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That may hold true for some people in America.
However I have seen many people together and it is clearly more than a 5-7 year age difference.
I have always been attracted to older men so an age difference of more than 5-7 yrs is no big deal for me.
Just sharing my own personal opinion.
I don't think it is just a Hollywood thing of the age difference I see it all of the time

ILoveToFuck2249 reads

Here is a question for the gents and especially the ladies.  In the U.S. a woman would not typically date or marry a man that is more than 5 - 7 years older than her. In other countries like those in South America, Eastern Europe and the Far East, it is not unusual to see a man dating or marrying a woman 20 years her senior.  Sometimes you would even see as much as 30 years difference. In the U.S., you only see that in Hollywood but not your typical American scenario. So..should a big age difference prohibit older men and younger women coming together???

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Those countries you name whom have the large gap in the age ... The girls usually do not have a chose or are treated  like a THING .... Watch the documentary It's a Girl currently on netflix  

But I think females are more mature then the male species so dating someone older doesn't bother me...  But I believe it's chemistry!!! Age really doesn't exsist to those who have chemistry... It's the outsiders whom usually has judgements...

You are basing it on Netflix.

Yep, everything on the Internet, TV and in movies are nothing but the truth.  

Venture out of the country a bit, I mean not Hawaii, Jamaica and Mexico.  

Truth be told, US is one of the countries with least legal protection in the world. Hobby Lobby has more rights than women.

I've traveled to 21 different countries & that's before I turned 25yrs old....  So please take your little post &!put where the sun don't shine!!!!  

He's question was how come other countries have a huge age gap between women & men... This docu give some of those answers, so why don't you not put you're 2 cent in on how everyone is non travelled... TY!!!  You

GaGambler644 reads

He is also most likely the most unpleasant poster on all of TER as well.

US has least legal protection? Rofl yet we have the most lawyers in the world

That may hold true for some people in America.
However I have seen many people together and it is clearly more than a 5-7 year age difference.
I have always been attracted to older men so an age difference of more than 5-7 yrs is no big deal for me.
Just sharing my own personal opinion.
I don't think it is just a Hollywood thing of the age difference I see it all of the time

And if it's not you, how is it that the question is so eeriy similar?

ILoveToFuck941 reads

nope..

Posted By: perfectstorm
And if it's not you, how is it that the question is so eeriy similar?

Remember, your post existed before you even asked the question in this thread. :D  

I'm 100% certain it's pee, err, the same poster.  

Just don't forget to pick her up, if she's younger than you by more than 5 to 7 years. ROFL



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Serious chemistry. At 26 I had an enormous crush on a 43 year old. At 32 I dated a 49 year old. At 20 I had a fling with a 46 year old, all by choice.

I am naturally attracted to men over a certain age. I could care less about statistics. If someone makes me feel amazing, better bet I care less about what everyone else is doing or thinking.

I actually have a hilarious photo bomb picture of me with an older dude (I was very tipsy taking the picture lol) and some young blonde chick giving us the best evil judging expression ever. Now me on the other hand, totally oblivious to her.

A mature man's touch is equivalent to the best blow job ever, lol

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it's harder to stay in shape and need to put in effort just to lose all the booz calories that i would have burnt off over night back in my 20s. i guess i can quit drinking but how fun would life be without it? lol  

when i'm 60+, i would likely consider it a life time achievement in the game department if i date a girl in her early 20s and not as a sugar daddy.

GaGambler814 reads

and of all the "real" relationships i have been in over the last decade or so, the oldest has been in her mid thirties, and most have been mid twenties, so yes it can be done.

but if you think it's hard to stay in shape at forty, just wait until forty is a distant memory. At forty I could still take six months off from the gym and be back in shape in a couple of weeks, now it takes me six months to get in shape, and if I go more than a couple of weeks without hitting the gym it's like starting all over again. Oh, to be forty again. lol

But then we look like Yoda when we get really really  old.  

Really old white people (90+) actually look decent compared to really old Asians. Assuming both are still alive  Lol

It's in scientifically proven....  But mmmmmmmmm I love rice & kimchi!!!  

Yes totally agree on the yoda look .....   Here's an example but it from aging ASIAN women's perspective

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Pictures are worth a thousand words.  Lmao!!!  :D

I focus on my job solely, which consists of mature men. Win/Win, :D

Dear Ms. Ova:
I am just wondering what would you say would be the ideal man that can interact romantically without judgement with a woman who is in the Adult Companionship discipline? Also what would be an ideal psychological profile of this person and why do you think this person is hard to find?

Just ribbing you. I'd make the broad generalization that guys lag ~10 years behind women in maturity.

It's true, and I think people who give up what makes them happy in this life so others think highly of them are stupid.

Lately I've actually told people what I do for a living. Fuck it. I've tried living for show in who I dated, what I did for a living, the clothes I wore, the things I had, and even the songs I wrote. What a miserable way to live - the way other miserable people pleasers tell you to.

Nah, I'll date the guy I want to, or not date at all. (I have gotten a lot of shit for that too.)

People forget what life is about and live to show off instead of live to --- live.

GaGambler630 reads

Living your life as a lie just must suck balls.

I too refuse to live my life that way, if someone doesn't like my choices in life they can GFY IMO.

GaGambler733 reads

In my case it more like about 40 years behind. Maturity is over rated IMO. lol

You did see the "winky" in my first reply to your post?

The fact that you and I both called him out the OP on the post just means great minds think alike! Yes I have to believe it's the same poster. It's not just a similar post. It's almost the same post. Verbatum as you said. I posted the link to last week's post, so everyone could see. Of course most of the other respondents just fed the troll. Pretty pathetic troll too, recycling topics after only a week! :D

By the way, don't skim. It gets you in trouble. Tayor used to do that all the time. ;)

Note to self...quit skimming!!!!

Research shows that the best chance for a long term relationship is when the man is four years older than the woman. In particular when they meet in their 20s. Women mature faster than men. As you get older that difference doesn't mean as much.

In my case the blonde and I have been married for 29 years. Four and a half years difference. People find it funny but we don't live together. We are about a half mile apart in the "Viagra Triangle" area of Chicago. We spend three or four nights a week together. We both like our space.  

There are plenty of May December couples in the US. Not as obvious as some countries. South America in particular.

Since this site isn't E-harmony, at Desire this year, we hooked with two couples that had a 40 or so year difference in age. A couple in their early 30s sought us out. We are in shape but never hit on people that young. We figured they had some kind of authority issues. They rocked our world. She keeps texting naked pictures of herself.  

The other couple is 74. The woman should write a book on how to look great at any age. A natural beauty, large University Homecoming Queen. Lots of yoga, likes being naked outdoors but never let's the sun hit her face. I will admit it caught me a little by surprise, during cowgirl, when I noticed the scars from where she had her hips replaced. My first cyborg. :)

Age is a number, how you deal with it is up to you

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It was a 3 year difference. ;)

from the time I was twenty until now - works well both ways it seems....   but of  course each has their preferences....

After I turned 30, I was amazed that age really didn't matter to me very much. I like physically attractive women, and age at some point robs a woman of beauty as conventionally defined, but age itself really hasn't mattered to me.

I remember feeling that this was very unusual, and for the place and time I still think it was unusual. That was all before any P4P, and now it's just a matter of finding women who are mature enough to have some common history with. So...maybe instead of mid 20s, now I gravitate to early to mid 30s. Or that look and attitude, regardless of actual chronological age.

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