did you read your own link?
or maybe the insinuation was that the OP had his hooker on a leash?I'll preface this question with two statements. I'm very new to the hobby. And, I would never consider doing what this provider requested. I'm just curious about the risks.
Here's my question. After a great session, a provider I've met twice and had drinks with a couple of times, asked if it would be okay to sleep in my hotel room that night after I left. This would have required giving her the hotel key card. This was a mid range hotel with no stocked mini bar or anything.
The request kind of caught me off guard and I stammered what I hope was a tactful refusal. But, I am curious to know the risks associated with allowing something like this.
If she was malicious, could she find out my personal info or charge a bunch of crap to my room? Have you ever been burned by doing something like this
You should also work on your creative writing skills.
Your spelling skills need a bit of work...payed??? WTF is that? Perhaps you meant PAID.
did you read your own link?
or maybe the insinuation was that the OP had his hooker on a leash?
"Payed?" And you critique his writing skills? Moron.
What an awkward and unprofessional thing for her to lay on you. She might of just been one of those dopey art school types but you never know. Look, I have done this but it was at MY offering for girls that I know EXTREMELY well.
What if shit goes down when you are gone? What if she brings her other johns there? What if she trashes the room? What if.....
You didn't just say you were just new to the hobby but VERY new so you get a gold star here. You thought with the big head.
To curry favor with her, you could have easily said yes but you kept your composure and did the right thing here.
That's good work by you.
As long as everything is transferred over to her name I see no problem with it. But if she wants the room kept under your name then Hell No!
I have to say this is the best solution. You should only agree if she allows you to transfer the room to her name. Since you already paid for it, there should be no reason why she would not agree.
... if the lady isn't wanted fugitive, has credit, or some other form of payment. Why can't she book her own room?
Just say no.
And the room is in your name then you could be in trouble for helping her and promoting a place of Prostitution.
and will most likely be accompanied by a pimping charge.
Why people want to help people they don't know, who are most likely users(people users) is beyond me
I was well aware of the risk and was willing to take it. I have actually done it a few times.
Yes of course there is risk. Doesn't even matter that she's a provider. Booking a room in your name and letting someone else stay in the room is a risk to you, for the reasons you mentioned as well as other reasons.
That's not to say she intended to do you harm, or use the room for incalls, or trash your room or throw a big party with all her friends. It could have been a totally innocent request and she just wanted a place to sleep that night. But you made the right decision.
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That could create a BIG problem with security b/c they are not going to let her in w/o ID, they start asking questions, poking around, calling my cell in the middle of the night, etc.
Even people you trust can fk you over unintentionally.
I don't care how well I know someone.
I'm leery of a hooker that has nowhere else to be, except with me. Even when I wish they would never leave.
I had a provider offer to let me stay overnight in the hotel room she'd booked for our afternoon. I thanked her but said no.
Whether it's you in her room or her in yours, it just seems like an invitation to disaster.
You may get a knock on your real door. You could be accused of being her pimp. Don't do it. It's not worth it.
But I'd never ask. Seems a bit tacky.
Amen. Like what was her plan beforehand? She ain't got no home (local) or she ain't got nor room (traveling)??? Inappropriate to ask someone for that much trust. He came to get off not leave an open tab.
I think it about trust, but I would never feel comfortable seeing a client after he leaves.
I feel more comfortable inviting a guest over from a room I funded.
I just don't want to assume the liability.
Tobi, since you're one class act, I would offer if the circumstances presented themselves, because you're too fine a lady to cause trouble for a gentleman.
Unless there's glitterbombing involved.
Glitter, the Herpes of the crafting world.
I appreciate all the replies. I think (never know for sure) she just needed a place to sleep but I think it would have been a disaster no matter what.
Next time I will be prepared for a request like that. Sure is difficult to say no after a pretty amazing session. Glad I did though.
Why didn't you write a review, instead of asking what could have possibly gone wrong?
Next time I will be prepared for a request like that. Sure is difficult to say no after a pretty amazing session. Glad I did though.
I have done it few times and nothing horrible happened. It all depends on the company you keep. If you approach life with the belief everyone is fuck you, they surely will
a simple no will guarantee that individual wont be presented with the opportunity to fuck you.
What do you do on a first date?
I let a stripper stay in my room once when I left in the morning. She was there for the next two weeks. She was a great pice of ass and the cost of the room service was well worth it. Also got a few referrals to service a few other "dancers" from Ricks
Cabaret. It was the time of my life I was young and hung, now I am old and have to pay for it. My advice to the young men,
If you like banging hot young pussy Save some money for your old age.Sorry I got so far off topic.