it was hard for me to get started again.  Joined preferred 411 and used that for my first recontact and that for the next two and those for the ....etc. I use TER for reviews and to keep up to date, but I use P 411 for references and to get screened and it has worked fine.

I use date check as you see the girls that are verified as well. So we, us guys, know who are legit providers as well. Most of the ladies have their reviews linked as well

That helps ladies know that the person is question in not law enforcement. As you know, most of us don't want to spend any time with law enforcement - especially with they way they act like thugs and are being recorded shooting unarmed people left and right

I know that many a TER member has posted about how they would never divulge their real-world info. I don't really have anything to say about that except that in my world, it happens all the time.

As you know, not everyone has two recent (i.e., less than 12mos) references.  

Occaissionally there are men who write novels about how they are trustworthy but don't have references (because it's been a while or they are brand new) but they just can't be screened via real-world info. For some reason or another, they think their safety and well-being will be more important to me than my own. I just pass them by. I don't know what happens to them or who they end up seeing, and I don't care

I like verification sites/services like Date-Check, P411 and RS2K. But just a DC or P411 account isn't enough. If a man doesn't have any okays or vouches on those sites, or if their okays are older than a year, I'm still going to ask for current employment information. So don't be surprised if you do join a site only to be asked by your first date to be screened once again.

You sound willing to be screened however so you probably won't have any problems. Good luck on your new adventures!
xoxox
Tori

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