Why do you mention me in posts, and mention my name so often?
I'm not the only male poster you do this to.Is that we generally don't judge about preference in regards to sexual acts. (ok I judge but mostly in my head).
Recently I got a request from a guy who wanted to perform (is it a performance? I dunno), an enema on me. Mind you I don't even provide anal. This definitely threw me. I said no then he asked why. Well…
Not sure how to answer without sounding like a judgmental cunt. My prob is not with enemas, since providers that do anal often use enemas to ensure cleanliness but why someone would want to pay to administer one is beyond my sexual comprehension.
My question is this: Is there a limit? If so what is yours? I had the fortune of this gentleman asking me beforehand but...If as a hobbyist you meet a lady and she says will you "enter whatever makes you uncomfortable here" what is the nicest way to say no thanks? Is there a way to exit the situation with the session still in tact so to speak?
BTW the worst in session not discussed beforehand things I've experienced is requests for prostate play and or giving/receiving a rimming. While I've successfully salvaged those sessions, I don't repeat because if I know xyz is what a person really desires and I only do x I see no point, and try to point them towards a provider that will satisfy them completely.
How to say no thanks without conveying yuck?
... a simple NO will work for me.
When I make a request, I always expect the no, as a possible answer.
I agree, asking after screening/before meeting helps. Don't spring ish on me during the session though esp if it's THE thing that gets you off. Thanks for answering JCA.
When I make a request, I always expect the no, as a possible answer.
Remember, asking existed before expecting to know...
It's only fair
Do you think there is something wrong with a rape fantasy?
... if it's only fantasy(and the lady consents), is it actual rape?
BTW I'm as cool as a cucumber.
I find rape fantasies disturbing.
Because it's role-play, however, it is not rape, Captain Obvious.
BTW, there is nothing remotely cool about you.
Nice hat
Thanks Cap-n-not so obvious, to you.
I think you got fried instead, if you think you're not obvious
Funny how that thread shut down, not too long after your last posting to it.
I'm no conspiracy theorist, butt.
Serenity now.
Perhaps you got so butt-hurt you went sobbing to Mommy? Happy now
Or maybe bandwidth limitations?
I guess in the end that h+t and Tobi did indeed kick the shit out of jonycomeslately.
And I didn't have to pay for the drinks 
How did "three" people beat the shit out of one person?
Weird perspective.
I guess in the end that h+t and Tobi did indeed kick the shit out of jonycomeslately.
And I didn't have to pay for the drinks
Hey! Who knew so much shit would flow out from Sophia's enema thread.
Who pulled the thread. I didn't even know it was closed till I saw the on the S&P board.
You really believe everything you read here, don't you? Bwahhahaha!
I see you like cheese too.
And you are just about as cheesy as they come!
And, sure, if you say you didn't pull the thread I believe you! LMAO!
I think they read this board?
And, sure, if you say you didn't pull the thread I believe you! LMAO!
What ever you say captain.
I got cum all over your smiling face. 
Most of which have much more intellect than JohnyCumsQuickly. He merely aspires to be one
If someone asks for something you don't want to do, say, "I don't want to do that." Yuck ain't a bad punctuation. There aren't too many men who get off on you doing something you aren't going to "enjoy*" doing.
If a provider suggested something I didn't "want**" to do, I'd say, "I don't want to do that." Might punctuate the response with, "Yuck."
* granted that what the provider "enjoys" might be enjoyed in a different way than how the client enjoys it.
** there's a difference between not wanting to do something and trying something new that was unforeseen.
Recently I got a request from a guy who wanted to perform (is it a performance? I dunno), an enema on me. Mind you I don't even provide anal. This definitely threw me. I said no then he asked why. Well…
Not sure how to answer without sounding like a judgmental cunt. My prob is not with enemas, since providers that do anal often use enemas to ensure cleanliness but why someone would want to pay to administer one is beyond my sexual comprehension.
My question is this: Is there a limit? If so what is yours? I had the fortune of this gentleman asking me beforehand but...If as a hobbyist you meet a lady and she says will you "enter whatever makes you uncomfortable here" what is the nicest way to say no thanks? Is there a way to exit the situation with the session still in tact so to speak?
BTW the worst in session not discussed beforehand things I've experienced is requests for prostate play and or giving/receiving a rimming. While I've successfully salvaged those sessions, I don't repeat because if I know xyz is what a person really desires and I only do x I see no point, and try to point them towards a provider that will satisfy them completely.
How to say no thanks without conveying yuck?
I am so totally an ass man. I just am not much into ass penetration, her or me. My college GF, totally got off on greek. When I say totally got off, I mean she came from what seemed like her toes up. But as she was familiar with the Greek process she would always prepare for Greek sessions (enema and the swabs). I have done a DP with a fellow hobbyist and a provider, but just because it was on my bucket list, I'm glad I did it, but it wasn't my best hobby experience.
I have had a few providers begin to do a prostrate message, to which I've just told them it's not my thing. Those providers took it well, no problem. I assume that a lot of guys like it, and that's cool for them, to each their own.
I have done what I understand is called Italian, just like Russian but between the butt cheeks as opposed to the tits. That is fun, again I am definitely an ass man.
I enjoy trimming a woman, but don't like to be rimmed. I cannot reach or see my own asshole region to groom it, so it's a jungle and I don't expect a provider to navigate that jungle and besides I'd be slightly self conscious about the cleanliness of the region.
Again, to each their own, my preferences are my own, others like different things and I celebrate our differences. It would be awful boring if we all liked the same thing.
no where did she ask what russsbbj likes and dislikes.
You have a mirror next to your screen don't you?
Because you're not saying enema play is disgusting or wrong, just that you don't do it. Everyone has an absolute right to avoid things they don't like.
All you need to say is, "Sorry, I don't enjoy that and it's not on my menu." No further explanation is needed.
"Sorry, I don't enjoy that and it's not on my menu." No further explanation is needed.
And all we hookers need is guys that will respect that and not push.
I don't see the appeal either.
no need to over complicate things.
if this guy asks you why you don't do that sort of thing... you can simply say...
"Sorry, this request is not part of the menu that I offer, thank you."
If the guy still persists... block him from your emails and/or PMs.
No need to go any further with this guy.
It's your business and how you run it.
The Forest Waits
Recently I got a request from a guy who wanted to perform (is it a performance? I dunno), an enema on me. Mind you I don't even provide anal. This definitely threw me. I said no then he asked why. Well…
Not sure how to answer without sounding like a judgmental cunt. My prob is not with enemas, since providers that do anal often use enemas to ensure cleanliness but why someone would want to pay to administer one is beyond my sexual comprehension.
My question is this: Is there a limit? If so what is yours? I had the fortune of this gentleman asking me beforehand but...If as a hobbyist you meet a lady and she says will you "enter whatever makes you uncomfortable here" what is the nicest way to say no thanks? Is there a way to exit the situation with the session still in tact so to speak?
BTW the worst in session not discussed beforehand things I've experienced is requests for prostate play and or giving/receiving a rimming. While I've successfully salvaged those sessions, I don't repeat because if I know xyz is what a person really desires and I only do x I see no point, and try to point them towards a provider that will satisfy them completely.
How to say no thanks without conveying yuck?
about him in general.
It shows a certain lack of respect, and maybe a dangerous tendency like he knows what's good for you, etc.
In fact, an enema done improperly can be physically dangerous, but if a gal (or guy) is just not into some fetish, no matter what it is, that is all that the asker needs to know, and if he (or she) doesn't move on after that, it could be dicey.
...just because you had to say no to a specific request. If the guy was otherwise into you enough to ask for a repeat it means the requested service did not mean all that much to him
And he's the cunt for asking "why."
If no, could you explain why please?
Oh, never mind. I doubt that TER has enough band width for a proper answer. lol
As for the OP, I agree that he's the cunt for pushing the issue.
Why do you mention me in posts, and mention my name so often?
I'm not the only male poster you do this to.
You are perhaps the most straight-forward "real" lady I've met.
Having a woman fully engaged and willing to clearly express her likes and dislikes is itself a big turn on to me (as long as there aren't toooo many "nos" lol). When I've spent time with you, I've left thinking, "damn, now THAT'S what glorious confident smoldering womenhood is all about!"
Sahweeet vagina!!! what a compliment… Thank you, I am forward and should be comfortable about that. I just feel like that MJ song…wanna be startin somethin…gotta be startin somethin… The why is an invitation for me to express my bitchy side…BUT I shall not take the bait. I have to remember that sexy men like you are watching/reading/breathing. purrr baby…purrrrr.
Having a woman fully engaged and willing to clearly express her likes and dislikes is itself a big turn on to me (as long as there aren't toooo many "nos" lol). When I've spent time with you, I've left thinking, "damn, now THAT'S what glorious confident smoldering womenhood is all about!"