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Offering submissive dates?
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I know I've posted about this before, but I wanted to get a little more vanilla experience under my belt first. In any event, I'm naturally pretty submissive BCD (which always surprises people haha) and I'd kinda like to try offering submission dates. Obviously safety is paramount, and I'd be sure to cover that base, but then what? Do I charge extra for those dates? How much? How do I advertise it? Any help would be much appreciated! Thanks, y'all!

I charge extra for BDSM dates because you're more vulnerable mentally and physically - it can be more taxing on you than a vanilla GFE date. Generally speaking, it takes just as much, if not more time to prepare for it. Also, everyone has different kinks and fetishes so you'll have to let it be known what kinda you are interested in and what you aren't interested in. Yu can advertise in the BDSM section but it can't be at the same time when you're advertising in your own state. Also, Eros has a BDSM section to advertise in.

If you have anymore questions, feel free to ask :)

Feel free to PM me. Sexylittkesubkat is also an excellent person to talk to.  

Posted By: BadCollegeGirl
I know I've posted about this before, but I wanted to get a little more vanilla experience under my belt first. In any event, I'm naturally pretty submissive BCD (which always surprises people haha) and I'd kinda like to try offering submission dates. Obviously safety is paramount, and I'd be sure to cover that base, but then what? Do I charge extra for those dates? How much? How do I advertise it? Any help would be much appreciated! Thanks, y'all!

Hey, there!  
I'm going to link you to an article on Slixa about offering professional submission as a service. The articles seem to have solid advice in them, and i thought it wouldn't hurt to share. There's actually a decent amount of information there (whether it's good or not is entirely at your discretion), so it doesn't hurt to give the blog a look-see.

Good luck with your endeavor!

-Erin Blac

I offer sub dates with clients that I've seen before, am comfortable with and that I know have some domme experience. I don't charge extra for it though I've noticed that for sub dates I get booked for two or more hours so that we can really enjoy ourselves and not rush things. Honestly I would probably make that a requirement (a two hour or more minimum) for clients that want to domme me. I also have a long list (BDSM contract) that goes over everything that I am willing to have done to me. I would have the client read over the list, discuss it and sign it before starting anything

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Good info! This is definitely something which I have also considered once I get more non-kink experience.

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