Any woman can answer this ?

Confidence  
Experienced
Passionat

Very perverted

Daddy tendencies are nice too

K

Dominant vs. Dominate

Not a submissive woman and sorry to have fun at your expense, but I'm guessing they would first want someone who understands basic BDSM terminology, such as the difference between Dominant (adj.) and dominate (v.).

As a lifestyle switch, I only bottom to people that i trust 100%.  Communication is of the utmost importance as well, so having a partner who really listens is really important and makes me feel safe (example: my play partner really dressed up for me the last time we played; he wore a suit and looked amazing.  He told he that he remembered when I told him that I'd love to see him in a suit. he listened.  it made me feel really special).  Understanding my need to bottom is also really important.  Knowing and understanding why I need to bottom makes the experience more cathartic for me, and that catharsis is necessary.  

Other than that, confidence, ease, and intuition are qualities that I find necessary.  You have to be able to recover when things go awry, and you have to recognize when I need more and when I need less.  I'll make that very clear as well, you just have to know how to interpret things when my mouth is gagged and i'm drooling all over myself.

It's all about confidence and sensuality.

I love laughing so a sense of humor goes a long way towards warming me up! Also, a zest for life, a sense of adventure, confidence, being able to nurture and mentor me but also give me space to grown on my own, and other general alpha male-ness. Behind closed doors, I love a quietly spoken command, strong steady deliberate hands, a hard cock of average-large size (not too big, I'm little), and a take-charge attitude. A close fitting suit and skinny tie would be nice. And a nice bottle of wine (we'll later shove the neck up my ass).

...Hey, you did say "perfect" so my imagination got carried away!