In conversation with a couple of fellow BDSM aficionados, the subject of body worship came up and exactly what it could (and couldn't) mean. Is it foot and leg only? Butt included? And so on and so forth.
So… a suggestion. If a lady offers body worship that includes, shall we say, more intimate areas, then include "Full Body Worship" in your ad or website.
If not, then something along the lines of "Body Worship (not full)" or "Body Worship (feet and legs only).
Bet it'll save you more than a few phone calls from gents inquiring about the above
I prefer a gentlemen who not only refers to my website, but can do his homework & read the reviews as well. Bottom line is YMMV! I would hate to post full body worship & decline a gent due to poor hygiene, than have to explain the fact YMMV. TER should have a Body Worship section on the TER profile.
If you post full body worship everyone will assume the can eat your pussy & asshole, but that is not true because YMMV. Everyone is different, so everyone does not always get the same treatment.
Um, no. Each lady posts what she wants on her site. You have no idea what her motivation, thought process or reasons are. Ultimately, she decides what she will/won't allow. Do your research on her & make your decision on whether or not to see her accordingly. Personally, I find it exceedingly annoying & presumptuous for guys to offer unsolicited advice in regards to marketing. And, I'll be damned if I would change anything on my site based on "suggestions" from random, unknown BDSM aficionados, and I'm sure there are other Dommes who would agree.
'twas merely a very minor suggestion to prevent unwanted phone calls. Take or leave it - it matters not to me.
Of course, you could have replied "I hear you, but here's why I don't do this." With a short explanation. It would've positioned you (basic marketing based on Ries & Trouts' classic "Positioning: The Battle for Your Mind" - highly recommended as are most of their works) as charming and graceful.
But, instead you chose to reply with a mini-rant. I understand. I truly do. We all get annoyed and irritated occasionally at things… but, in this case, you might have given me the benefit of the doubt.
As far as as "suggestions from random, unknown BDSM aficionados," I realize you don't know a thing about me. But do know that marketing, advertising and sales is how I make my living. And Apple, HP, Oracle, Wells Fargo and a host of other companies, start-ups, and ad agencies here in the Bay area, pay me exceedingly well for my marketing advice and consultation.
Be well. Be happy. Have a nice life.
CR