I have a very close friend, no it's not me, who needs some help with his first experience.  He's about 60, a highly educated professional and very, very fit.  His wife has lost all interest in sex and it's been years for him.  I'm in the same boat and in a long discussion I revealed that I occasionally resort to the hobby.  He asked if I could help him find a mature provider who would take a total newb, no references, who might be a little awkward with his first encounter.  I don't think he's interested in "wham, bam, thank you maam" but could use the warm embrace of a woman after many years.  Please let me know if you think you can help.  No PM, please.