You just finally put up a post that makes sense. Actually, there have been a few over the past couple of days. So, no, we're not changing. Perhaps you are? Think about it.
Have you ever had a session that the provider (regardless of great reviews) was just quiet. Like they were great, sexually, but it's almost like they assumed you didn't care to chat and so you're just stuck with a massage and barely any talking in between rounds and despite your attempt to chat, it goes nowhere and they don't really make an attempt to chat with you?
Maybe it's an age thing? I'm on the young side, so maybe it's just a lack of having things in common or they're just not used to seeing men my age. Or is a longer session (more than an hour) better for this or repeating? Maybe they don't bother assuming that since I'm young I likely won't repeat with them anyway?
Any suggestions?
As they are all people, each one is uniquely different.
In my experience, there isn't a whole lot of talking during real massage sessions anyhow, if they are serious massage sessions that is.
If they are bullshit massage providers, then there could certainly be a lot of idle chit chat. "Blah blah blah, my dog, my workout routine, I get my nails done here, my hair done there, blah blah blah"
Then your head is spinning from all the talking, and you wished that you went with the other one who doesn't say anything.
Especially when I'm at the verge of passing out late at night, tad drunk after drinking together with the girl, yet still want a BJ before going to bed. Can a girl talk during BBBJ? lol All I really want to hear are slurping and slobbering during that time. Well maybe just for a good 10-20 minutes.
After that it'll become pretty awkward if nobody's talking.
I haven't run into too many shy providers though. I'd guess that a girl with an excessively shy/quiet personality might not fit too well in this business where they are paid specifically to be a companion which usually involves entertaining their client in one way or another
giving an attitude. Thats not normal. I think if both people just happen to be enjoying the massage in silence thats awsome, i had massage sessions in silence and technically in massage training they will teach you its not really good to talk over a massage session your supposed to be relaxing them and maybe some aubable breathing is suggested at least in Thai-Shiatsu.
The sound of audible breathing then encourages the customer to breath deeper and then gets them into deeper relaxation.
BUT sensual massage and the twist added in the adult arena where it is not really a professional establishment the socialization part can be alot of fun, I speak when spoken too and if they act as though theyd like to know more about me or know about my experiences in this field like sexy stories or maybe just they want to talk about anything at all.
I think where your paying and your the customer if you want to be engaged in conversation the lady is supposed to be intuitive to each guest and pick up on that and follow your lead. If she wasnt being polite and chatting in return then I d say you shouldve asked her why she was treating you that way. I would guess you did something to piss her off thats not normal behavior.
Try some one else and see what happens thats not normal for session. Not with me anyways , I am never quiet or shy and tend to be bubbly and happy go lucky especially when i am about to have 180-300 dollars, HAHAHA. no its cuz I love my customers. hahaha.
Nothing worse then a babbling hooker who won't shut up without a dick being strategically placed in the appropriate orifice.
If you want discussion, try a provider who is close to your age where you may have some common interests or you can initiate the conversation if you are not too shy or intimidated. You are paying, so control the time.
The very first thought that zipped through my head when reading this OP was: do you know how many on this board repeatedly bitch and moan about "babbling hookers who won't shut up without a dick being strategically placed in the appropriate orifice"
Or, close enough to what I thought, anyway.
Of course, me offering the same perspective is like dangling honey in front of an asshole bee....lol...The tone of your response is unnecessarily rude, in typical fashion. But, bitching about no talking is equally as silly as bitching about too much talking. We certainly agree there.
You always have the option of making your individual preference clear
chatterbox myself and my personality is one that wins the gents over usually over my hot bod (yes, I'm totally just kidding) 10x over, but personality always wins over anything in life no matter what someone looks like.
Hell, why do you think big mouth CPA and I get along so well LOL? Too bad he can't get over his damn OTC time (which now you all see why he pumps that up, cause he knows he can't shut up half the time during a session LOL) and he and I can have a 'real' session. But I think we'd need a good overnight for anything to actually happen between the two of us chatterboxes to get down to the 'real' business at hand hahahaha.
Now that is funny indeed and I know you all can picture that one.
Ima waitin for the 'real' invitation by Mr. CPA himself quite honestly....but we all know that ain't gonna happen. 
to the next especially if you are going to lay out your hard luck stories on him.
So I was right then LOL...CPA 'is' a talker LOL. I knew it. God I hate it when I'm always right. Well, so much for that then lol.
I know you're all about punishment, so how should I punish him then? I'm sure you can come up with a few suggestions or should I just keep bothering him, that'll do the trick right?
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I doubt it's an age thing. I'm at the opposite end of that spectrum from you, and age hasn't affected the conversation with young providers.
I'd be surprised if a provider wasn't trying to do whatever possible to get you back.
The sage advice given to me decades ago was to get someone talking about his or her favorite subject, which is him or her.
Did her reviews mention her being quiet?
Usually when two people meet and spend an hour alone together, they assume that conversation is expected and often feel it's necessary. This is true even if they have nothing at stake--nothing to sell, nothing to find out, etc.--or no particular interest in getting to know the other person.
So, everyone tries out a variety of questions to ask, and some lead to great conversation. We remember those as our magic questions. Because of obvious differences in the session situation, there are, IMO, no magic questions. At least not from the client's side.
Maybe it's an age thing? I'm on the young side, so maybe it's just a lack of having things in common or they're just not used to seeing men my age. Or is a longer session (more than an hour) better for this or repeating? Maybe they don't bother assuming that since I'm young I likely won't repeat with them anyway?
Any suggestions?
"OMG where did you get your nails done? They look stellar!"
Fit above question to something she went and got done.. may not be nails. DON'T say eyebrows or lipo lmfao
is when I already know the lady pretty well so the silences are comfortable, not awkward. Otherwise I prefer some chat.
OTOH, I've been in some sessions where the lady is constantly talking about nothing and it's difficult to get her to quit talking and sex me up. Although there is one guaranteed way to stop her talking - it's quieter during oral time.
when long periods of silence seem natural.
On the first date with a provider? Not so much.
I recall only one provider who prattled so much that, despite all else being very good, I eventually came to the decision that it just wasn't worth it to see her anymore.
Most gals I meet like to converse and I enjoy the conversation. The quality of the gal's conversational skills are paramount along with our chemistry.
Recently I saw someone and they were on the taciturn side which threw me just a bit as I kept trying to supply all the conversation (Which I'm certainly not shy about doing.), but I had wished she returned the ball a bit more often. I'm hoping that in subsequent meets she'll warm up a bit.
Not much to suggest I'm afraid as each situation is unique and there is no one size fits all solution. If you really like the gal, then repeat with her and see if she warms up. If not, and it still doesn't feel right, go off and find someone else.
Yea, I think not. But go ahead and keep telling yourself that. You boys are funny...good lord.
Is she screaming at you or with you? Rollercoasters and stubbed toes.