Excluding Vegas (as mosy guys there will already have a hotel room and a bevy of sexy ladies to select from)...
IF you live close to a large city (i.e. Indy, Chicago, Orlando, SF, Austin, Denver) AND you are planning on one night (or day) that you want to arrange to meet a lady.
What does a provider prefer ?
What do other Gents do ?
Do you get a room all booked and then call ladies to see which you want to see ?
Do you look for ladies in the city that have Incalls available ?
Do the ladies prefer the Gent to get the room ?, even if the lady is just visiting
the reason I ask, is that I have a vacation day coming up adn I really want to see a nice, reviewed provider. I feel more nervous visiting a ladies incall place (due to all LE crap) - than using my own room......but I am not sure if a lady prefers to have her own room, then she is all clean, ready and does not have to worry about transport to the gents hotel...
I went through this 4 months ago and ended up not doing anything and waited till I was back in vegas. I have no new Vegas trips planned, so i have to decided Room or ladies Incall ???
I do not mind getting a room, or coming to the client it is all personal preference & I will do either to accommodate seeing a true gent.
different scenarios and too many to list here that could work for you. As a travelling companion myself to major cities, I think you can't go wrong with a reputable provider who provides incall in an upscale hotel or outcall by the gentleman in the same breath (an upscale hotel). I do it quite often in both scenarios and it has worked fine, especially meeting first in a public place getting to know one another. It is rare, though I have, visited a gentleman's home, but yes it has happened. I prefer the other personally. Only if I know him now will I consider that route.
It really depends on what 'you're' really comfortable with in the end. If you're not comfortable in one scenario (which it sounds like) it will distract from your time or build up your anxiety til you get there and well that's no fun. Find someone you are comfortable communicating with and go from there ultimately. There are lots of flavors here, so you certainly aren't shy of variety in that sense.
I wish you luck. Go get'em. 
I told you I would do this, and I am a man of my word. Good post.
I can only add that I would definitely book the appointment first and book the room second. One other thing the OP might want to consider is some kind of a backup plan if his original date has to cancel.
Now by backup plan I DON'T mean double booking as you are almost sure to do to one of the women exactly what you don't want done to you, but you might consider contacting an agency to see if they might have someone available on short notice if your date can't make it and you have already paid for a room.
Personally I like incalls, especially if the lady is a good hostess, but that's me, and we are talking about your tastes not mine.
See I can be nice, at least when you aren't being Tardlor
April Fools Day.
And my name is Taylor LMAO. You two tarts call me that ridiculous name for your own personal silliness. Nobody else does in case you hadn't noticed, at least I haven't. Which of course only makes me giggle. And no, I'm not laughing with you, I'm laughing at you I post all 'April Fools Like' everyday when there are real posters asking real questions, not that you'd care to notice. You see what you want to see Frack. Nick is Frick.
Speaking of such a thing, when are you booking with me? I'll be sure to give you first dibs over Frick, I mean Nick.
coming and the feet keep massaging, that works for me. Btw, you wouldn't call me Tard in bed would ya? You might get slapped, although I have a sneaky suspicion you might like it. Oh, I don't know, just a hunch.
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I'll just visit their incall. Getting your own room sounds like a huge pain in the ass, not to mention expensive. If you're worried about LE, make sure you're visiting ladies that have a number of reviews from guys that have written a number of reviews. Or visit someone you've met before. This should mitigate your risk.
When I'm visiting a city, I have the room anyway and it's most likely a decent hotel so I sometimes do an outcall if her multi hour rates aren't all that much different from her incall rates.
I think doing an incall versus outcall would depend on how long of an appointment I'm booking, price difference, and if it's a longer appointment it would at least partly be based on whoever has a nicer room (over nights are more fun with a nice hot tub, nicely decorated room, and etc).
It doesn't matter much to a typical guy as long as it's not a run down slum with roaches crawling but most people like to stay at a nicer one if given the option especially if it's already paid for.
Worries about LE is honestly at the far bottom of my worries especially when seeing a well-reviewed girl in a very crowded city like vegas.
Just book the trip already and see that girl you wanted to see. If she's got a bunch of recent reviews from people you can trust, you're going to be fine.
in Chicago the remainder of the year. In Chicago personally I prefer a man to come to my in call location. I will go to a hotel if its early however, hotel security, camera's myself I feel safer at my own home. In Vegas its the opposite you can come to me there or I can come to your hotel.
If you do an incall, she'll bitch about having to clean her place up first!
If you invite her to your room she'll go on and on about traffic and parking!
She's going to nag you to do the opposite of WHATEVER you want!
Just FedEx the fucking envelope and drink beet!
