I've always enjoyed kidnapping, date rape, force fantasies because I need to feel *wanted*...desired so violently that someone just takes me. I relish the complex dynamics between being a powerful sexual being and a vulnerable victim. I also enjoy slave training scenes since a Master can concentrate his efforts upon me and mold me to his desires. Sometimes, I just want to be putty.
On a side note, has anyone ever noticed that their desire for role play waxes and wanes? I was chatting with a pro sub friend, and we both noticed that after a hiatus, we came back without the deep affinity for role play. Sometimes, a sub just wants to be herself and be man-handled and used as the dirty, filthy whore she is! But I suppose that's a sort of role play too. I've always been a little bit weird in that I've never needed much aftercare from my partner, personal or professional. I just go on my merry way and do something normal like answer emails, sanitize sex toys or pet kitties. I prefer to be alone..to decompress and deconstruct my emotions, tuck them into their compartments until I need them again in the future. Hmm Sunday ramblings...
hat are the types of role plays you particularly enjoy?
As a Top, the role plays I enjoy are all about control and torture (might be nice torture, might be not so nice 
) Finding out a hidden secret about my insurance agent, then using it to my advantage, or letting in the salesman who rang my doorbell, even though I have a "No Soliciting" sign on the door...these are all great fun for me 
As a Disciplinarian, this might sound corny but I do love being the headmistress dealing with an unruly student...maybe he has been stealing panties, or looking down a teacher's dress, or failing in math class, but I love the expression of "I didn't mean to" or "Please Miss Kiley, I promise I won't do it again", they make it so much fun !!
As a submissive, I am definitely into the more taboo kinds of roleplays, like Daddy/little girl, race play and religious play, but I find that some of these can also work over into the Top aspect, like I can see doing a type of race play from both the bottom and the Top.
Also, after a particularly good role play, what kinds of aftercare do you prefer? I like to spend time getting back to the real world and kind of reaffirming the relationship we have outside of the role play (particularly if it has been pretty harsh) then following up again in a day or two, just to make sure all is cool.
What role play really gets you going?
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I've always enjoyed kidnapping, date rape, force fantasies because I need to feel *wanted*...desired so violently that someone just takes me. I relish the complex dynamics between being a powerful sexual being and a vulnerable victim. I also enjoy slave training scenes since a Master can concentrate his efforts upon me and mold me to his desires. Sometimes, I just want to be putty.
On a side note, has anyone ever noticed that their desire for role play waxes and wanes? I was chatting with a pro sub friend, and we both noticed that after a hiatus, we came back without the deep affinity for role play. Sometimes, a sub just wants to be herself and be man-handled and used as the dirty, filthy whore she is! But I suppose that's a sort of role play too.
I've always been a little bit weird in that I've never needed much aftercare from my partner, personal or professional. I just go on my merry way and do something normal like answer emails, sanitize sex toys or pet kitties. I prefer to be alone..to decompress and deconstruct my emotions, tuck them into their compartments until I need them again in the future.
Hmm Sunday ramblings...
I agree on the aftercare for myself when I bottom, my s/o and I like to joe that aftercare for me is kicking me out of bed, LOL!
But I do like to offer it for bottoms I play with, particularly after a harsh or heavy psychological role play scene.
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My ATF is Naughty Nurse!
Bad Student Dicktates the teacher is always fun. Seductress & Sex Instructor is great too!