I would think would qualify you as no longer being a newbie I am an email only provider so I will answer your question from my standpoint. I respond to emails in a timely fashion nowadays many people have smart phones so it makes it pretty easy to respond to an email sometimes even easier than taking a phone call. I will respond to most emails as long as it is not rude or explicit and seems like the gent is interested.
There have been times where I have received emails for dates I was not available I did respond and let the gent know.I would not just ignore or delete the email. Since many gents who contact me book in advance majority of the times there are follow up emails which I don't mind.As long as the emails being sent is not excessive. Every now and then some emails are discovered much later in the spam folder.It happens. If you email providers and seem to have a pattern of not receiving a response it might be in your approach. I would agree inquiring on a specific date,time,and length of appt would come cross better than just sending an email saying "Hey,are you available sometime?"Including all of that info in your email shows you are interested in setting up an appt and not just wasting time. If you are flexible with the date or time mention that as well in your email. You should get more responses by trying this approach. Good luck to you.
Still relatively new to the hobby. Of late, I've been having trouble getting responses to e-mails to providers. I'm always polite and friendly, never contact on super short notice (always at least a few days, often just an open ended "some time"), never of course mention any specifics about a session and try to provide whatever information they ask as far as verification/etc. And yet it seems like half the time I never even get a courtesy e-mail back. 2 questions stemming from this, 1 for any hobbyists reading and 1 for any ladies.
For hobbyists - What's your average "hit rate", for lack of a better way of putting it, on contacting providers? Is it common in your experience to hear absolutely nothing back? Do you follow up? I don't follow up because my basic philosophy is if they don't care enough to respond to a carefully prepared and friendly e-mail it lessens my trust that they're going to put optimal care into the session. Maybe I should reconsider?
For ladies - What's your approach to e-mail replies? Do you try to reply to e-mails as long as they aren't lewd/stupid/something else bad, or do you just not get around to replying to a certain number and only do it if you think the timing is going to work out in the near future? Are followups useful or is there generally some reason you aren't responding in the first place? I guess the fact that I have no idea how much e-mail you get is a key issue; should I be more forgiving of e-mails going ignored or am I being fair in viewing that as rude?
Send them an email asking about a specific date and a specific time. You can add that you do have some flexibility if indeed you do.
Otherwise asking for some day at any time isn't setting up a session...simply fishing for her availability. That smacks of being a "time waster".
I trust that you'll see your "hit rate" go up considerably.
Are you able to respond to my post sometime next month on any day at some time that I don't care about?
Posted By: goodtimes06
Hi folks,
Still relatively new to the hobby. Of late, I've been having trouble getting responses to e-mails to providers. I'm always polite and friendly, never contact on super short notice (always at least a few days, often just an open ended "some time"), never of course mention any specifics about a session and try to provide whatever information they ask as far as verification/etc. And yet it seems like half the time I never even get a courtesy e-mail back. 2 questions stemming from this, 1 for any hobbyists reading and 1 for any ladies.
For hobbyists - What's your average "hit rate", for lack of a better way of putting it, on contacting providers? Is it common in your experience to hear absolutely nothing back? Do you follow up? I don't follow up because my basic philosophy is if they don't care enough to respond to a carefully prepared and friendly e-mail it lessens my trust that they're going to put optimal care into the session. Maybe I should reconsider?
For ladies - What's your approach to e-mail replies? Do you try to reply to e-mails as long as they aren't lewd/stupid/something else bad, or do you just not get around to replying to a certain number and only do it if you think the timing is going to work out in the near future? Are followups useful or is there generally some reason you aren't responding in the first place? I guess the fact that I have no idea how much e-mail you get is a key issue; should I be more forgiving of e-mails going ignored or am I being fair in viewing that as rude?
I'll try that out. I appreciate the tip in spite of the rude tone. When I schedule a doctor's appointment or dentist's appointment or pretty much any appointment I tend to leave a wide window of time to allow for flexibility as a courtesy but I understand the point you're making and maybe I'm better off just specifying a specific date and time.
grumpypants sometimes. But he is correct...ladies here like gentlemen who provide 'all' the info in the first email, the where, the when, the duration, or the emails go back and forth and it becomes a bit of a nuisance. She will come back with a 'yes or a no' to 'your' allotted time and you can both go from there. But it certainly helps with a starting point and she will take you much more seriously vs just saying 'hi there'.
Know what you want and go after it. Simple. She will have more respect for you and will take the 'time' to see you for sure if you are for 'real' from word one. That's why I've always said, first words are key, always.
Posted By: goodtimes06
I'll try that out. I appreciate the tip in spite of the rude tone. When I schedule a doctor's appointment or dentist's appointment or pretty much any appointment I tend to leave a wide window of time to allow for flexibility as a courtesy but I understand the point you're making and maybe I'm better off just specifying a specific date and time.
I still love when some of the posters here contend that some of "us" are angry LOL
Can you let me know how long you're planning on keeping this handle? Now that the World Cup is over the new line is the over/under on the luv handle.
I would luv (sp) a bit of intel to hedge my bet(s).
Posted By: LuvTheBoardBoys
grumpypants sometimes. But he is correct...ladies here like gentlemen who provide 'all' the info in the first email, the where, the when, the duration, or the emails go back and forth and it becomes a bit of a nuisance. She will come back with a 'yes or a no' to 'your' allotted time and you can both go from there. But it certainly helps with a starting point and she will take you much more seriously vs just saying 'hi there'.
Know what you want and go after it. Simple. She will have more respect for you and will take the 'time' to see you for sure if you are for 'real' from word one. That's why I've always said, first words are key, always.
Posted By: goodtimes06
I'll try that out. I appreciate the tip in spite of the rude tone. When I schedule a doctor's appointment or dentist's appointment or pretty much any appointment I tend to leave a wide window of time to allow for flexibility as a courtesy but I understand the point you're making and maybe I'm better off just specifying a specific date and time.
sarcastic SOB for a new brave soul who decides to 'participate' and isn't aware of your style (or anyone else's for that matter .
Lookie where we first started haha lol until I finally understood you and your posting ways. You? I understand. The others? Forget about it lol. And me? Well hahaha, I'm just a ridiculously angry ol' soul myself who LOVES to post all angry cause I'm just a really, really, really angry girl LOL (but shhhh, don't tell anyone it's fun
Btw I don't watch tv and decided to turn it on for the first time in forever and DAMN the Bachelorette's choices are hard this time. They are hotties alright. Good lord. Who won the World Cup????
And ohhhh, the clock is ticking..........(on the handle that is)
So no more of a hint than that? Just too vague and from my understanding the number participating on the bet is quite a large one.
I won't watch the Bachelor/Bachelorette crap. Simply less realistic than most of the reviews here describing how many O's a hooker has.
Is HoneyBooBoo still around?
Posted By: LuvTheBoardBoys
sarcastic SOB for a new brave soul who decides to 'participate' and isn't aware of your style (or anyone else's for that matter .
Lookie where we first started haha lol until I finally understood you and your posting ways. You? I understand. The others? Forget about it lol. And me? Well hahaha, I'm just a ridiculously angry ol' soul myself who LOVES to post all angry cause I'm just a really, really, really angry girl LOL (but shhhh, don't tell anyone it's fun
Btw I don't watch tv and decided to turn it on for the first time in forever and DAMN the Bachelorette's choices are hard this time. They are hotties alright. Good lord. Who won the World Cup????
And ohhhh, the clock is ticking..........(on the handle that is)
I couldn't have said it any better. Altho I will ad, I just found someone's email in my spam folder yesterday, so that does happen. If you don't get a response within a cpl of days- Send another email, we dnt mind, it lets us know that you are serious. We get busy & there are times when I've started a message it goes to my draft & I forget about it. Some of us get alot of emails, some days none, then in one day 15. It is hard to respond to everyone, so if you are interested send another one & always put a date & time. If you have references include that ya have them.
The only reason that keeps me from responding to an email- is when they write something explicit in it. Some I'm not sure if they even realize it, but I get aggrivated, & I don't want to reply & if I do I will wait until I'm somewhere with a dif ip address, so if I got time I will pull into a hotel parkin lot or Mcds. Many don't realize sending me an email asking me for a girlfriend experience is actually asking me to do an illegal act. Due to all these sites out here, guys think it's ok to ask me to do things over email or text, It isn't
If client contacts me with a general introduction telling me about his Aunt Gertie from Iowa, he likes my pictures and is wondering when I'm available, he's not really a priority to me. In my experience, those clients are, in fact, wasting my time. Not only does my intuition tell me this, but my back channel exchanges with other providers tell me the same thing.
On the other hand, when a client contacts me with his verification information and a specific date and time, I will respond within five minutes if it's during business hours and I'm not with a client.
Then there's another issue all together of how to respond when I do not want to see a client at all. I still haven't quite figured out what to do about those situations
see how guys think this is an angry response? It answers his question clearly & has a funny at the end. When I read things like this, it reminds me not to take things so serious.
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Posted By: ChgoCPA
Send them an email asking about a specific date and a specific time. You can add that you do have some flexibility if indeed you do.
Otherwise asking for some day at any time isn't setting up a session...simply fishing for her availability. That smacks of being a "time waster".
I trust that you'll see your "hit rate" go up considerably.
Are you able to respond to my post sometime next month on any day at some time that I don't care about?
Posted By: goodtimes06
Hi folks,
Still relatively new to the hobby. Of late, I've been having trouble getting responses to e-mails to providers. I'm always polite and friendly, never contact on super short notice (always at least a few days, often just an open ended "some time"), never of course mention any specifics about a session and try to provide whatever information they ask as far as verification/etc. And yet it seems like half the time I never even get a courtesy e-mail back. 2 questions stemming from this, 1 for any hobbyists reading and 1 for any ladies.
For hobbyists - What's your average "hit rate", for lack of a better way of putting it, on contacting providers? Is it common in your experience to hear absolutely nothing back? Do you follow up? I don't follow up because my basic philosophy is if they don't care enough to respond to a carefully prepared and friendly e-mail it lessens my trust that they're going to put optimal care into the session. Maybe I should reconsider?
For ladies - What's your approach to e-mail replies? Do you try to reply to e-mails as long as they aren't lewd/stupid/something else bad, or do you just not get around to replying to a certain number and only do it if you think the timing is going to work out in the near future? Are followups useful or is there generally some reason you aren't responding in the first place? I guess the fact that I have no idea how much e-mail you get is a key issue; should I be more forgiving of e-mails going ignored or am I being fair in viewing that as rude?
I often do provide my TER handle if that's requested, so perhaps that is a factor. I don't know; I haven't given out a "bad" review ever (thanks to TER!) but maybe they are concerned about seeing anything lower than an 8. I'm not sending out vague e-mails. I provide references, a handle, personal information, whatever they ask on their website. It's not like I just say, "Hey, wanna hang?" From the responses here, I'm assuming it is abnormal for people to not hear back when trying to book?
....but I am a female hobbyist so my first email to a provider usually consists of my asking her if she entertains ladies- nothing about a specific time or date. That usually comes with a follow up email. I have been very impressed by the high response rate so far. It tells me that there are many courteous, thoughtful and open-minded providers out there that don't mind taking a few minutes to respond to my query.
I would think would qualify you as no longer being a newbie I am an email only provider so I will answer your question from my standpoint. I respond to emails in a timely fashion nowadays many people have smart phones so it makes it pretty easy to respond to an email sometimes even easier than taking a phone call. I will respond to most emails as long as it is not rude or explicit and seems like the gent is interested.
There have been times where I have received emails for dates I was not available I did respond and let the gent know.I would not just ignore or delete the email. Since many gents who contact me book in advance majority of the times there are follow up emails which I don't mind.As long as the emails being sent is not excessive. Every now and then some emails are discovered much later in the spam folder.It happens.
If you email providers and seem to have a pattern of not receiving a response it might be in your approach. I would agree inquiring on a specific date,time,and length of appt would come cross better than just sending an email saying "Hey,are you available sometime?"Including all of that info in your email shows you are interested in setting up an appt and not just wasting time. If you are flexible with the date or time mention that as well in your email. You should get more responses by trying this approach. Good luck to you.
Set up about 50 different email accounts and send her an email every 15 minutes why she isn't responding. That will get you a response, guaranteed. You might not get a positive toned response but it's still a response. lol
Response rate is quite high for P411. I heard that providers are required to respond. Don't quote me on that though but I've had an impressive level of response.
a 1 hour incall appointment for Wednesday, July 16 at 7pm. Length of appointment, day/date, and time are all included. None of this "can you see me this later this week in the early evening crap?"
I try my best to answer mh emails in a timely fashion but I do have a life outside of work so sometimes I will leave my work phone at home for a couple days when im with family or taking a break so if people cant understand and respect that, I don't want to meet them anyway. Recently I had a client contact me asking about getting togeyher and when I messaged him back it came back as an error, two days later he wrote me a nasty message saying he would contact somebody else who cared about their business. Messed up I had no way to argue my side.
Bottom line, most of us try to answer our emails as quickly as possible. Sometimes we think we answer and its saved to drafts or maybe your message was sent to spam. If no answer is recieved within a day or two and your very interested in the girl it doesn't hurt to send an additional message making sure she got thr first one. Or move on to somebody else.
When beginning a new paragraph you need to press the space bar just a few times. Indent the first sentence beginning each new paragraph. Don't get mad I learned it by watching these other nit picking spelling bee luvin, wheel of fortune whiz, language arts buffs. It does make peoples responses much easier to read though, The person whom politely pmed me on this matter months ago was totally right. I definetly delete emails not responded too by accident many a times. I would most definetly follow up. Met a man this week whom said he contact me through p411 ages ago last year, never heard back, He didnt try again til last week. I would never delete an email with out responding unless it has a question like today some one said "Hi, saw your ad in fetish section, how much for a hybrid session?' I just deleted it because the rates were in the ad text which was short and sweet maybe 4 sentences long advertisment, Then rates on the web site . I just deleted his email. Or if they specify at all a scripted session like i like to cross dress or i like sloppy dfk. I also delete. I wouldnt assume anything just yet. I'd follow up and see if they even got the original email. I doubt that there is actually a handful of escorts that all delete your reservation form simply because they are just rude and aloof. Does it say must be a completed reservation form? i know if i book my appts for a week out and others may do this i wont start booking or responding to the new forms til the week is all; done, Once you sit down and book all those appts for a week its nice to be able to not be at your desk for a week and just work then do the schedule agin the following week. They also have regulars and just may have not got around to you, With the millions of ladies in town i find it hard to believ your not getting any responses. Who cares any ways there are so mahy other ladies just email another one, We are a dime a dozen with 7 thousand or more ladies in each city just be "on to the next one" fill out 5 reservation forms one has to respond. Your sure your not mentioning sex acts? or sending a picture of yourself or your cock . I happen to love when they do that but.
Taking a look at my website first is always a good idea. I try to keep my calendar up to date but have been known to slip
I like to know the day and time (about) that you would like to meet and how long you would like to visit. Tell me how old you are and your profession). I need to have at least some info for initial verification- white list p411, dc etc. I like to know who I am saying yes to before I say yes. It isn't good to set a date up with a person only to have to cancel because the info (or feedback) wasn't good!
The more vague the request, the more it sounds like you are not serious about setting up a rendezvous
Never had an initial inquiry/screening form go un-responded, never been turned down for a date, and have never joined P411 or any other similar service.
Just dumb luck? It's hard for me to think that at this point. I think I just write well, and tend to "put it all out there", without holding anything back.
These days, it's obviously much easier for me, since I have plenty of references which I can offer if necessary; and I go to M&Gs, which more or less remove the need to screen as such.
Whenever curiosity gets the better of me, and I ask a new friend, "How did you know I was okay?", I am either told "so-and-so said you were ok," or "I just went with my gut, since you provided so much information about yourself."
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