Finally after months of trying I am going to meet the woman of my dreams a week from now. The problem that I am having is that I am so anxious that I am having trouble doing anything but thinking about what is coming up. It has reached the point where I can barely function because I am so excited. What in the world can I do to calm down?
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If I was THAT anxious, I'd beat my monkey several times til it can't even get up any more.
I'd also see another girl before seeing her just to get some tension off.
No other way really. The best meditation is the relaxation that cums after a steamy hot session with at least one pop or masturbation with at least 3 pops. Take a hot bath afterwords. 
She's nowhere near as excited to meet you as you are to meet her. She's in it for the money. She's just very good at making you think otherwise. But if you persist in your fantasy, you'll follow many guys who've "fallen for a provider and can't get up."
In other words, you desperately need a reality check.
8th multi-hour encounter, she revealed that she was in drama while in high school. Maybe that training as well as her skills between the sheets is what helps her be successful in P4P. After all, some say part of being a good provider is being a good actress.
Every women here is in it for the money or they would be fucking old out of shape men for free. She may not even know who you are until she checks her calendar a couple of days before and sees a name and a time. Every move she makes, smile, gesture etc is part of her JOB. If she makes you feel amazing, she is doing her JOB very well.
She maybe the woman of your dreams, you are another john to her, maybe a john she grows to like depending on how the visit goes, but a john none the less. One her many. many johns she sees, who pay her to be with them. A reality check.
Enjoy it for what it is, paid companionship.
When that day do come try to relax and certainly don't put her up on a pedestal that could put unnecessary pressure on her. Just be yourself and and fun.
You're hobby is her job, and so far it appears she's doing a good job.
make sure you have a good supply of clean shorts..pre-cum can be a bitch..
Have girls in civvie life you can enjoy too. ....break up this apparent extra time and mental energy you seam to have.
Spring colors are out now go get some new clothes. You need to hobby and get out more. Do you never do this? Your anti ipating anxiously week in advance, omg. Thats creepy! I wouldnt act obsessed or whatever your go.na annoy and or scare the girl. Its sexy when they are confident.
And it's not a bad answer, actually.
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May be you haven't reached adult hod yet. It is mental thing you know.
Never had anxiety problems.
He's just asking the board cuz he's excited about his date with the dream girl and you come along trying to burst his bubble?
Is your life THAT miserable you need to constantly be mean to people?
AF is mean and miserable, and is mean to newbs who don't deserve it.
I will say that this thread does belong on the Newbie board for the sake of the OP himself, posting stuff like this on GD opens the poor guy to this kind of abuse which could chase him off the site after only a post or two.
Think not Shit Head- GaG..
Nothing to be miserable about. May be you do. Forgot, you always are.
Is yours?
Since you seem to have an anxiety attack problem, you haven't reached adulthood yet.
Go sulk yourself.
Most of us figure you look something like this
THAT WAS F0CKING FUNNY!
The shit head club #2
Silver, the kind you sip and NEVER throw back in a shot glass.
Or Legal Moonshine, 125 proof three grain.
You could do your taxes. Rearrange tour garage. Volunteer at a homeless shelter. By a FAST motorcycle and cruise the interstates in Nevada faster than 110mph. buy the movie Fear and Loathing in Las Vegass.........better buy both of them, get some either, poppers, Reds!!, crystal meth, some LSD or peyote, and an oz of medical grade dope and watch the movies around 40-50 times.
Deprived and derranged
if you are new to this world.
Just remember, she may be the woman "in" your dreams, but she can hardly be the woman "of" them (because you don't really know diddly squat about her). That said, if she is well reviewed and you are a gentleman you should have a good time.
How to relieve the anxiety? Go for a run, or go to the gym. Will expend energy, and release endorphins. May also help give you that little extra edge of confidence that you are at your best when you meet her.