I personally am an introvert and so always feel a need to emotionally recharge after time spent with other people...
I'm energetic during the date, but directly afterward, I'm like a toy that was wound up but then starts moving slower and slower and slower...then stops. Just want to curl up in sweats with a bowl of ice cream...
When I do longer dates, guys do seem to be just as drained...alcohol and a few nuts followed by a massage will do that to you, I guess. With shorter dates, they seem to gain a lot of confidence from our pleasurable little interaction...they leave with a spring in their steps
Providing a service, in general, shouldn't LOOK like work to those who are on the receiving end...but (good) hospitality is not only a physical service but a kind of superimposition of mood and energy...that's exactly why it does require so much of an emotional investment on the part of the giver...
Ever given a party and had tons of fun, but then been exhausted and relieved when the last guest finally leaves? Kind of like that
I'm energetic during the date, but directly afterward, I'm like a toy that was wound up but then starts moving slower and slower and slower...then stops. Just want to curl up in sweats with a bowl of ice cream...
When I do longer dates, guys do seem to be just as drained...alcohol and a few nuts followed by a massage will do that to you, I guess. With shorter dates, they seem to gain a lot of confidence from our pleasurable little interaction...they leave with a spring in their steps
Providing a service, in general, shouldn't LOOK like work to those who are on the receiving end...but (good) hospitality is not only a physical service but a kind of superimposition of mood and energy...that's exactly why it does require so much of an emotional investment on the part of the giver...
Ever given a party and had tons of fun, but then been exhausted and relieved when the last guest finally leaves? Kind of like that.