Well, since you are currently struggling with being verified, my best advice to you would be :
1. Research, research, research. You can figure out ages, photos (if current), and other info if you divulge through a provider'a history. Example: A provider who claims she is 20 years old, but has reviews dating back to 2009, is lying. If she started at 18, she would be 24 at minimum. The more research, the more you can usually find.
I only recommend this advice to you, particularly, because you had previously posted that you are experiencing verification Issues.
How do you write a review when the lady in the ad is about 15 years older and not even close to her photos anymore. Better yet what are you suppose to do when you show up and this is going on. Its clear the lady ad is touched up and not interested so both of you feel safe and alright with it.
Well, since you are currently struggling with being verified, my best advice to you would be :
1. Research, research, research. You can figure out ages, photos (if current), and other info if you divulge through a provider'a history. Example: A provider who claims she is 20 years old, but has reviews dating back to 2009, is lying. If she started at 18, she would be 24 at minimum. The more research, the more you can usually find.
2. If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all.
I only recommend this advice to you, particularly, because you had previously posted that you are experiencing verification Issues.
Thanks for all advice. I was cleared actually vy the girl just took way longer then normal. And she had teviews and i based me visiting her off of them. The reviews were newer too. I do investigate alot just as all of you do with us.
So what is the the best way to exit the situation tho not wanting the services when you arrive. So both of feel safe and ok with it. You left my 2 part question out.
1. Research, research, research. You can figure out ages, photos (if current), and other info if you divulge through a provider'a history. Example: A provider who claims she is 20 years old, but has reviews dating back to 2009, is lying. If she started at 18, she would be 24 at minimum. The more research, the more you can usually find.
2. If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all.
I only recommend this advice to you, particularly, because you had previously posted that you are experiencing verification Issues.
If its an incall when the door opens and she's not the girl in the picture, or the pix aren't accurate, it's your choice to leave or continue with the date. If you continue, you owe it to the community to tell us she's hiding behind old pix.
If it's an outcall to you, it can be more uncomfortable. You might consider giving her some cash for her trouble before you send her on her way, but you risk a scene.
Remember, we rely on reviews just as you did in making the date. Perpetuating falsehood isn't cool.
Criticism is part of reviews (or at least, fair and impartial ones). As long as it's accurate and respectfully phrased, then it's useful information. That's exactly what reviews are for.
But, as others said, when a lady makes an exception for you - by giving you extra time off-the-clock, or extending some other favor not normally offered to the general public - keep it to yourself. By putting it in a public review, you're ensuring that EVERY client will now expect the same thing. So just thank her privately for whatever little thing she did for you, and don't make it part of the review.
As for what to do when you open the door, and she's 15 years older than her photos - simply tell her that the photos were not even slightly accurate, and that this isn't what you'd expected. Then, walk away. If you wan to try to mollify her, as others have said, you might want to extend a token sum for the time she set aside for you. But that's not really necessary, and some would say it only rewards her for the deception.
If you are fair and HONEST with your reviews you will earn the respect of your fellow hobbyist. As long as you are not mean or rude and dont comeoff as a hateful prick the ladies will understand poor reviews. 15 year old pics are deception.... IMHO you have no obligation to continue with the date.
exactly!
and one other thing... if her recent reviews are good, It could be that she was having a really bad hair day or something... lol.
honestly, I would contact a few of the other reviewers and ask them if they are sight impaired.
as far as scoring goes... I hate it when someone raves about how beautiful I am or how fantastic the experience was and the only gives me a 7.
i'm always grateful when I get an 8 & I remind the fellas that I was at least an 8 when they got there-it's not my fault they mussed up my hair and smeared my makeup off during the 9/10 session
hahahah
Unfortunately, Missy, the frustrating thing about the TER rating system is that "conditions" are applied to any rating over a 7, and often moderators will throw back an 8 or a 9 review if reviewers don't adhere to those standards.
The ratings rules say: "An escort provider is only eligible to earn up to a 7, unless she is willing to perform one or some of the following during a session: Kisses With Tongue, Bare-Back Blow Job, Really Bi, and Anal Sex. For each of these services that are offered, her potential max score is raised by one point, with 10 as an absolute maximum."
This sort of conditional rating system is downright silly. I've had experiences in the past where the woman provided a 8, 9, or 10 level session, but because there was no tongue kissing, BBBJ, or anal sex, I was forced to give the provider a lower rating.
My mama always said that if you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all.
I would write up a ripoff, but if you played, then you were positive enough to stick around. Besides, Sophia Loren may be over 30, but she is still one hot woman!
Be honest in a tactful way. The other posts here responding that if you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all are pure BS.
This is a review site, that you pay for. When I go on and look at a review and I see 9/9 or 10/9, I click on the reviewer's name and almost invariably, he has a list of reviews that are ALL 9s and 10s. What is the point????
I recently reentered the hobby after a 3 year absence, most of the reviewers that I trusted I'm not sure are still around. (christophertrac is one that is, however, glad to see he is still here!!!! great resource), fortunately I still remember how to navigate through the maze of white knight reviews.
The appearance reviews are what really get me. I know - different strokes for different folks - but again, if you are going to give everyone a 9 or a 10, what is the point? A 7 still means attractive, a 6 means nice.
I recently met with a girl who is pretty popular - probably because she is young, has a cute GND look and is VERY enthusiastic in performance. But the appearance ratings just threw me for a loop. Yes, she could be cute - but there were some very significant things adversely affecting her appearance. For anyone to throw out a 9 or 10 there - well that is just not being honest. I submitted my review and I gave a 6, and, honestly, in real life, that was being generous.
There is a way to be honest and still have tact. We pay money to this site for the honesty, if I want a white knight review I can just read the BP ad, lol.
Sorry, to be blunt, but DEMJay, write the review and say the pictures were "very dated, she was probably very attractive when she was younger," something like that.
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