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Re: I headed for the hills!
ILoveToFuck 880 reads
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How about if he was rich?

Posted By: XoticSynnBBW
I would never marry a client. I wouldn't be able to tell any of my friends and family where and how I met him. Almost married a client last year...but he was only interested in my body and not the person that I am on the inside. He was very fixated on taking trips to Greece...despite me telling him that it wasn't my thing. He was an asshat with a capital A. He brought in another woman into our relationship...and expected me to have sex with her. I had told this man repeatedly that I am not interested in bumping donuts with a female...ever. He also wanted me to stay pregnant for 3 years! WTF? It was hard enough getting pregnant with my now 13 year old son! He's been hitting me up on Facebook ever since we broke up, trying to get me to sleep with him. I told him to get lost! The next guy I marry will not be involved in the hobby...

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I would like to ask a question to all the providers here.  If you happen to meet a client who has all the attributes you have ever wanted in a man, would you marry him if he asks? ... Or is your policy is "never" marry a john?

If a client ever asks me to marry him, I'll be making a beeline to the nearest door. No me gusta.  

Posted By: ILoveToFuck
I would like to ask a question to all the providers here.  If you happen to meet a client who has all the attributes you have ever wanted in a man, would you marry him if he asks? ... Or is your policy is "never" marry a john?

Adjax777 reads

is so once upon a time.

Me and Tobi obviously but it's over now.  She is awesome girl but I was not ready to take it to the next level plus long distance and the fact that we never spoke or saw each other made it a bit complicated to maintain despite my wild imagination.

On a more serious note, I find it interesting that so far majority of the providers in this thread would not consider marring a client. Lots of judging on both sides of this lifestyle, who knew?

-- Modified on 6/29/2014 5:53:47 AM

I am not marrying a liar and a cheat out of the gate nor would I marry fat and unattractive. Would you marry that combination in a woman?

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Posted By: hbyist+truth=;(
I am not marrying a liar and a cheat out of the gate nor would I marry fat and unattractive. Would you marry that combination in a woman?
OP said "client who has all the attributes you have ever wanted" and you've got {married} liar and a cheat who is fat and unattractive out of it? Maybe I am missing something here, but it does look like "client" part triggers those associations

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But this client is not any client, but a client with everything you're looking for plus plenty of wealth. Would you then reconsider?

Posted By: Tobi Telford
If a client ever asks me to marry him, I'll be making a beeline to the nearest door. No me gusta.  
   
Posted By: ILoveToFuck
I would like to ask a question to all the providers here.  If you happen to meet a client who has all the attributes you have ever wanted in a man, would you marry him if he asks? ... Or is your policy is "never" marry a john?

You know, their first love. it turns them on when it cheats.  

 
Would you marry, John Benjamin?

I would never marry a client. I wouldn't be able to tell any of my friends and family where and how I met him. Almost married a client last year...but he was only interested in my body and not the person that I am on the inside. He was very fixated on taking trips to Greece...despite me telling him that it wasn't my thing. He was an asshat with a capital A. He brought in another woman into our relationship...and expected me to have sex with her. I had told this man repeatedly that I am not interested in bumping donuts with a female...ever. He also wanted me to stay pregnant for 3 years! WTF? It was hard enough getting pregnant with my now 13 year old son! He's been hitting me up on Facebook ever since we broke up, trying to get me to sleep with him. I told him to get lost! The next guy I marry will not be involved in the hobby...

ILoveToFuck881 reads

How about if he was rich?

Posted By: XoticSynnBBW
I would never marry a client. I wouldn't be able to tell any of my friends and family where and how I met him. Almost married a client last year...but he was only interested in my body and not the person that I am on the inside. He was very fixated on taking trips to Greece...despite me telling him that it wasn't my thing. He was an asshat with a capital A. He brought in another woman into our relationship...and expected me to have sex with her. I had told this man repeatedly that I am not interested in bumping donuts with a female...ever. He also wanted me to stay pregnant for 3 years! WTF? It was hard enough getting pregnant with my now 13 year old son! He's been hitting me up on Facebook ever since we broke up, trying to get me to sleep with him. I told him to get lost! The next guy I marry will not be involved in the hobby...

Money isn't everything. If I'm not love with a man, money won't matter. You can't buy true love. A guy tried to do that 5 months after I started providing and got real stalkerish after realizing I wasn't going to quit providing and marry him. I was young and newly single and didn't want to be tied down to any man. I have a boyfriend now, so no amount of money a client offers is going to make me leave my man.

-- Modified on 6/29/2014 2:21:58 AM

He can rent me by the hour. That way I don't have to sleep with him, deal with him 24/7/365. Or at the very most a sugar daddy situation where I get my space and not have to live with him. I like my alone time and do not want some dude poking and prodding me when I trying to sleep or bothering me when I want to be left alone.

I don't give sex a way for free now after getting paid.  

Not marrying anyone, period. And if said john  is married and hobbying why the fuck would I marry a known cheater

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How about if he promises not to cheat?  And a lie detector proves he is telling the truth that he won't cheat?  Plus how about if he was a rich doctor or lawyer?
 

Posted By: hbyist+truth=;(
I don't give sex a way for free now after getting paid.  
   
 Not marrying anyone, period. And if said john  is married and hobbying why the fuck would I marry a known cheater?  
   
 

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which means they're even less admissible in a marriage.

How about if he was a rich L.A. Clippers owner? ;)

I wouldn't want to date and be a provider at the same time though. So, he'd need to be a sugar daddy up till the wedding. lol

Posted By: ILoveToFuck
I would like to ask a question to all the providers here.  If you happen to meet a client who has all the attributes you have ever wanted in a man, would you marry him if he asks? ... Or is your policy is "never" marry a john?
My clients are human beings and I see them as such.

It doesn't matter how you met, just that you met.

ILoveToFuck1187 reads

But the question is, would you marry him?

Posted By: SuperBustyBlonde
 
   
Posted By: ILoveToFuck
I would like to ask a question to all the providers here.  If you happen to meet a client who has all the attributes you have ever wanted in a man, would you marry him if he asks? ... Or is your policy is "never" marry a john?
   
 My clients are human beings and I see them as such.  
   
 It doesn't matter how you met, just that you met.



-- Modified on 6/29/2014 5:29:21 AM

to some like the OP, why?

They are human’s with normally functioning brain.

StarBellySneetch780 reads

will tell you they would not date or marry a client, but the reality is, if it's the right guy, that rule will go out the window.  I know a number of ladies who have married guys they met doing this, and many more who have and / or are dating guys they have met doing this.  

Most ladies would not date most of the guys they see for numerous reasons, but if the right guy came along, and they started feeling the L word, all bets are off.  Love is a powerful emotion, and it makes people do crazy things, and most ladies, if they meet the guy who does that for them, will start changing their rules.

Are their rules, not something engraved on their foreheads by a higher power.  The lady made those rules, she can break whichever ones she wants whenever she wants.

Not sayin' that you should ever pressure or even ask a lady to break her rules, just sayin' that she made them, she can break them.

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Absolutely.  I break my own rules regularly.  Rules are generally more like guidelines anyway...

Posted By: 2labman
Are their rules, not something engraved on their foreheads by a higher power.  The lady made those rules, she can break whichever ones she wants whenever she wants.  
   
 Not sayin' that you should ever pressure or even ask a lady to break her rules, just sayin' that she made them, she can break them.

OMG really? I'm just laughing my ass off at this question!!! You come into hobbying to find TRUE LOVE & MARRIAGE? If u do then it's a DELUSIONAL VISION.  Can you really respect, trust or feel comfort w/someone you use to "Pay For Pleasure" or vise versa?  I can see friendship, yes because I have some with my ATFs. But marriage absolutely a NO!!! Just my opinion...... But what do I know I'm not even married nor do I want to anytime soon.... I love being single & fabulous!! πŸ˜›πŸ˜›πŸ˜›πŸ˜›πŸ˜›

Happy Sunday everyone!!!  
I'm gonna roll around on the Beach getting some sun & enjoy my view of the Pacific Ocean!!!  
Xoxo
GC

ILoveToFuck993 reads

You sound like the ideal woman I want to marry.

Posted By: Gemma Coreana
OMG really? I'm just laughing my ass off at this question!!! You come into hobbying to find TRUE LOVE & MARRIAGE? If u do then it's a DELUSIONAL VISION.  Can you really respect, trust or feel comfort w/someone you use to "Pay For Pleasure" or vise versa?  I can see friendship, yes because I have some with my ATFs. But marriage absolutely a NO!!! Just my opinion...... But what do I know I'm not even married nor do I want to anytime soon.... I love being single & fabulous!! πŸ˜›πŸ˜›πŸ˜›πŸ˜›πŸ˜›  
   
 Happy Sunday everyone!!!  
 I'm gonna roll around on the Beach getting some sun & enjoy my view of the Pacific Ocean!!!  
 Xoxo  
 GC

Yup, I'm not giving up sleeping in the middle of the bed anytime soon. :)

Posted By: Gemma Coreana
OMG really? I'm just laughing my ass off at this question!!! You come into hobbying to find TRUE LOVE & MARRIAGE? If u do then it's a DELUSIONAL VISION.  Can you really respect, trust or feel comfort w/someone you use to "Pay For Pleasure" or vise versa?  I can see friendship, yes because I have some with my ATFs. But marriage absolutely a NO!!! Just my opinion...... But what do I know I'm not even married nor do I want to anytime soon.... I love being single & fabulous!! πŸ˜›πŸ˜›πŸ˜›πŸ˜›πŸ˜›  
   
 Happy Sunday everyone!!!  
 I'm gonna roll around on the Beach getting some sun & enjoy my view of the Pacific Ocean!!!  
 Xoxo  
 GC

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