Despite my repeatedly trying to change my own, it's always been refused, and I've always been told two reviewers have to specifically mention that she doesn't offer that service.
I find this website very informative but I have discovered that there are numerous false indicators.
That is, my fellow mongers are entering incorrect data.
For instance, I set up a time with a particular lady based on the review only to find that NO, she does not offer my fetish even though the review states YES. I would like to ask my fellow mongers to please not exagerate your time with the lady of your choice. It makes it that much more difficlut for the rest of us
If it's something in her profile, and it says she does it, whereas she says she does not, someone should file a problem report. IMO, the provider should do that.
When the reviews aren't accurately reporting what a certain provider offers, it makes it tough on the rest of us who are reading them.
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Or at least that was my experience. I had a review that indicated CIM and anal, as well as one that indicated RCG, which I don't do (the last it's just not something that works out logistically). I told them they were fake because those things are not on my profile (RCG wasn't on my P411 profile), and so could they take them down, and they said No. I attempted to say that it puts me in a tough position for that to be on there, and their response was that they were confident TER members would look at my profile and not at the reviews.
The system is quite flawed. After that incident, I really stopped caring.
If something is REALLY important to you, either make sure its listed on her profile (she controls P411 but not the TER profile) or website. When in doubt, just ask.
I am of the same sentiment. Oh, you will FORCE me to have inaccurate reviews and menu options? Fine. If someone has a problem I just let them know TER is the one to blame for their wasting their money. As a baby ho I was very worried about how reviews would be written, now I realize I don't have to care that much cause the guys assume the reviews aren't correct either, and at least I try, instead of going full blown fake. What's the point of being a real 10 if it's more profitable to be a fake one?
The system is quite flawed. After that incident, I really stopped caring.
For instance, I've tried very discretely to ask in PM's if it's ok to discuss a lady's menu options, some are ok with it, some are not. Here's the thing, when I come to see you, I'm traveling 1000 miles to do so, I have no problem traveling 1000 miles but I want some assurance that your menu contains something that I wish to order. I"ve been somewhat lucky thus far and most ladies I've been with have my likes on their menu (honestly it seems I'm quite tame compared to a large population of hobbyists).
So let's put a scenario out there, I'm wanting to come spend time with you, but before I schedule a day and time with you, and before I make travel arrangements I'd like to ask if a particular act is on your menu, how would I go about doing that? And this question isn't only directed at Cosette, any other provider that wishes to chime in, I'll appreciate the input.
One of the reasons why it needs to be legalized damn it.
When I come to see you, I'd like to know when, how, in what forum you would accept and answer questions about your menu? I'm already convinced I will enjoy the downtime, you seem like a really cool chic. I'll actually be coming to NYC to see someone else this Summer, but I think I'd like to see you as well. So, would you answer specific menu questions in PM I'm here or would you prefer that be by email? Or perhaps in some other forum.
"coming to NYC to see someone else this summer, but I think I'd like to see you as well."
I have no problem with emails.
I'm such a goof, is it any wonder that I'm divorced. All I meant by that is that I've already made plans to see someone this Summer in NYC, and that I find you to be very cool and that I'd like to see you while I'm there. But I can see, after re reading my post, how you could take it other than my intention. Admittedly, I'm mot the most articulate person. No offense or slight meant, on the contrary I look forward to the opportunity to see you.
YMMV regardless if she states she does xyz. You might be in the camp that she does not do it for. I will never understand a hooker, who over email or whatever communication, says yes to something when she has never even met the guy and seen him, his level of cleanliness, the size of his junk (think Greek) etc.
I get that you want your needs met but how pissed would you be if she says yes and you show up and your pecker is too big and she then has to say no (again, think Greek)?
She might do "it", just not with the guy that is in front of her for whatever reason/s. The YMMV caveat. If she says she does not do it at all, then it still might be her out instead of saying to the guy, "I do it, just not with you because of xyz". Then again it could be a false profile addition that needs correcting.
Despite my repeatedly trying to change my own, it's always been refused, and I've always been told two reviewers have to specifically mention that she doesn't offer that service.
I don't think you can either, at least not on TER. However, I think a guy can report a problem to TER, saying I went to see this provider and she doesn't actually offer X. That might do the trick. I've never reported an issue with a menu item, but I did report an appearance issue (she was a D cup, not B as indicated in the profile), and they changed it right away. Although TER might treat menu items different than appearance items.
Go get em tiger!
1) You're right, you can't simply rely on reviews.
2) YMMV. She may do things for others she prefers not to do with you. But such items should not be in the review to begin with.
3) You should check her web site or her P411 profile, if she has one. They will often list menu items.
4) You should contact reviewers who have referred to certain acts to be sure it actually happened, and to what extent it's YMMV, assuming you have VIP here with PM privileges.
her profile and not a particular review.
We should all know that the profile is established by the first reviewer and often times is not accurate. As her experience in the business grows, her menu options may change. Then add the YMMV, and who knows what might happen.
Yes, read the juicy details and PM reviewers to get the real scoop.
...she DOES but only for important clients of hers and leaves it off of her stated menu. I've no skin in the game, don't know the details ( because you didnt give any), so I'm just playing devil 's advocate.
But yes, do file a problem report if it's listed in her ter profile if it's really ymmv instead.
That is, my fellow mongers are entering incorrect data.
For instance, I set up a time with a particular lady based on the review only to find that NO, she does not offer my fetish even though the review states YES. I would like to ask my fellow mongers to please not exagerate your time with the lady of your choice. It makes it that much more difficlut for the rest of us.
Having said that...
1. Why do you believe we are entitled to accurate, and honest information in the form of a review ?
2. Why do you believe whore mongering should be played as a team sport ?
A few weeks back, someone booked an appointment, then asked if the services on my profile were up to date.
I thought this was a really tasteful way to get the info he wanted! If the provider says YES, she should be prepared to offer all of her services. If she says NO, then at least he can find out what's off the menu ahead of time.
Seems a simple rule to me. If a lady says she's bi or that she does CIM or anal that's great but if you didn't actually experience those things with her just say "I don't know".
How can this be? Actually if I do not read multiple reviews that a girl does Greek foe example then I would not go see her expecting that she is going to necessarily offer it to me!
...the ladies profile. We always tell newbies to get VIP so they could read the juicy details and encourage them to actually read the juicy details because the profile is filled out by the first reviewer and therefore is less likely to be as accurate as the recent juicy details. We also tell them to not just look at the ratings but read the juicy details. Now what do we tell them? TER has to know there is constant discussion about the inaccuracy of the ladies profile because the original reviewer fills it out and yet they tell Cosette they aren't concerned about the inaccuracy of the review details because they are confident potential clients will look at her profile not her reviews. Someone Please tell me what sense that makes. If that's the case why do we have reviews? Why not just have a provider's profile and no reviews? After all TER says the reviews don't matter. That's how I take what they told Cosette.
Now when I read a review I have to wonder what's incorrect about it. Did the provider ask TER to remove it or correct it and TER said, Oh, it's ok. The guys will just look at your profile. I'm looking at TER and like the guys on ESPN saying "C'mon Man!"
reakin'freakin'rackin'frakincravitz, Great googlymoogly! BTW: the preceding makes as much sense as what TER told Cosette.
Tony, I would have said if you were referring to the profile when you asked guys to be honest you should look at the juicy details of the review they are more likely to be accurate. Well, at least the most recent ones. Now I don't know what to tell you. What the others have said about PMing with the recent reviewers is good advice. You could also try to PM with the provider after she has screened you and accepted the appointment. I know someone mentioned asking the lady if her profile is accurate. That's actually an excellent idea.
Someone else mentioned to check the ladies P411 profile if she had one. I suppose that would work most of the time if the lady is independent. I do know of a provider that was on P411 put there by her agency. The things listed on her P411 profile as being on her menu were so inaccurate as to be laughable if it wasn't a constant issue with guys wanting things she didn't offer but her P411 said she did.
There are people here keep their VIP by posting reviews. They have to get reviews posted weekly, and monthly to keep free VIP so, they make them up. More explicit the review, greater the chance of it getting approved.
As long as VIP for review program exist there is going to fake reviews.
I think you can get too wrapped up in the details of what you see on these sites. The girls ads and their websites are probably a better example of source of what is on the menu for your first visit. YMMV for stuff beyond that. IMHO, the purpose of TER is to let you know - are the pictures accurate? is she legit, is she skilled at what she does? Is she fun? Would you see her again? Beyond that, I wouldn't pay it any attention. And even then with a grain of salt.
The thing TER really won't tell you and that you REALLY need to know is - Is she BSC?
When you're looking at your own profile, there's a Report a Problem button. I just clicked it and said I spit most of the time and that I don't know how to do a body-to-body massage and only do regular ones with my hands. It got changed in like 1 day.
One thing's for sure here: policies are enforced with a huge amount of inconsistency. And not just on Profile issues.