other things can be corrected. If you are really digging her, explain her what she lacked in the session and how you have better expectations from someone you are paying to perform.  If you don't voice your concerns, she may not realize that anything was amiss or might take things she screwed up too lightly.  

I don't know what "annoyance" you are talking about, and whether it can be a deal breaker or not depends on what it is/was. So can't comment on unknown.

I have actually gone back to couple of girls at discounted rates, and gotten good sessions out of an initial rocky start...

The let down was based on lack of communication. I look like a one and done Guy but most times if it is one it is more. So I plan on returning just to see if she is all that.  Don't think I will be disappointed. Don't look, there is no review.

... the annoyances were different and there were several. However I was able to look past them and have a good time.... after a brief greeting she went back to eating her bagel, the bathroom was strewn with used towels, when I emerged and was ready for action she was chewing gum, when I wanted to sit in an easy chair for a bj I had to ask her to remove all her personal shit. And finally as we approached the end she reminded me of the time which I am always very well aware of. I must be one of the few who actually prefer a clock in plain view so I can pace myself accordingly.  

Afterwards I wrote her and tactfully but clearly stated the problems. I told her it was bad marketing and lack of professionalism and that while I was willing to give her a second chance many others would not. She was pretty new and appreciated the advice. At least she said she did. Never did see her again as she doesn't come to NY very often.

Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results

Correct me if I'm wrong, but when you hobby, don't you block out a weekend, travel to another state, pay for a hotel along with 3-4 hours with the lady? That's a big commitment for being on the fence. If you could just drop by her incall for an hour or two, then yes you should give her another chance as you're not losing much if it doesn't pan out. In my experience, the second visit is always better.

If she claims she was having an "off day" and promised to do better, then maybe. If OTOH she has the attitude of "what was wrong with my performance" then I wouldn't even consider giving her a second chance as she has no motivation to do better.

'annoyance' Springer? You mentioned it twice. I'm simply curious. And I'd say if you 'thought' about it, sure why not see her again, but remember, we aren't robots here.

Many moons ago a professor in business class i was taking made the statement that if you do not let a business know you are not satisfied with their service or product, they do not know you are not satisfied with the business arrangement.

for me it was a "Well-DUHH" moment. sorta like some girls I dated who would let me know something was wrong--I shuda known!! Even though mind reading isn't anything I’ve ever claimed I can do.

when I managed a retail profit center for a multinational company I was always aware that someone who took the time to let me know they thought we could do a lot better, especially if they were calm, not accusatory, was giving valuable information to me.  How many times did someone simply resolve to NEVER return again?  When I finally realized extremely ANGRY!!@ people were not angry at me, growing up being around an ANGRY adult was DANGEROUS, I could just listen and try and figure out if there was any way to solve the problem.  some times I had to simply state i understood how they felt, but my employer had a policy against doing what they demanded. so, if I did it, i would have to explain why i didn't follow their rules--did I knowingly choose to ignore their rules.  sometimes people understood while I may have wanted to help, I wouldn't risk my employment.

As to what I would do, I'm not focused on what is important to you because it isn't for me.

Consider a frank discussion with what makes a good relationship for you—if there are critical things make sure your partner knows they are key issues for you. If they are not comfortable with your expectations they have an opportunity to let you know ahead of time.  Consider agreeing upon contacting each other to verify you are both on track, and what will happen if not?

To bring it back to a business relationship, sometimes the best ones are when both parties are well informed and clearly understand their responsibilities and have a game plan for contingencies.

Recently I sent a small item that I wasn't using to a woman I had met and included a note explaining my disappointment and asked her to contact me to chat about it, and summed it up by stating if I didn't hear from her, I'd assume she was satisfied with how things went—never heard from her.

I don't know if she was satisfied with our meeting, didn't care, or if she didn't feel comfortable talking about it? Either way, it wouldn't lead to another meeting.

Another wise old man once remarked that if your day isn't going as planned, turn it into an adventure.  My meeting with the mentioned woman was an adventure. Sometimes I wind up in adventures; sometimes days go as I had envisioned.  

Happy Hunting

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