Hi everybody 
Have you ever dated a girl you thought was keeping a secret from you?
A provider type of secret?
Ladies? If you dated a guy.
How would you go about telling him what you do?
Guys?
Would you be okay with her never telling you?
The reason I ask is because I'm dating a woman I'm pretty sure is some type of provider.
Actually.. I think she is a Sugar Baby..
All signs say yes..
I'm no veteran.. But I can spot a provider when I see one..
Should I ask her? Or just ride the wave?
I want to ask her. I hate secrets, and lies..
So I am compelled to ask.
I shouldn't even be asking advice like this on a Fuck Bord like this..
I could use some good advice though...
Ironically. This is the place to ask
Next time you're with her accidentally drop a few benjies on the floor and see her reaction.
If she says "is that all" you'll know.
Posted By: TheHoundOfCullin
Hi everybody
Have you ever dated a girl you thought was keeping a secret from you?
A provider type of secret?
Ladies? If you dated a guy.
How would you go about telling him what you do?
Guys?
Would you be okay with her never telling you?
The reason I ask is because I'm dating a woman I'm pretty sure is some type of provider.
Actually.. I think she is a Sugar Baby..
All signs say yes..
I'm no veteran.. But I can spot a provider when I see one..
Should I ask her? Or just ride the wave?
I want to ask her. I hate secrets, and lies..
So I am compelled to ask.
I shouldn't even be asking advice like this on a Fuck Bord like this..
I could use some good advice though...
Ironically. This is the place to ask.
...and doesn't charge very much.
I'm her "Sugar Daddy" LOL.
Hi everybody
Have you ever DATYed a girl you thought was keeping a secret from you?
A provider type of secret?
Ladies? If you DATYed a guy.
How would you go about telling him what you do?
Guys?
Would you be okay with her never telling you?
The reason I ask is because I'm DATYing a woman I'm pretty sure is some type of provider.
Actually.. I think she is a Sugar Baby..
All signs say yes..
I'm no veteran.. But I can spot a provider when I see one..
Should I ask her? Or just ride the wave?
I want to ask her. I hate secrets, and lies..
So I am compelled to ask.
I shouldn't even be asking advice like this on a Fuck BORD like this..
I could use some good advice though...
Ironically. This is the place to ask.
it like a kamakazi pilot whe may be then tell her you want to go for easter pictures with her to your friend ALDO.. you should know after that . just make sure ROD didn't see her .. if she did something definitely wrong with her ............!
Posted By: TheHoundOfCullin
Hi everybody
Have you ever dated a girl you thought was keeping a secret from you?
A provider type of secret?
Ladies? If you dated a guy.
How would you go about telling him what you do?
Guys?
Would you be okay with her never telling you?
The reason I ask is because I'm dating a woman I'm pretty sure is some type of provider.
Actually.. I think she is a Sugar Baby..
All signs say yes..
I'm no veteran.. But I can spot a provider when I see one..
Should I ask her? Or just ride the wave?
I want to ask her. I hate secrets, and lies..
So I am compelled to ask.
I shouldn't even be asking advice like this on a Fuck Bord like this..
I could use some good advice though...
Ironically. This is the place to ask.
damn, Hound. You just got some of the best advice ever.
Is the bling 'blinding' you? Perhaps it's all in the imagination.
-- Modified on 4/9/2014 8:36:02 PM
Posted By: TaylorSteele
In your imagination I believe.
cracking up, I almost pee'd my panties LOL. Why can I almost picture that OMG...too funny.
Hi BIB 
Did you have a good day today. Feel the sun on your face I hope....(battingeyelashes)
its because I slept like a baby nice and relaxed and with a smile on my face ... hope you also had a good one and tomorrow too... aw glad I made u lol taylor ... and hope that smile lasts ..xoxo
Posted By: TaylorSteele
cracking up, I almost pee'd my panties LOL. Why can I almost picture that OMG...too funny.
Hi BIB
Did you have a good day today. Feel the sun on your face I hope....(battingeyelashes)
It wasn't just the bling..
I didn't like her at first because I thought she was a spoiled, kept girl.
She felt obligated to set me straight.
She didn't come out and say she was an escort..
But she implied it?
Posted By: TaylorSteele
Is the bling 'blinding' you? Perhaps it's all in the imagination.
-- Modified on 4/9/2014 8:36:02 PM
and accept the answer. That is the conversation.
Let things develop, and let her reveal. 1000 questions is a shitty game in a relationship. IMHO.
You are being very 'vague' with your words Hound...so I will chalk it up to a 'vague' post. You aren't really 'saying' anything but dancing around a few words. Again, for that, I will say, it simply must be in your imagination.
No job.
Lots of money.
She dates older men.. Much older, and rich..
She is super hot. These guys are not.
She told me they take care of her...
That she still fucks them now, and then.
She will dissappear for a few days, turn off her phone.
Then pop back with her pockets full of money.
She'll tell me outright that her "ex boyfriend" hooked her up.
That sounds like a sugar baby to me..
I'm being vague because she could be on this very board.
I doubt it though.
She has maybe 5 or 6 "ex boyfriends" that I know of.
And no. She hasn't given me any gifts.
if she's 'dating' other guys and they are 'taking care' of her, you are not 'dating' her. She's using that lil hiney of yours for something silly. Perhaps 'emotional' stability that the money from the sugardaddies 'cannot' buy.
If you said from the getgo what you just said and are speaking the truth...yes, she is some a 'provider' of sorts on some kind of level. You just need to ask yourself how important the 'truth' really is and if it bothers you. I don't think you would've started this thread if it 'didn't' bother you quite honestly.
Take a hold of the situation and better it, whatever that may be. Done.
-- Modified on 4/10/2014 9:04:40 AM
She is cool as shit though.
It would also be hypocritical of me to make anything of it.
But the pros far outweigh the cons.
She is teaching me to eat really healthy.. Cooking for me, and everything..
Yoga, and meditation.. All that spiritual stuff..
Do you think I could potentially out myself if I let her on that I know about this kind of thing?
I know I said I hate lies, but every girl who found out about my experiences with escorts has dumped me on my ass.
So I can't tell. It blows. But it is the world we live in.
allow for the usual shit ....dawg , is she a 10 .....and how are her skills , I mean u did fuck her right ..????????????? and also tell her that you hope the 10 orgasm you gave her were enjoyable too her ..and next time itll be 25 .. that you plan on being a repeat bf ... dude use the hobby talk ... and when you pick her up does she answer the door in her undies bet she does ...lol ..
Posted By: TheHoundOfCullin
Hi everybody
Have you ever dated a girl you thought was keeping a secret from you?
A provider type of secret?
Ladies? If you dated a guy.
How would you go about telling him what you do?
Guys?
Would you be okay with her never telling you?
The reason I ask is because I'm dating a woman I'm pretty sure is some type of provider.
Actually.. I think she is a Sugar Baby..
All signs say yes..
I'm no veteran.. But I can spot a provider when I see one..
Should I ask her? Or just ride the wave?
I want to ask her. I hate secrets, and lies..
So I am compelled to ask.
I shouldn't even be asking advice like this on a Fuck Bord like this..
I could use some good advice though...
Ironically. This is the place to ask.
It'll be Rod.
That's his trademark move.
I'll bet that HoC asked her to go ACG and RACG the first date. Rod wouldn't have asked...too impolite.
Posted By: Back_In_Black
allow for the usual shit ....dawg , is she a 10 .....and how are her skills , I mean u did fuck her right ..????????????? and also tell her that you hope the 10 orgasm you gave her were enjoyable too her ..and next time itll be 25 .. that you plan on being a repeat bf ... dude use the hobby talk ... and when you pick her up does she answer the door in her undies bet she does ...lol ..
Posted By: TheHoundOfCullin
Hi everybody
Have you ever dated a girl you thought was keeping a secret from you?
A provider type of secret?
Ladies? If you dated a guy.
How would you go about telling him what you do?
Guys?
Would you be okay with her never telling you?
The reason I ask is because I'm dating a woman I'm pretty sure is some type of provider.
Actually.. I think she is a Sugar Baby..
All signs say yes..
I'm no veteran.. But I can spot a provider when I see one..
Should I ask her? Or just ride the wave?
I want to ask her. I hate secrets, and lies..
So I am compelled to ask.
I shouldn't even be asking advice like this on a Fuck Bord like this..
I could use some good advice though...
Ironically. This is the place to ask.
Wait, it might be too impolite to ask the sea to part itself so he'll prolly post about it here first. Get the board's opinion and all you know?
Nothing wrong with being polite I guess.
STFU, read her p411 page for her menu options and stick it every chance you get. 
Does she make you wear a condom when you guys do it together?
Do you recall ever catching (std) anything from her?
Does she go out at random times during the week?
When was the last time she went to the ATM to withdraw cash,
or is she usually loaded with cash?
Does she frequently get money orders or purchase / reload pre-paid cards
Yes randomly dissapears.
Lots of cash.
Never saw any prepaid cards.
I've only met her 4 times. So there is a lot I don't know.
You said you haven't had sex yet... That is probably because you have not dropped the envelope yet. SB or Pro, sounds likely she is some type of provider. Just drop the envelope full of Benjamin's and when she immediately goes down to unbuckle your pants and start the Best BBBJ ever, you will definitely no for sure... Enjoy!
I kinda HAD to tell him out of love and respect and shit.
But I came right out and told him.
I do agree that if she's making you use a condom and you guys have been together for a while, that's a damn good sign as well as the going out at random times.
I think you should just ask her point blank.
Dear Alice:
Although you knew the question would come up inevitably, how did you think that you would be able to broach the situation when it came up? Also when did you start thinking that he was going to ask and also were you prepared for the emotional fallout if he responded negatively? Also when you became immersed in the business were you prepared to be single for an extended period of time because you knew only a small minority of men could handle someone who is actively working in the industry? Finally what advice would you have for someone who is thinking about having a civilian life while actively participating in the hobby?
Neither of them asked me. I just came out and told them both after I did some soul searching which lead to me knowing that these two people should have the option to stay with me or leave me if they know what risk we'd all be taking.
The younger one blew the fuck up for about 30 minutes and then he finally calmed down and now he's settled into a very supportive role.
The older one didn't bat an eye when I told him and he's been supportive and very interested from a business standpoint since day one. He often asks questions about the business side as well as other aspects.
I got extremely lucky with these two. I prepared myself for both of them to leave me but they both stayed... I can't really say much on the 'expecting to be alone' part.
My advice to someone wanting a civilian life is to find someone SMART and find someone who LOVES you. If you have those two qualities, the rest shouldn't matter to anyone.
Even my mother, sister, and younger brother know what I do. If they LOVE you, in my opinion, they won't care.
Posted By: Duplicitouslust
Dear Alice:
Although you knew the question would come up inevitably, how did you think that you would be able to broach the situation when it came up? Also when did you start thinking that he was going to ask and also were you prepared for the emotional fallout if he responded negatively? Also when you became immersed in the business were you prepared to be single for an extended period of time because you knew only a small minority of men could handle someone who is actively working in the industry? Finally what advice would you have for someone who is thinking about having a civilian life while actively participating in the hobby?
What makes you think, sugar babes(your GF) are/is not reviewed on this site?
Check her left foot, between the 3rd & 4th toe for a six digit code.
of course you might have to pay her first...
There's your sign.
If you ASK her directly, she might dishonestly deny it. Then, though you still wouldn't KNOW anything more than you do now, you would be in the position of participating in the lie by buying into it. When a person has reason to lie, they want the person they're lying to to buy the lie; To SAY that you believe they are telling the truth when you are very certain they are not. Whether this is just a mechanism (not premeditated) or a tactic (part of a larger control plan) the result on YOU will be the same. You'll have to become a liar with her. Not good.
"Truth is the Daughter of Time..." WS, Richard III act 1
If you ignore the "signs" and say nothing, sooner or later the truth will become obvious, and-- if indeed she IS a provider-- she won't be able to deny it.
There's also the chance that you're wrong. In that case the truth will also be realized in time.
By saying nothing, you can watch things develop without actually announcing any position of your own.
I know you don't want to play this situation as a game, but by playing dumb you are actually able to remove yourself from the game. Or at least it will be the only move you'll have to make for a while, and if the situation evolves to a point where a different move is required of you, you'll have more knowledge about the situation and you'll know and understand her better. So you'll know what to do. Your vision will be clearer. Your understanding more complete. You'll be wiser in your response.
Facing such a situation, with the element of doubt, play dumb until you see what develops.
Mom and I have been worried.
Plus when I date. I don't see escorts so I try not to read or post the boards.
then Google & Tin Eye them. Also Google her phone number. I avoid all the drama by asking the question on the first date. It's gotten me out of a lot of relationships in the very early stages.
