Ladies, does a hobbyist's attire affect how you treat him, regardless of the fact that he's paid for your time already?
I ask this, because as a middle aged guy in my mid 40's I still dress the same as I did in high school. Jeans, T shirt and sneakers, usually with a baseball cap. I'm blue collar so I wear a uniform at work and the rest of the time, I just want to be comfortable. Suits and even business casual wear feels weird to me when I wear them. Yet sometimes I get the feeling that due to this laxity in my dress code, people tend to take me less seriously. Fact of the matter is, I make more at my job that many of my suit wearing friends who are middle managers or have other office jobs. Heck, I make more than some lawyers I know.
So, do the clothes make the man, or is cash king?
greeted by a provider in a ball gown or formal wear.
And I know some fabulously wealthy people who dress like bums... because they can and simply don't give a damn what others think at all.
I believe the idea is to dress comfortably and appropriately for what you have planned, and not try to impress at all.
It's very comfortable. It becomes too irritating when I actually wash it. 
Jokes aside, I don't like wearing suits cuz it's very uncomfortable. Plus I don't feel I need to be impressing anyone anymore, unless it's a date with Taylor Swift or Scarlett Johansson.
I'd wear something business casual though just so I don't look like a bum. Something not too formal but not ghetto or bummy
If it's over 85 degrees I'm wearing shorts and t-shirt. If it's over 110 I'm wearing ice packs.
commando. We don't need no stinking underwear! lol
Just don't ice your nuts. I heard it causes shrinkage. And is uncomfortable!
two cherries and a banana kinda gets in the way of walking and sitting. lol
I guess that's where ice comes in handy, use it to shrink the size lol
No one says you have to 'impress' anyone, it's about what you feel most confident and sexy in silly. If it's 9 week old undies, then so be it LOL......just don't book with me please until it's the day AFTER the 9 weeks has subsided and the undies are clean. I thank you in advance LOL. Cute though.
It might have skid marks and yellow stains on it though. It looks absolutely lovely by the time it reaches the 18th week. LMAO
work on that mister. That's disgusting. I'm not sure any lady here would see you for publicly displaying that kind of 'hygiene' practice.
Ewwww, remember I'm visual lol.
well I'm pretty sure no girl here would be that dumb to actually believe that lol
I shower twice a day and I'm usually sober.
She said she'd need to take samples of my urine, feces, blood and semen. I told her, "Jeez, doc, if you'd told me that before I came in I could have just brought you a pair of my used underwear.
I actually have been greeted by a provider in an wedding gown. And not at my prompting, was supposed to be spontaneous fun.
Posted By: MasterZen
greeted by a provider in a ball gown or formal wear.
And I know some fabulously wealthy people who dress like bums... because they can and simply don't give a damn what others think at all.
I believe the idea is to dress comfortably and appropriately for what you have planned, and not try to impress at all.
But I tend to dress up a bit when seeing a lady, for two reasons. First of all, most of them are staying in high-end hotels and I'd stick out like a sore thumb in the lobby if I was in a T-shirt and jeans. So I'm usually in slacks, a sport shirt and a sport jacket, passing through the lobby like I own it.
Also, some gals like it when a guy is nicely dressed, so that doesn't hurt either.
I dress appropriate to the hotel, typically business casual so that when I pass through the lobby I look like anyone who would be staying at the hotel. And I do find ladies prefer for us to be dressed nicely. Does that mean we have to be dressed nicely? No, but anything that puts a lady at ease, I'm willing to do (within reason). A favorite of mine, who doesn't want reviews, prefers me to come dressed in jeans, so that's what I do. I rarely wear suits, so I haven't ever arrived at a date in a suit. I did go to a show with a lady once, so I brought along a suit to change into, bit I arrived to her door business casual.
You don't walk into a place like you own it, you walk into a place like you don't care who the Hell does.
be true to who you are, not who you aren't whether it be jeans or a suit. It's how you 'wear' your attire, not so much what the attire actually is.
I like a well dressed woman who also knows how to pull off casual sexy ... panties optional of course ... xoxo ..
Posted By: TaylorSteele
be true to who you are, not who you aren't whether it be jeans or a suit. It's how you 'wear' your attire, not so much what the attire actually is.
something sharp that he feels confident, comfortable in. And yes, I dress casual chic I guess you could say depending on where I'm headed as I dress by my 'mood' usually. Most of my dates happen in NY so yes, attire is important. When I am booking $400+ rooms, I can only hope he 'dresses the part'. Since most dates for me start in the 'public eye', it's important that we match as a 'couple' together. Again, it's important to 'not' stick out like the odd couple. Haven't had an issue with that yet. Most gentlemen understand this aspect and it's usually an unspoken understanding. I, more or less ask them what they would like to see me in, pants or a dress, 'sans' panties or not 
I usually have a pretty good read on the gentleman I am meeting and 'adjust' accordingly lol. You are all very different and have your own lil things lol that get you going. It is indeed fun trying to figure out just what that is sometimes I must say. And sometimes I like it when you just flat out tell me haha.
as a sharp dresser myself, I always suggest Taylor keep the cottons on if we're dining first, so as not to leave a mess in the restaurant chair...
Posted By: Slowlickher
as a sharp dresser myself, I always suggest Taylor keep the cottons on if we're dining first, so as not to leave a mess in the restaurant chair...
I'm funny huh? Yes, I know, in my mind only lol. I thought it was cute.
don't back channel .. not my style .... xoxo
Posted By: TaylorSteele
I'm funny huh? Yes, I know, in my mind only lol. I thought it was cute.
and yes you do...you ALL do hahaha. xoxo
rent a tux when I saw you but now I can save that coin to give you a bigger tip. Glad I can "come as I am" when we meet. Or, should I have said, "cum when I am ready" when we meet?
and other guys just look like a waiter. lmao
I know that people claim that "clothes make the man" I believe the opposite is closer to the truth.
James Bond (thanks GaG) with S & P hair?
PS==I don't wait tables.
S&P hair. My favorite in all honesty besides just plain ol' dark hair. It's funny, only a few 'blondes' have ever contacted me. Isn't that weird lol
There is a huge difference between wearing dirty jeans, work boots and a T shirt with holes in it in the lobby of the Four Seasons, and wearing something by Versace that might cost a grand or more.
Living in Texas, I rarely wear anything nicer than business casual and often wear jeans, but when I wear jeans on a date, they are clean, pressed and I usually am wearing $800 shoes and have a Rolex on my wrist. Getting accosted by a hotel manager or looked down on by my date is the least of my worries.
Some people can look like a bum even when wearing a suit, and other guys can look like a million bucks wearing jeans. As Taylor said, "it's how you wear it"
You are right, a sharp guy will look like a sharp guy in a $2k suit or a $200 suit. That's my point. Doesn't make a difference to me how much that suit is. I'm not looking at 'labels' that's for sure. If the ensemble he chose just 'works', that works for me. It's all in a first look at first glance and if he wears it well, I'm like well alright, doesn't matter to me 'who' it's by
then it is to look good in a suit by JC Penny. It's a rare man that can pull that off. lol
Cleaned, pressed, and well fitting goes a lot further than what ever is printed on the label.
While it's true that a $2,000 suit doesn't mean just anyone will look good in it, it's pretty damn hard for anyone to look good in one costing $200. But what's this with pressing your jeans? Shirley you don't mean your jeans have creases in them? Say it ain't so!
but by "pressed" I simply mean not rumpled or dirty. Once upon a time I think I actually had creases in my dress jeans, but I think that was back in the 80's
a nice pair of jeans and his shoes are important (most men neglect this fact but we look lol) topped off with a nice crisp shirt, blazer and sometimes a tie if it's dinner, really all depends 'where' we are meeting. A suit only comes into play with gentlemen I meet with during the day and they are coming from the office. Which offers a whole lot of other 'fun'. But meeting in the evening I prefer the latter.
socks to go with his ensamble? Shoes with laces and no socks is just cheap.
minus the socks? That's a few years old actually I think from the 2012 collection but my point is just look sharp in whatever you wear, no matter the designer brand. That same gentleman would look amazing in the Kohls suit I provided pricepoint under 300. You get my drift. It's about selling 'IT'.
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somebody should tell him you don't put a suit in a washer and dryer. His shrunk.
I assume he wasn't much for conversation.
on my lil secret about the correlation between the 'design' of a gentleman's hands and his cock...but I won't.
You can ponder on that one for a bit.
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Steve Jobs had 100 pair of the same black turtle neck, and wore jeans and the turtle nearly, everyday to work.
YOu know why he can do that, cause Steve Mother F...ing Jobs!
im sick of people asking for their car when im outside the restaurant . it doesn't say valet on my jacket and I could buy the damn restaurant .
Posted By: Fridays117
Ladies, does a hobbyist's attire affect how you treat him, regardless of the fact that he's paid for your time already?
I ask this, because as a middle aged guy in my mid 40's I still dress the same as I did in high school. Jeans, T shirt and sneakers, usually with a baseball cap. I'm blue collar so I wear a uniform at work and the rest of the time, I just want to be comfortable. Suits and even business casual wear feels weird to me when I wear them. Yet sometimes I get the feeling that due to this laxity in my dress code, people tend to take me less seriously. Fact of the matter is, I make more at my job that many of my suit wearing friends who are middle managers or have other office jobs. Heck, I make more than some lawyers I know.
So, do the clothes make the man, or is cash king?
ZEN you know what im talking about .. I know you do...........
Preconceived notions about suits being worn. But on the whole, no, several other things make the man. Many other dimensions than clothing. I love being in my part of NYC because when I have a long date outside I actually prefer a suit not be worn. This is a chill neighborhood so suits aren't the best for hanging out.
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on where we are going, outside the bedroom, and the current weather.
It was to join a fellow monger in a farewell session with a gorgeous young woman, her first MFM, followed by a dinner at an exclusive private club. Memorable
and LES places, it's a bit out of place.
You don't come in a dirty stinky clothes, I don't mind the hobbyist sense of style... But most whom I see come in button down dress shirt & slacks.....
Off topic but I need to GLOAT!!!! OMG I just got pounded in my bootyhole by my Serbian ATF!! I have a glow on my face & I'm sooo friggin HAPPY right now, I think if someone came in a garbage bag right this sec, I wouldn't care!!!
HHHHHAAAAAPPPPYYYYYYYY MMMMMOOOONNNNDDDAAAAYYYYY!!!!!!
Xoxo
GC
Of course it should still look clean and kempt. It all ranges. Do what is good for you; I'm sure the gal would not mind a bit as long as you adhere to hygiene.
As overdressing for an engagement might be awkward, it also can be good idea to specify what you would prefer her to wear as well.
^_^
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I like a nice suit, and feel good in one. I've worn suits to visit providers, and I've worn "nice" casual. I don't think it's made a difference. I've been treated well when dressed casual, and not as well when dressed up, and vice versa.
I'll be having a lunch date in a couple of weeks, and I don't think it will be the suit or lack thereof that will draw attention as much as the near-40 year difference in our ages, and the fact that she's hot as hell and I'm...well, not.
Posted By: Fridays117
Ladies, does a hobbyist's attire affect how you treat him, regardless of the fact that he's paid for your time already?
I ask this, because as a middle aged guy in my mid 40's I still dress the same as I did in high school. Jeans, T shirt and sneakers, usually with a baseball cap. I'm blue collar so I wear a uniform at work and the rest of the time, I just want to be comfortable. Suits and even business casual wear feels weird to me when I wear them. Yet sometimes I get the feeling that due to this laxity in my dress code, people tend to take me less seriously. Fact of the matter is, I make more at my job that many of my suit wearing friends who are middle managers or have other office jobs. Heck, I make more than some lawyers I know.
So, do the clothes make the man, or is cash king?
Now if a guy is asking a hooker out I think both should dress appropriately as in no "hooker wear" to a decent restaurant and the guy should at least nbe in biz casual. Keep the attire appropriate for the venue for both and there should be no issue.
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Posted By: Fridays117
Ladies, does a hobbyist's attire affect how you treat him, regardless of the fact that he's paid for your time already?
I ask this, because as a middle aged guy in my mid 40's I still dress the same as I did in high school. Jeans, T shirt and sneakers, usually with a baseball cap. I'm blue collar so I wear a uniform at work and the rest of the time, I just want to be comfortable. Suits and even business casual wear feels weird to me when I wear them. Yet sometimes I get the feeling that due to this laxity in my dress code, people tend to take me less seriously. Fact of the matter is, I make more at my job that many of my suit wearing friends who are middle managers or have other office jobs. Heck, I make more than some lawyers I know.
So, do the clothes make the man, or is cash king?
I probably would 'dress up' in business casual or a New England chic style if it wasn't going to raise red flags with the Mrs. on my return home. so I guess a clean pair of jeans and a polo shirt (rather than a T) is about as fancy as its going to get.
Thanks for all your input
I think the suit always gets me going, just because it can be so sexy! After being a provider for almost a year and meeting some wild men in suits- wild in a good way- I am a bit more excited when they are dressed up! Even in passing in the city I wonder about how wild that tall business man in a suit is haha.
Regardless, both are treated the same! Both have paid for the time and deserve to be spoiled and treated as well as the man in the suit! You might even be twenty times nicer than the man in the suit, so I never change treatment based on attire.
what I wear is most important. Every one is gettin naked anyhow.
i prefer they do what is most convenient , if they are in nerd clothes good. i am not impressed by the guys that are too like thinking too hard. being polite nice considerate goes a long way with me, they can be in a patata sack but be funny and nice, and I will be happy. The nerdy ones are the best clients anyway.Wear glasses with white tape in center and have buck teeth and i will be pumped when you walk in the door. The easier i can impress them and get away with doing less work the better. omg.
