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I think it's true... but not really useful
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Based on my limited experience...  with one particular gal...  who was a RN for a women's health clinic...  (and I had no belly in those long ago days)...  she came like a machine gun when that contact was achieved.  Tapping?  More like a deep rubbing rocking motion.
It happened with one other...  in the same knees to chest position...  

My opinion is that she must be pretty close for this trigger to happen.

But with the uniqueness of every coupling...  I'm a bit doubtful of the usefulness of this information.

finding that sweet spot is half the fun..

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Doesn't one need to be able to get hard to find it?

Posted By: macdaddy1944
finding that sweet spot is half the fun..

Based on my limited experience...  with one particular gal...  who was a RN for a women's health clinic...  (and I had no belly in those long ago days)...  she came like a machine gun when that contact was achieved.  Tapping?  More like a deep rubbing rocking motion.
It happened with one other...  in the same knees to chest position...  

My opinion is that she must be pretty close for this trigger to happen.

But with the uniqueness of every coupling...  I'm a bit doubtful of the usefulness of this information.

NO! Banging on the cervix is not likely to be pleasurable...  note my reference to rubbing & rocking against it.    

Posted By: harbor_view
Based on my limited experience...  with one particular gal...  who was a RN for a women's health clinic...  (and I had no belly in those long ago days)...  she came like a machine gun when that contact was achieved.  Tapping?  More like a deep rubbing rocking motion.  
 It happened with one other...  in the same knees to chest position...    
   
 My opinion is that she must be pretty close for this trigger to happen.  
   
 But with the uniqueness of every coupling...  I'm a bit doubtful of the usefulness of this information.      

yes some seem to have a "sweet spot" that is deeper than average but not sure at all it has anything to do with the cervix -  I've never met a woman for whom bouncing off of her cervix was anything but uncomfortable....     I try to avoid this....

Many seem to respond to a high angle that gives the clitoris a lot of close but indirect stimulation  -  many to a low upward angle that stimulates the top of the vagina near the real or imagined "G" spot or clitoral legs, and some really respond to a very deep rocking motion and the sense of being well filled.  Perhaps this stimulates the cervix area ?

well -  for what it's worth I am of the opinion that making an effort at reading your partners responses and going with them trumps charts and "canned technique"  anyway....

and the orgasm referred to is really from stimulation of the fornix. The fornix is deep and adjacent to the cervix, so cervical contact is almost a given. The motion is more of a rhythmic rocking, not a tapping or thrusting.

it is that deeply penetrated rocking motion that seems to do it for some....

... and all of them give a different feeling.
Clitoral, the obvious one
Vaginal/G spot (it's real, it's not imagined! You can actually feel the g-spot with your fingers!)
Cervical
and Anal

 
Cervical orgasms only come along once in a great while and take a little work but they're the type that will leave me unable to remember my own name for a good five minutes afterward.
As for motion, eh. I guess "tapping" could describe it, but I would be pretty upset if someone tapped my cervix. The area that the stimulation needs to come from is actually "above" my cervix if I'm laying flat on my back - think more up toward the bellybutton than heading toward the cervix which is straight back & down.  
At least, that's how it feels for me. Unless you have really long fingers I don't think you'd be able to reach that 'cervical' orgasm spot during manual stimulation.

The thing about ladies is that we're just as mechanical as men when it comes to achieving an orgasm. It's all about blood flow and stimulation.  
The trick is: we have to teach ourselves how to have an orgasm. How to clench at the right time & what to clench & where.  

It takes a little experimentation... but I was never opposed to that LOL.  

But, women aren't encouraged to experiment, so *most* women are unable to have a penetrative orgasm. Lucky for me I never gave a shit about what anyone thought while I was out slutting it up. I learned a lot about my body & I've had a lot of awesome sex because I took the time to learn how to do it.  

Good sex takes practice. It's not just all about fucking and cumming. It's the mindfuck that really makes it memorable.

Well, I guess this is because I'm not a big guy (just under 6"), but I don't ever recall rubbing up against a lady's cervix. Not a doctor, so I'm not sure exactly where it is, but if I'm correct it's fairly deep with the pussy.  

I would be more than happy to use a dildo to tap a lady's cervix if that's what gets her off. I think it's great that women get off many different ways, not much better of a site than a beautiful woman's face when she is cumming. I mean if that doesn't get a guy excited, I don't know what else would.

Off to mow the damn lawn, I should hire someone to do this shit.

Now cervical tapping isn't my fav, but if you mean has someone ever banged me so hard they hit my cervix, hell yeah! Usually makes me spot or have a light period afterward, and in the moment it can feel uncomfortable but good. Sucks that you men don't explore us women more, there is a lot to find out and a lot of ways you can help us reach these awesome orgasms! When in doubt, make an appt and explore away!

women have to tell ya that. If you honestly think a woman being 'pounded' by your cocks is what gets her off remotely in any fashion, you've got another thing coming lol. Next time you watch a porn, watch the woman's face, any porn, I can guarantee she's NOT enjoying herself if she is getting pounded. I hate to break it to ya, that's not enjoyment, it's pain. Less than 5% of all men know this (that's on the high side too lol). That means 95% of you better read this again and the chart and let it 'soak' in your brain next time you 'attempt' to actually please a woman.  

Oh and about your porn, don't forget one slight lil thing when you're watching getting all charged up yourself.............she's getting PAID to let you think she's enjoying it!!!!!

WRONG.

Now watch girl on girl..........and there ya go. All of your answers are spelled out right there, you just have to look and listen...yes, look AND listen.  

;)

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You state that as fact?

Did you take a poll posing this question to every man you've ever met?

I've been with a few women over the years...some like a hard pounding...others don't.  I don't know what percentages this may translate into...but I'll consider an exit poll after each session going forward.

As for watching porn as you describe...not interested in that stuff.  I have other perversions that work for me.

Lastly...I'll let a gal pal of mine know that she shouldn't use a two-sided dildo in the future whilst fucking a gal hard.  They sure seemed to be having fun though  :D

Posted By: LuvTheBoardBoys
women have to tell ya that. If you honestly think a woman being 'pounded' by your cocks is what gets her off remotely in any fashion, you've got another thing coming lol. Next time you watch a porn, watch the woman's face, any porn, I can guarantee she's NOT enjoying herself if she is getting pounded. I hate to break it to ya, that's not enjoyment, it's pain. Less than 5% of all men know this (that's on the high side too lol). That means 95% of you better read this again and the chart and let it 'soak' in your brain next time you 'attempt' to actually please a woman.  
   
 Oh and about your porn, don't forget one slight lil thing when you're watching getting all charged up yourself.............she's getting PAID to let you think she's enjoying it!!!!!  
   
 WRONG.  
   
 Now watch girl on girl..........and there ya go. All of your answers are spelled out right there, you just have to look and listen...yes, look AND listen.  
   
 ;)

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I have my 'sources' lol.

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I recall her saying that she has had "over twenty" different sexual partners in her life, that alone should make her an expert.

Twenty partners, that's one hell of a weekend, but for a lifetime? not so much. lmao

Thank you very much lol. Being a 'slut' is not part of my personal marketing campaign and wouldn't appear very natural now would it lol...at least for me. And more power to those who go that route. My guess... they must like the 'pounding' schpeil (is that a word lol).  

But now imagine you admittedly fucking close to 4000 women such as yourself. While I'm quite certain you would fall shy of the under 5%tile camp of 'pleasing'..... I'd say DAMN....that's alot of pissed off women by one dude lol. And ya wonder why? Come on PimpMasterGAG...should the men blame you?

In any event I'm quite content in my camp alright lol. I think I'll stay right where I am and proudly. :)

Posted By: GaGambler
I recall her saying that she has had "over twenty" different sexual partners in her life, that alone should make her an expert.

Twenty partners, that's one hell of a weekend, but for a lifetime? not so much. lmao

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While I possibly agree that the porn actresses are, well, actresses and are acting and might very well not be enjoying the pounding, there might be a few that do.

And I am in the camp of "outside only". I would have my vagina sewed up if not for work. Nothing happens in there for ME. Other ladies I have spoken to, non hookers and hookers, do like a good hard fucking. I can't handle that type of action.

Now porn is the worst for guys who want to "learn" how to please a woman. To think that is how to have sex with regular non porn actress women is naive at best.  

I do agree the woman on woman sex is a good way to learn how to please a woman, with the added bonus, the guys have a real dick and not a strap on  (if that is at all involved).  

My view on pounding type sex...it is for the guy mostly. Unless the lady shouts, cock punch my liver!!!

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A woman I knew would shout that, but I always thought she was referring to the meat in the refrigerator. No wonder we're not together anymore.

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Duro! Duro! That's what they tell me!  Am I wrong?

at how many men really don't know how to please a woman sexually. I am shocked, truly am, at how many men think jabbing fingers inside my Gates of Heaven will make me orgasm. Do I like a gentle g-spot massage? Yes. Yes, I do. But do I want my cervix throttled? NO. It hurts. I am an excessively kind and well mannered provider but nothing shuts me down more than a man who has no respect for my body, especially my vagina.  I suppose what really surprises me the most is that these men are married, married for thirty or forty years. How do you still not know what gets a woman off?  

On the other hand, I am also very pleasantly surprised when a man really knows what he's doing. I have a lot of clients to whom I am not the least bit physically attracted but I look forward to their visits every time. "Why? Because they can eat pussy like an Olympic gold medalist. Those little sweet surprises make my life in the business wonderful.

...have sex with their husbands such that the men would be able to learn if they didn't know.  

Then there's the fact that every woman is different in what they do and don't like so he may know for one but that's it.

I understand what you're saying just want to point out there's much more than just knowing what A women likes or A woman's body.

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