What services are offered, for how much, how close to home and is the gal well reviewed. Oh, and does her picture tickle my fancy.  Fini.

But for looks, her pictures must push my buttons.  If I like them, I check her reviews, her menu and her price. Then I may back-channel.  If all that works for me, I book.
Then sometimes I'll get a recommendation from a friend who's very active.  If that's the case, I'll check her pix, but a rave from him as better than dozens of reviews.

If there is no physical attraction, there is no point in looking at anything else.  If I am attracted to her, then I look for rates.  I do have sort of a budget for how much I will spend on a provider.  Currently, I can only do incalls with providers, so if she only does outcall, I move on.  I also have deal-breakers, like many other guys, so I look at her profile, assuming she has one.  If she has no reviews somewhere, no go.

Hope that helps.

 
Swim

Looks... That's the first thing. I go straight to a girls gallery and know within a few seconds.

And then good appearance and performance scores, primarily cuz the type I like happen to have high scores. Some say it doesn't mean much but I have found that it's a decent indicator to verify that her photos are legit. Not fool proof but decent.  If it's 50 reviews of nothing but 10s that tends to set off a bs alarm though.  

Then I check menu.  lfk dfk cim bbbj etc means she's gonna be fun and gfe. I rarely book cbj providers but if she's hot and charges less than 3 then I prollly will see her too.  

If a girl is within reasonable rate then I start verification.

I am a bit embarrassed to admit this but.....

The first thing I look for is evidence of a sense of humor, intelligence, and maturity. I had a health issue that damaged some of the nerves down there and sometimes I can't preform. If her personality if fun and up beat I still will enjoy my time. If all there is is her looks and sex and I am out of commission that day. Well it is awkward and not fun. First thing I try to determine is personality.

Location, location, location...

she has to first be where I am going to be! lol

Seriously, I use a simple TER search to identify gals who offer what I like - as Swim said, I screen out "deal-breakers". I do not screen for appearance factors at all, although I do search for overall performance >5.  

I then look at each profile to get a sense of her general appearance, rates and performance scores/consistency of performance.  

Last, I check out verification site profiles (P411 and DC) and websites to get a sense of who she is, what she looks like (pics) and what her actual rates are.  

I'll often make a final decision based upon how much of her personality I think I can see expressed in her website and posts.  

There are a few gals I've seen solely because of their board presence and a rapport we've established via PM and email conversations. With a few exceptions, these have been my very best experiences.

I usually prefer a women with long dark raven hair, smooth soft skin and a nice booty is a plus.

General that's what usually gets my attention. In most cases I'll search for reviews before making the decision to call.  I'm looking for the total package looks and performance.    

But I must say that looks alone are not enough for me to make a repeat call.  

 


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If I am shopping on TER itself, which is probably 1/3rd of the time, I am looking at metrics....

both appearance and performance scores with an emphasis on performance.....

that does not tell the whole story of course -   if someone catches my eye, I read a number of reviews, trying to get a sense of whether I feel that there is the opportunity for good chemistry as well as a consistently high level of performance...

as far as services,  kisses with tongue,  lick pussy / yes,  BBBJ / CIM and good old fashioned fucking.  I don't care about most of the rest of the categories...  though body to body / privates to privates massage is a bonus...

as far as appearance I have preferences but they are not "in style" today -  natural smaller (A and B cup) breasts,  groomed but not shaved pussy,  free of piercings and ink.   So of course these days I rarely get my preferences on this account (though I sure did today!)   And I am drawn more to "thin".......

But I use TER less to "shop" than to investigate possibilities that I have encountered elsewhere....

I go exclusively for appearance ratings.  If I'm shelling out $400+ per hour then she had better be hot.  I got burned (who hasn't) by a lady who had decent ratings but turned out to be not so great looks wise, so now I go for only very highly rated providers.  I'll pay a great deal for that.  I don't bother with the rest as I feel I can do that cheaper via civvie dating.  

So after finding 9+ ladies, I'll look at the things I like to be done to me.  If they are there and the reviews seem legit, it's a go for me.

Just kidding! But I made you click!

I look for looks first. She has to be attractive to me. If not, I really have no need to look further. I have a certain type I like, and I know that attractive to me may not be attractive to someone else and vice versa. Somebody's 10 might be my 6 and my 10 is probably someone elses 6. So number ratings for looks are not that important. Good accurate pictures are. Many ladies don't show their face so I have to be attracted to the body and what I can see in the pictures and hopefully some reviews say her face is pretty. I also prefer good amateur photos over professional photos.

Rate is next. If I find her attractive but she is out of my price range I have no need to look further.  

Menu items. I am not looking for PSE sex. I am looking for GFE. I like certain things on the menu like DFK, DATY, and BBBJ, but I will sacrifice menu items for lower rates.  

Personality is important. But you can't always gauge that before a session. Sometimes it comes out in reviews or board posts, or writing in their ads and websites (and yes I do read websites), so if I can gauge the personality before hand that helps, but it's not always possible. However during the date, I find out more about the personality.

So looks, cost, and menu will make me book her. Personality and performance will make me book her again.

(for the record, no bbfs)


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I'm looking for a combination of factors. Looks are important, but my personal quirk is to look for someone who is capable of taking control with her sexuality, of seducing me beyond simply being "hot". That's usually in the body language or the eyes - do they look at me or "into" me? Is she confident in her actions or simply relying on her looks?  

Like I said, my personal quirk.

I look for confidence and cuteness in girls . I also think girls who work out and have nice boobs are very attractive .

If her Ad seems honest and clear. Her pics are accurate and it's actually her you're going to meet. Her Reviews are pretty good. A few bad ones won't bother me.  

 
Now since someone already mentioned BBFS;

 
After I see her on a regular basis, at least once a week for a few months, then I ask her if she'll do BBFS. My last girl wouldn't do it. Which I was fine with. But the consolation prize was that she swallowed. It was a great set up for over a year until she moved out of state.  

 
My current girl gives me BBFSCIP. At first she was scared. But then said it was fine with her. So now a year later it's still Great.

So far she's good and so am I. I have a session with her this week.

I havent experienced a true GFE though. Providers toss around GFE in their ads but they won't make me a sammich afterwards. I'm confused as shit.