After a hard day of meetings and presentations, I got back to my hotel room and decided to take a look at EROS. To my surprise, there were quite a few ladies with exotic names like Giordano, Bellasmo, and exotic numbers like Fort Lauderdale, Los Angeles, and New York. They all professed to be well educated and well travelled. Photos were immaculate with long flowing hair and smooth skin. There were no reviews. My antenna immediately went up. I gave one of them a call and decided to meet in the hotel lobby instead of my room. She appeared and did not look like the lady in the photos. If she was, the photos were probably taken years ago. I could tell that she was a local Trenton/Camden whore pretending to be what she was not. Luckily, we did not meet in my room. I simply walked away. A quick review of Backpage and saw the same individual advertising full service for $150, and she was charging $400 on EROS. The moral of the story is if it sounds too good to be true, it probably is. If you are not so sure about the person, better to meet in a public venue, instead of your room. Less hassle and argument! Buyers Beware!
there are hundreds of good providers to be found in the Philly/SJ area by simply searching reviews on TER. Same on P411 and the other verification sites. Of the 75 escorts on the site you mention in your OP, almost every one is established and reviewed, or from a reputable agency.
YOU chose to take the risk of an unreviewed provider when hundreds of other options were available to you, and then feign surprise that there are fakes and scams on escort ad sites? You have 20+ reviews and should already know that!
I can empathize with the last minute desire and disappointment, but it's hard to sympathize fully when you ignored all the warnings and didn't use your head BEFORE making that call. Isn't that a more forwarding moral/lesson to take away from your experience?
If you absolutely MUST take those risks, at least minimize them by getting really, really good at googling pics and phone numbers, cross-referencing many escort-related sites and networking for info. And of course, realize that it is your choice to take the risk and odds are that sometimes you will lose the bet.
Note: I am NOT condoning or justifying the fake/scammer here. Just acknowledging that they exist and we can minimize the risks of being taken.
Even with that and seeing it wasn't the girl in the pics it's still better to be a gentleman. When we met it was for a double and first thing you asked my doubles partner who has all great reviews, and a husky voice was " Are you a Man?". Lol that set the tone right there. Lol Not giving you a hard time but sometimes it's wise to choose your words carefully. 
Friendly advice! Hope all is well.
Is what it seems a lot of gentlemen think. I've stopped answering requests from people who aren't polite and respectful. At least once a day I get texts like "what's up" or "hey" or even just a random "do you know what a cuckold is?"
I answer them all the same. Even though I request payment for my time, I'm still a lady and I expect to be treated like one. Basic manners go a long way.
If we're offended, or annoyed then chances are the session isn't going to be knock your socks off amazing. It's in everybody's best interest to treat one another with respect, courtesy and consideration. If I was your doubles partner I woulda been in a shitty mood the whole time.
About a year ago I had a regular tell me "your getting a little loose, need to get back in the gym" during the whole appointment that sentence went through my head. It was the last time I saw him. Our schedules never matched. Back when I first started I didn't think I could afford to turn away people or speak my mind, now I know I can't afford not to
It's practically impossible to be intimate with someone who has been disrespectful and rude. I won't do it anymore either.
Thank goodness most TER guys are better than this.