why the alias , how do i know your a provider .. answer

these 3 questions correctly and I will answer yours.
1. how much is the average hotel in the larger cities  
2. how many condoms are in a jumbo pack of Trojan
3. most popular lube used by the ter girls  

You're giving a discount off your normal 24 hour rate for travels so it gives incentive for people to fly you around.  If you want less dumb excuses, then maybe give a couple of hours longer time.... or a bit more discount? I guess, better to experiment around and find what works.  

btw, have we met before?  you sound a bit familiar.....

I "flew in" a lady from SF area who I'd seen when she lived in LA. That was several years ago, and it was expensive then, but we spent a solid 8 hours in the room, doing three separate long and spontaneous sessions in the bed. The price divided by pops was pretty decent, if that's how you'd want to look at it, but just being with her was a value-added treat in itself.

So now there is one woman whom I would REALLY like to visit for a long session, and am trying to decide if I should go to her city or bring her to mine. It would be a more costly arrangement than the other such experiment, but... And... Never been with her yet, so maybe... There's an element of risk.

There are some women who you can't get completely out of your head until you've fully tasted and explored them. Sometimes the feeling gets to be, God, if I could just have that body for a couple of hours, maybe I wouldn't want it so badly. But of course, even if a good session works that way, gets her out of your system, there'll soon be another body-- if ONLY a body with a blurred face-- that will get under the skin.

So, yes, don't hesitate to charge what you need, because the man that needs YOU-- and not just a local, similar type-- needs you BADLY!  But for Christ's sake, make his dreams come true when you get there. Really...

I can just see them when they make their rounds to DC area (good thing we get lot of visiting ladies), or if I really want to see someone that bad, I can just book a ticket and fly to see them.  

Over the years, I've heard way too many horror stories of women flaking out in the type of arrangement you describe.  Also, when I am flying to meet someone, if something goes wrong and the appointment doesn't happen (for whatever reasons...), I can always replace her with someone else.  

If I can afford to fly her in, I am sure I can afford (in fact it would be a lot cheaper at times) to fly to her city..

Do you consider yourself more in the high volume or low volume group?

The reason I ask is that I have flown women to NY/DC area, and have never had to pay the 24-hour rate. I usually see them for 3-4 hours in total (either all at once, or two times over 2 or three days).  

In one case, the lady was truly low volume. Me seeing her for three hours met her normal financial goal. I covered her plane ticket (most can be gotten for around $300 or less), and one night in the hotel. She made a bit of a vacation of the trip, staying a few more days to sight see, and she also saw a couple more guys. It gave her the chance to see the city for the first time, and get enough confidence to come back again on her own for a tour and sight see.  

In another case, the lady was high volume. If you see her site, her schedule breaks down by specific hours she is still available on a given day when she tours (which belies her 'I am low-volume' type text on her 'About me' page, but I'll save commenting on that creaky logic for another day.)   For her, coming to my city was more about me asking her to come on specific days, and saving specific times for me. I covered the cost of 2 days of the hotel I wanted to see her at, in addition to multi hour, multi day dates with her. Again, no 24-hour rate. She was going to see another 3+ guys each day.  

In both cases it was a 'Win-win' situation, without it ever feeling too 'transactional'.  

I myself have also flown thousands of miles to spend a weekend with a lady, but it was never "X" days times her daily rate. We had met before, and the days I was going to be there I wanted her to 'Tour Guide' me. So she knew I wasn't going to ask for 24 hour non-stop hanky-panky. She had a couple hours a day to do her 'work organizing'. The feel was more of meeting up with a Lover since we slept at her place, and did some local touristy things in between nice meals.  
 
So, it really depends on what else you plan to do 'hobby wise' when in the city, your interest in the other city, and other activities you may do with the man. If you enjoy his company, factoring in the cost of other activities (restaurants, shows, etc.) may be coming into play in his mind.

In the end it is Time & Money. Multiples variables with each, in my experience, allows for many possible 'Win-Win' scenarios if people are willing to think outside the box a bit.

I would expect to pay your rate from Airport departure until you arrive back at your airport of departure (scheduled flight of course, neither of us can anticipate delays). I expect to pay for your transportation to and from the airport to where we'll be meeting. I expect to pay for your lodging, (no one should have to sleep with me, I snore like a bear). I expect to pay for any meals and entertainment.

So based upon that information, I suspect you've already figured out that I've never flown a lady in to see me, lol. I'd much rather just travel to your city, get a room have fun and call it a day.

I would never approach such an idea as I have plenty of local faves but I'm guessing that the guys who blew you off simply had no idea what to expect as far as your rate quote.  Don't know why but some guys are just clueless when it comes to anything beyond booking an hour with a woman.  They see your picture, profile, reviews and start to fantasize about seeing you.  The cold hard reality of shelling out two or three grand to do it is another story...

I agree with others who said that two inquiries is not an adequate sampling to judge whether your rate might be too high.

Who the f...k wants to spend an entire day with a women!!! I don't get this isht! It's like guys who want multiple wives, why ... 1 is a headache , holy isht could you imagine the erection killing life sapping affliction that would be multiple wives.

I usually just do the amount of time I'm going to see them, plus the cost of the ticket and maybe $200 if it's going to be a long day at the airport. That may not be the "best" way to do it, but I don't have people say "sorry that doesn't work" very often, and I'd rather just see one person a day for several hours, so I don't mind spending a couple of hours at the airport.  

Make sure that you get a green dot money pak to pay for the flight yourself though. You don't want to have your information out there, and you don't want to take their word on giving you the money when you get there. Plus, if something happens or they cancel, you're not stuck with the bill for the flight.

Over something that's not going to happen.

Would *I* do something like that? Nope. I prefer to meet the provider first in person BEFORE I actually spend all kinds of money on her.

At that point, if we clicked, I *may* consider doing something like this. The provider really, really would have to bang up service to convince me.  

With a country full of beautiful women around, especially close to where I live, I never had the need to go that route.  

No need for me to branch out...

The Forest Waits