When a lady responds to my appointment request with a little flirty repartee it only helps to set the anticipation!  I love those exchanges, but would never want them to escalate to anything too explicit.  For one thing, it's not really my style.  For another, I'd just as soon leave all that for behind closed doors activity.

Now, I am noticing that many ladies are trending towards using assistants, so there is very little actual direct communication before the day of the appointment.  I do understand the appeal, but lament the loss of opportunity of actually conversing and setting the tone early with my lady of choice.

I am friendly, quick to the point and concise in my booking. But I am friendly and lightly flirty I think. But it's not an invitation for Sexting or the like. If we haven't bet yet I would prefer we met first. Plus I have a lot going on I would hate for you to be going for something and I leave you hanging. Lol  

   Secondly some men aren't that good at flirting via email or text. Many times it turns explicit. Last night a client who I have met texted me at 1AM for an appointment and I was just about to fall asleep. Well I was trying to fall asleep and I picked up my phone. Yes I know I should not go to the bed with the phone but I like a game or two if Candy Crush before I drift off.  

  So client is like " I am horny", since you arner available I will have to beat my meat.  I reply " okay enjoy ". And he says " I just exploded all over myself ". I then replied " yeayyyyyy". LOL Amd then said good night.  

  I noticed when I woke up this morning and checked my phone he had texted again " I blew my load again ". This time I did not reply and instead just deleted it.

 I totally undertstand that when you are horny you are horny and in the mood. Maybe you don't realize how it comes off to say to someone in a random message " Aaahhhh I blew my load all over the place ".  LOL I was just trying to be friendly but it definitely didn't turn me on. At all.  
 

 So my point is to be careful. Control yourself am did the provider is flirting a little innocently, it's ok to do the same back. Everything has a line.

When I receive emails from clients, it's hard to put a personality to the name without at least SOME back-and-forth flirting. To me, it's a nice way to get to know the man behind the proverbial curtain (and vice versa). Then, once I've seen each client once or twice, we give each other license to get a bit more explicit. A few have typed up long sex dreams they've had in which I was the star! It's flattering and pretty hot.

Of course, random texts like, "Oh god, I'm going to explode all over the place," like Sidney received show a decisive lack of tact. I think it's just a matter of finding the right balance and using your judgement based on the audience-- the provider. I hope this helps