The pressure goes both ways for me. Do I hit all the right spots? Do I last long enough? Am I endowed well enough? I just have to put it out of my mind when I am with someone, if not it kills my mood.
... if yes. is that the experience you want to have during sex?
I'm not talking PSE, or soliciting a pornographic performer.
Many ISO posts, read like the front page of the images on a porn site.
Other question: Do real life fantasies(ones you have lived out) influence what you are looking for during your next sexual experience.
I'm thinking, many people learned at least some new tricks after watching porn. But, it's more fun making porn as opposed to watching them. lol
Sex is not a spectator sport for me. I don't need it to get aroused when I am with a woman, and I don't really want to get that aroused when I am not with a woman. My days of jerking off are well behind me. I can only cum so many times, I don't want to waste them on myself. lol
Unless you are scoping out talent, to put on your to do list.
I prefer porn that seems real to me, meaning I can see myself in that situation. Some of the stuff is pretty out there, and far beyond what I'd ever do.
I can't stand porn with a story line (secretary working for boss) and dialogue. Just STFU and do it. I also can't stand it when they show the guy. I don't care about him, so get in close on the woman.
that i like... Good editing/photography really helps. Enthusiasm and energy is also a requirement. There is, unfortunately, a lot of really gross, nasty stuff which is just a little too 'raincoat' for me. But your opinion will vary... one man's gross out is another man's turn on. Chacun a son gout....
Kink.com has some really interesting, well edited, acted and photographed stuff - but I think some of it is a little far out there for a real life type thing. Again YMMV...
As far as whether I want to have that experience - depends on what mood I am in. Sometimes yes - sometimes no. After all ... one of the really cool things about P4P is that you can find providers that will do these things in an enthusiastic manner. To me - P4P is all a fantasy. If I wanted real life - I can get that without paying for it....
Do real life fantasies influence what you are looking for? Not certain I understand that question but - absolutely - always trying to improve...
... at least mine is.
I can do orgasms just fine without P4P. IMHO - what I am paying for is her time, talent and imagination. That whole thing about just paying for time --- really has some truth in it.
If all you need is a wet hole - honestly - there are some really good toys out there for that and you can get a collection of them for the cost of one first class session.... and without LE interference... Amazon has you covered...
... a pile of fuck holes, and a Lady.
Have you ever had a fleshlight session with a provider?
No - but that sounds like it could be lots of fun - especially if it involved being tied up and teased!! Thanks for the idea..
but I prefer X-Art, Passion-HD, Orgasms.xxx, Joymii and Homegrown Video to the standard hardcore fare most of the time. Every one in a while, there is a much kinkier video/site that strikes me as seriously erotic. Varied tastes with varied moods.
I guess what we see, read or hear about anywhere plays into the fantasies we develop. In that sense, yes, exploring and living out fantasies is something I like to experience. OTOH, I have no interest in "acting out" porn scenes per se.
I've noticed that since getting my start in the hobby a couple months ago I have watched almost no porn.
Also, I have never tried to be a porn star in bed. I don't even like the crazy stuff that happens in porn. I'm more of a take it slow and enjoy the moment kind of guy. Never been into bedroom gymnastics.
Also, I have never tried to be a porn star in bed. I don't even like the crazy stuff that happens in porn. I'm more of a take it slow and enjoy the moment kind of guy. Never been into bedroom gymnastics.
I'd like to, but every time I do I get messages from the FBI telling me I have to go and get them Green Dot Cards to pay them off, and then my computer spends the rest of the time going:
Bwaa-ha-ha-ha!
And I'm getting darn tired of it!
Why wouldn't the FBI want cash? Does the SS pay the gals with GDCs
and would much rather enjoy 'live' acting with a wonderful lady or two. 
but I much prefer live targets, and don't watch much porn at all when I go on a provider binge, which for me is 1-2 per week. If I go cold turkey for a few months for one reason or another, I do watch porn.
I typically watch relatively tame, but explicit porn that echoes the types of experiences I want to have (and usually have had)
but like you, I watch very little during "active" periods, but start watching again during the longer breaks. When I'm in hobby mode, I want to keep my body attuned to cumming with a woman, so I don't masturbate nearly as much either