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MasterZen3819 reads

Consider this scenario:

You contact a provider you have not seen before, you are screened and the usual couple of emails occur to confirm date, time and location. The day arrives, and you receive the dreaded "I have to cancel because _____. So sorry."

What's missing for me is another line to the email saying something like "Would you like to reschedule for another time?". Or "Maybe we can try again?". I interpret that missing extra line as a tacit "Not interested", so I probably won't make another attempt - no matter how interested I am.

Am I reading too much into this? Does anyone suggest rescheduling in a cancel email? Is there a difference whether you suggest rescheduling when it is a repeat client vs a new client?

All input welcome!!

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Dr Who revived1506 reads

She didn't realize what a stud you are!!

Posted By: MasterZen
Consider this scenario:  
   
 You contact a provider you have not seen before, you are screened and the usual couple of emails occur to confirm date, time and location. The day arrives, and you receive the dreaded "I have to cancel because _____. So sorry."  
   
 What's missing for me is another line to the email saying something like "Would you like to reschedule for another time?". Or "Maybe we can try again?". I interpret that missing extra line as a tacit "Not interested", so I probably won't make another attempt - no matter how interested I am.  
   
 Am I reading too much into this? Does anyone suggest rescheduling in a cancel email? Is there a difference whether you suggest rescheduling when it is a repeat client vs a new client?  
   
 All input welcome!!

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0603450onThe1703 reads

Haven't looked yet. I think I'm kinda scared LOL...jello wrestling???? Me and you???  

Actually 'Lord CPA' agreed to take me out clubbin' when I come out to Chicago, I'm gonna bring a lil NY to Chi-town....LMAO.  

Ok. so picture him jammin' with me to this haha.  

;)


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MasterZen1646 reads

to dance to:

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0603450onThe1655 reads

A 'beat' Zen...a 'beat'. If you can't even nod your head to the songs I download here, we got problems lol.

Remember this equation. The common similarities........

Hands=Cock
Dancing=Fucking

Got it?

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0603450onThe1600 reads

Ouch hurt me.

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MasterZen1351 reads

actually book!  ;)

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0603450onThe2032 reads

cancellation.

;)

Better have #2 and #3 lined up, hell maybe even #4, just in case this happens again and with your libido. Just a suggestion and a good one at that

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MasterZen1560 reads

an awful lot of work.

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Alyssa Marie2296 reads

Not literally, she won't let you.

Once I had to cancel on someone who comes to Vegas to see me. He drives from Orange County. I felt terrible... Literally..

I called and said, look I'm really sorry, but I don't want to risk getting you sick, I can send you a few other girls info and I will get in touch with them and next time I'll stay longer or we can go to dinner or whatever works for you."

He came up to LA when I was there and we went I eat. I tried to pay, but he wouldn't let me. The point is, I always ask (from the three times ever) "what can I do to make this up?"

Men should do the same thing too. A simple, "ugh I'm so sorry.. I emailed you an amazon gift card.. " goes a really long way.

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Back_In_Black1887 reads

oh no no no no no no way ...

Posted By: Alyssa Marie
Not literally, she won't let you.  
   
 Once I had to cancel on someone who comes to Vegas to see me. He drives from Orange County. I felt terrible... Literally..  
   
 I called and said, look I'm really sorry, but I don't want to risk getting you sick, I can send you a few other girls info and I will get in touch with them and next time I'll stay longer or we can go to dinner or whatever works for you."  
   
 He came up to LA when I was there and we went I eat. I tried to pay, but he wouldn't let me. The point is, I always ask (from the three times ever) "what can I do to make this up?"  
   
 Men should do the same thing too. A simple, "ugh I'm so sorry.. I emailed you an amazon gift card.. " goes a really long way.

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Back_In_Black1485 reads

taylor get an eye exam your sister provider passes on the master hes not yoda after all  but may really look like him ...

Posted By: MasterZen
Consider this scenario:  
   
 You contact a provider you have not seen before, you are screened and the usual couple of emails occur to confirm date, time and location. The day arrives, and you receive the dreaded "I have to cancel because _____. So sorry."  
   
 What's missing for me is another line to the email saying something like "Would you like to reschedule for another time?". Or "Maybe we can try again?". I interpret that missing extra line as a tacit "Not interested", so I probably won't make another attempt - no matter how interested I am.  
   
 Am I reading too much into this? Does anyone suggest rescheduling in a cancel email? Is there a difference whether you suggest rescheduling when it is a repeat client vs a new client?  
   
 All input welcome!!

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MasterZen1717 reads

and had a great day anyway!

And dude... you didn't like my pic?

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0603450onThe1847 reads

He's like a damn teenager on steroids for god's sake. Zen...I hope you're being nice to these poor girls LOL. Damn. Before you know it, he'll have more reviews than my buddy here and probably in less than a year's time if he keeps going at this pace. I'm tellin' ya...you and Cosette...match made in heaven. Set it up.....

(yes I'm a smartass, sorry and you know my tone AND you know I'm right  ;)

 
BIB, you need to send me a photo STAT. I got the 'description' of you and you SOUND like a stud to me mister. Are you 'I'talian (wink wink). I can model my new shoes for you. They are so cute. You know us girls and our shoes, can never have enough. I'll model just for you and 'only' the shoes (battingeyelashes). I bet you'd Treat Me Right.....uh oh I feel a dedication on this ugly rainy cold evening to liven it up a bit.  

A classic....PEACE. LOL Did someone say Chubb......

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Back_In_Black2053 reads

sorry photo not gonna happen , that was a joke right ? guys do that , cause I wouldn't .  oh well my dear guess you can only have me in your dreams ... xoxo

Posted By: TaylorSteele
He's like a damn teenager on steroids for god's sake. Zen...I hope you're being nice to these poor girls LOL. Damn. Before you know it, he'll have more reviews than my buddy here and probably in less than a year's time if he keeps going at this pace. I'm tellin' ya...you and Cosette...match made in heaven. Set it up.....  
   
 (yes I'm a smartass, sorry and you know my tone AND you know I'm right  ;)  
   
   
 BIB, you need to send me a photo STAT. I got the 'description' of you and you SOUND like a stud to me mister. Are you 'I'talian (wink wink). I can model my new shoes for you. They are so cute. You know us girls and our shoes, can never have enough. I'll model just for you and 'only' the shoes (battingeyelashes). I bet you'd Treat Me Right.....uh oh I feel a dedication on this ugly rainy cold evening to liven it up a bit.  
   
 A classic....PEACE. LOL Did someone say Chubb......

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MasterZen1590 reads

innermost desires! I told her those were private fantasies!

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Back_In_Black2061 reads

I just got dumped by a HOOKER  

WTF ...and say that like the Asian guy in hangover .

Posted By: MasterZen
Consider this scenario:  
   
 You contact a provider you have not seen before, you are screened and the usual couple of emails occur to confirm date, time and location. The day arrives, and you receive the dreaded "I have to cancel because _____. So sorry."  
   
 What's missing for me is another line to the email saying something like "Would you like to reschedule for another time?". Or "Maybe we can try again?". I interpret that missing extra line as a tacit "Not interested", so I probably won't make another attempt - no matter how interested I am.  
   
 Am I reading too much into this? Does anyone suggest rescheduling in a cancel email? Is there a difference whether you suggest rescheduling when it is a repeat client vs a new client?  
   
 All input welcome!![/quote

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Back_In_Black1678 reads

sorry zen , no mercy .  

did she think something smelled fishy ? lol

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ShortNotice1625 reads

but considering the fact that this is supposed to be a positive experience for you, do you still feel good about it? No. This is what I was trying to get at in my other thread. Seems like business etiquette is not very good in this business, at least in comparison to others.

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hbyist+truth=;(1824 reads

Guys can get very interesting when rejected, and being rejected by a hooker, well some just can't deal with that and the shit hits the fan. Some hookers, most hookers are not a fan of confrontation so err on the side of ignore and he will eventually go away. Fair, not really. Good business etiquette, not really. It is like any illegal business, it is run how they feel on the day for the most part for some ladies. Others, they do treat it like a legit business and will offer some sort of an explanation and deal with the why the best they know how.

 
Personally I would have no issue simply saying that after some thought I don't think we would be good together and I wish you luck finding another sexy companion. That will most likely be met with WHY

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0603450onThe1644 reads

Gentlemen and 'Rejection'. God forbid with that word, that's like the antichrist for god's sake LOL.

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hbyist+truth=;(1521 reads

Being rejected by a hooker tips some guys over the abyss. You know the old "I have money you have to see me" bullshit? Some still do not get that hookers have a choice and at the end of the day, it all comes down to yay or nay.

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MasterZen1626 reads

than negative. I asked the question because I've always (I think) had some form of that "let's try again" type of line in cancellation emails before. This one simply didn't, and I interpreted that as I chose. It simply raised the question for me as to whether my expectations and interpretations unique, or a shared perception

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HotRockin1606 reads

I never said I've had more negative than positive experiences. I've had many more positive experiences too but that's not the point. How many times have you had someone in another field of business cancel on you and not ask if you would like the reschedule? This has never happened to me and I'm old.

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MasterZen1640 reads

you don't need my agreement or approval.

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mrfisher1798 reads

So:

Pick yourself up.

Dust yourself off.

And get back up on that horse and ride.

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Gemma Coreana1681 reads

She doesn't have time to reschedule... My experience-Usually if that happens, the hobbyist inquire if there's another time/date, if he really wants to see me that is...  I never offer-"would you like to reschedule" if I have to cancel an appointment, I apologies & if they ask to reschedule, I thank them for rescheduling & I offer them a "Special" for their inconvenience...   Just my 2 cents......

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OhCharlie1522 reads

Maybe she simply doesn't know her schedule yet, and doesn't want to jerk you around any more than she has. It might depend on her health or her family or her car or whatever else. Most guys don't immediately offer to reschedule when they cancel on me, and I certainly don't take it as anything more than they'll let me know when they're free again. Not everything is SO personal ;-

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MasterZen1662 reads

only one guy! And I know I don't represent anyone else here. And you're right, I was over-thinking. Seeking opinions was intended to help me not assume!

Oh well... I enjoy a good spanking every once in a while!  ;)

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2labman1790 reads

So the South has taught this Yankee.

The ball is in the provider's court, she has just cancelled without explanation or option.  If she is indeed interested in meeting him, then she should ask if he would like to reschedule.  I would take the simple cancellation and lack of invitation to reschedule as a brush-off due to late-coming information.

If he asks her if she would like to reschedule, it forces either a "No" (rude at this point, she has already agreed to a date once) or a "Yes", which she could have done in the first place.

That just seems like good manners to me.

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GreekDeprived1549 reads

What matters is that you are not being treated the way you like.

Deprived

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Back_In_Black1961 reads

word Tidwell never got the dear john letter you did . common zen step up your game start telling them your dicks bigger or something . your not going to leave your money to those kids of yours its all going to hookers and your making a new will soon and want to include all your nieces . I had high hopes for you . I did .  

 

Posted By: MasterZen
Consider this scenario:  
   
 You contact a provider you have not seen before, you are screened and the usual couple of emails occur to confirm date, time and location. The day arrives, and you receive the dreaded "I have to cancel because _____. So sorry."  
   
 What's missing for me is another line to the email saying something like "Would you like to reschedule for another time?". Or "Maybe we can try again?". I interpret that missing extra line as a tacit "Not interested", so I probably won't make another attempt - no matter how interested I am.  
   
 Am I reading too much into this? Does anyone suggest rescheduling in a cancel email? Is there a difference whether you suggest rescheduling when it is a repeat client vs a new client?  
   
 All input welcome!!

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Back_In_Black1493 reads

long enough its bound to happen and on your part too. so your reading to much into it . as far as her rescheduling id say you should be glad she didn't . as she really had something going on and getting customers wasn't her top priority right away .. give her a week or so , see how she is and take it from there ..

Posted By: MasterZen
so it wasn't me after all , oh bib your wisdom humbles me great one . and should I ask her what happened
and do not ask her what happened let her tell you if she likes ..

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Dr Who revived1710 reads

Guess that excuse  LOL

Let's see....Grandma died...or....the dog died...or...Aunt Flo showed up...or...it was my rave night...or...

The possibilities are endless  ;)

Posted By: Back_In_Black
long enough its bound to happen and on your part too. so your reading to much into it . as far as her rescheduling id say you should be glad she didn't . as she really had something going on and getting customers wasn't her top priority right away .. give her a week or so , see how she is and take it from there ..  
   
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so it wasn't me after all , oh bib your wisdom humbles me great one . and should I ask her what happened
   
 and do not ask her what happened let her tell you if she likes ..

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0603450onThe1695 reads

such a big deal about it. Cancellations happen. Life happens. It...happens. Get over it already. Christ. It's not that big a deal and for anyone to take it personally...seriously???

If it happens with me by the gentleman, he gets 2 strikes and then he just gets Chopped lol. I'm sure the same can be said on the flipside. But I certainly don't cry myself to sleep at night about it and neither should anyone else.  

It's starting to feel very manginaesque around here again....on that note, it's bedtime. And OMG it's f'n snowing.  

;

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FatElvis1771 reads

I got...hey I can't meet you, but I know some agency girls. Want an introduction?

So I just responded.....uhhhh, no thanks...I'm fine.

:)

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Crazy Diamond1707 reads

It just might work...

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HooktardGold1873 reads

Soooo, I tend to think the same in this case. When I had to cancel which was very rare, I always offered money off or some extra time and options to schedule when HE was available. It sounds like she may have discovered some things about you, and changed her mind

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MasterZen1892 reads

just over-thinking. As you said, most cancels in my experience do include some type of "open door" offer to reschedule, thus my question.  

And dammit... has someone been telling true stories about me behind my back?  :D

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MasterZen1662 reads

at about the same time we would have had to meet. And no, nothing special to make it up that we discussed. Just a simple apology and a reschedule.

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