Just because my TER profile states a certain services does not mean ever client, or session will contain all acts listed. Some reviews are fantasy meaning fake, or false. I see plenty of 10/10's on Dommes who do not offer full-service, so they must be a lie. TER has never been BDSM friendly as far as reviews are concerned. I have had slaves contact me stating they wrote me a review & submitted as 10/10 because they believed me to be a trye Goddess only to gave the rating adjusted by TER because I should not receive a 10/10 as a non-bbbj, anal, or cim provider. I believe all reviews are just what TER states fantasy because I know fs providers who do not offer the same services & they have no problem getting 10/10's all the time. The rating & reviews here are a game that can be played by new reviewers & providers. If I was just starting in this business getting all 10/10's would be easy.
When I started years ago I never new about the rating system here & did not care about my reviews, but in the last 3 years I have tried hard to improve my score it is a battle I will never win this late in the game. I wish TER was not, so vanilla, but the fact is the majority of hobbists are looking for escorts who bbbj. Being a Domina is not widely accepted her on TER. We should get extra points for the kinky caca we do too! lol Smile 4 me!reviews.
BDSM providers seem to be at risk of getting short changed by TER's review guidelines. (That is understandable, the site is primarily focused on full service providers.) A perfectly good session with a Domme could only get as much as a 7 for performance... or less! It is too bad there isn't a sub-category for BDSM services with a different set of review guidelines. How do reviewers here manage to give appropriate scores for great BDSM services without violating TER's review guidelines meant for full service providers?
That's why I have just the one review here; a lot of my BDSM sessions hardly qualify for review.
That being said, if you're a BDSM only provider, the highest you can get is generally a 7; in order to get anything higher, you have to participate in more full service-oriented activities.
This is where the actual session review details come into play. If someone is interested in me for bdsm, they'll read the review. it's decently accurate. If they like the review, they'll message me.
So, play by the rules as far as the numbers scale goes. It's silly (why should I only be allowed a 7 when the session might have been a 9 or a 10 in regards to what my client was looking for?), but that's how it works here.
Take care,
Erin
Just because my TER profile states a certain services does not mean ever client, or session will contain all acts listed. Some reviews are fantasy meaning fake, or false. I see plenty of 10/10's on Dommes who do not offer full-service, so they must be a lie. TER has never been BDSM friendly as far as reviews are concerned. I have had slaves contact me stating they wrote me a review & submitted as 10/10 because they believed me to be a trye Goddess only to gave the rating adjusted by TER because I should not receive a 10/10 as a non-bbbj, anal, or cim provider. I believe all reviews are just what TER states fantasy because I know fs providers who do not offer the same services & they have no problem getting 10/10's all the time. The rating & reviews here are a game that can be played by new reviewers & providers. If I was just starting in this business getting all 10/10's would be easy.
When I started years ago I never new about the rating system here & did not care about my reviews, but in the last 3 years I have tried hard to improve my score it is a battle I will never win this late in the game. I wish TER was not, so vanilla, but the fact is the majority of hobbists are looking for escorts who bbbj. Being a Domina is not widely accepted her on TER. We should get extra points for the kinky caca we do too! lol Smile 4 me!
Thank you both, ladies. The reason I asked is because I am about to take the plunge with my first BDSM provider, and I was confused as to how to give her a fair review (if she wants one) when TER guidelines don't give credit for "kinky caca." ~lol~ I was just a little curious until I contacted her on a whim, and I am amazed at how powerful a connection I have with a very intelligent and beautiful dominant woman. This whole D/s thing is way beyond any thrill I anticipated, and we haven't even met in person yet. I would want to give her 10/10 just based on was has transpired through email, texting, and Twitter. and I can't believe what it would be after we meet face to face. Needless to say, I want to do right by her after I meet her face to face and if or when I post a review.
Totally agree. This was one of my earliest posts when I was the former moderator of this board. See the string for interesting comments and input from others.
The consensus seemed to be that we won't be able to change the TER scores, but you have some flexibility in the text portion of the reviews to correct it (i.e., "I'm rating 7/10 due to TER guidelines, but, in my book, Mistress Magnificent was a 10/10 for BDSM services.").